Ever fall in love with a massage girl

[torrefy]

All sincere about your money la. Even if you find one ML that don't mind you not rich and give you free care/love/sex. In the end, she will still accept other guys' gifts/money because why not.

If really you think love, you ask her stop providing the extra service or go different line of work and still be with you then that's true love.

Just need one moment, you two quarrel, sure compare you to others.

[wongqy1359]

Originally Posted by torrefy

All sincere about your money la. Even if you find one ML that don't mind you not rich and give you free care/love/sex. In the end, she will still accept other guys' gifts/money because why not.

If really you think love, you ask her stop providing the extra service or go different line of work and still be with you then that's true love.

Just need one moment, you two quarrel, sure compare you to others.

Money is everything, which is why they come into this line in the first place.

My ML told me she wanna stop working after her 2 year is up, to study or open a business back home. End up she told me she will continue working another 2 years 😂

I guess earning 5 figure a month is too good to stop 😮‍💨

[Laowang]

Originally Posted by wongqy1359

Money is everything, which is why they come into this line in the first place.

My ML told me she wanna stop working after her 2 year is up, to study or open a business back home. End up she told me she will continue working another 2 years 😂

I guess earning 5 figure a month is too good to stop 😮‍💨

Economy in china is quite bad now

The MLs don’t have much qualifications. Many are struggling to find a job back home. Even if they found a job, the pay will just be enough for their daily expenses

Guess they have no choice as well

[Moshimosh]

Originally Posted by wongqy1359

Money is everything, which is why they come into this line in the first place.

My ML told me she wanna stop working after her 2 year is up, to study or open a business back home. End up she told me she will continue working another 2 years 😂

I guess earning 5 figure a month is too good to stop 😮‍💨

They can only earn when they are young so definitely will try to reap the most when they are used to handling so much dicks daily, easy money.

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by tombabyboy

Bro.
please believe me . don do that .
Because they only want money.they have no heart.
I once saw my good friend break down and cry because he felt that a massage girl was outgoing and enthusiastic, and he felt different. He still bought things for the girl and sent her meals every day, but the girl no longer paid attention to him because she met richer customers. My friend was really sad. In fact, I think that meeting in this place was a wrong start, and there was no love at all.

Your friend cried because he really put his really heart in for her or he did not have the time to get his return in investment (FOC FJ)?

Recent convo with a viet ML also bring up your second point, whether it is the right place to meet. (in her perspective)
She confide in me that she have no idea what future is ahead for her and her child. She is hoping to meet a good man rather than working in this line forever. I told her it is wrong place to look for good man.

1) She may meet rich man wanting to be SD, boa-ing her for mid range period with few Ks a month. Usually these are married man and she will be forever be 3rd party if she fell in. This is not her long term solution. (she encounter 1 in her 1st stint and this supposingly SD MIA halfway, so she no longer believe this will work out)
2) She already approached by many single customers wanting to have bf/gf relationship. Paying few hundreds or trying to play KC just to FJ. She knows the game so will not give in or try out. This is also not her long term solution.
3) She may meet good man like me , married and not available for another 'outside' marriage. Not rich to be SD to boa her for $10K a month, but still rich enough to take care of her necessities while she work in sillypore. Not forcing for FJ but will jump on it if she give in

My advice for her is chances to meet real good man from her line of biz is very low. She got to earn as much as possible in her next 2 spass cycle max. then go back home to be a great single mum. Coming back to your 1st point about ML no heart. Not all ML no heart, they also worry to give heart to wrong person.

[lawrene]

Fully agree with your point. I also advised my regular to set a target and save enough money to go back for a normal job and normal life.
Once the ML got used to the spending habit, it is very hard to go back to normal life as they can't earn the same amount back home.

Originally Posted by KangTuo

My advice for her is chances to meet real good man from her line of biz is very low. She got to earn as much as possible in her next 2 spass cycle max. then go back home to be a great single mum. Coming back to your 1st point about ML no heart. Not all ML no heart, they also worry to give heart to wrong person.

[need_it]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

My advice for her is chances to meet real good man from her line of biz is very low. She got to earn as much as possible in her next 2 spass cycle max. then go back home to be a great single mum. Coming back to your 1st point about ML no heart. Not all ML no heart, they also worry to give heart to wrong person.

Last line is on point. Well put.

[Allenc3]

Newbie here! I think I'm nowhere near as deep compared to the many stories in this thread. But heres mine: I found a Viet ML I really liked in a cat1 spa, started pretty normal but really clicked and get along well soon after the first few visits. No FJ involved and I'm not looking for that anyways. She's mid 20s and I'm late 20s. We chat a lot, flirt, sweet/dirty talk and go past the 1 hr duration often.

Subsequently after 3-5 times visiting, theres lots of making out & kissing, DFK, cuddling, zhut & roaming everywhere etc. Was HJ w top roaming initially. Went out tgt once after working hours. The deeds we always keep it transactional, and we split the bills when we go out. I maintained paying lower than her standard rates which I'm aware of as she listed them out in the first visit.

Main thing is we both have lots of fun tgt each time. I like her a lot and want to keep it this way. I have no intentions of giving any gifts, providing more $$$ or any of that. Just here for the fun and companionship. Wouldn't say its "love" but definitely the one I have the most feelings for so far.

[Supply]

Sounds like you are in a very ideal state and spot right now.

Can enjoy the company without sinking in your heart. But it is a needle ground which tends to eventually pivot to some place else over time. Be it for better or worse, enjoy the entire course bah.

[Newsasap]

A woman never shed her tears....
I am writing a true story about my buddy that break-off with her ml recently. They had been together for 3 years, the guy. My buddy is very supportive to his ml. The guy will visit her 1 to 2 times a week for continuous 3 years,
Very consistence, even when she had her period the guy can be there to take care of her. Sometime she complain of painful mensus the guy will clock her time out and let her rest at home.
The lady will always ask the guy to buy something like goldrings and chains, this lady always go to the goldsmith and do the search herself, after she would take a pic then she ask the guy to go and buy and give her as present, but she always pick very thick one of man size and she shows the guy she is wearing on her 1st finger. One fine day the lady tell the guy that she had lost her ring and she ask for a replacement. The guy bring a replacement ring the next day and she felt relieved. Few weeks later she told the guy again she had lost again the new ring. Again the guy go and get another ring for her, this time she's pick another design of man size.
My buddy came to me 1 day and tell me his problems of missing rings. I take some time to analyse with him what went wrong with the rings. My gut feeling tells me this lady actually gives the ring to her regular customers to buy their feelings, enhance KC drama so in return the customers will get her something better. You can see how smart the lady makes her moves, making use of customer with fake KC drama.
From there on the guy starts to look for another girlfriend and ready to dump this bitch. Lately they quarrel all the time becos the guy already knew her motives and slowing the financial support to her. She also search for new targets.
The guy actually very close to her parents, he brings them around buy present for them. The family members are sincere with the relationship but the lady is a bitch toying with someone's feeling.

Many here must be curious who is this massage lady? Shock her fan.

Actually the lady makes a wrong moves, the guy do prepare a $40k to support the lady when she lost her job recently becos she needs to support her homeland parents.
The recent quarrel has hold back the money becos the guy felt she is just acting with her drama.

The guy don't felt that bad cos he has found a new girlfriend working as beautician.

[Wee0502]

Originally Posted by Newsasap

A woman never shed her tears....
I am writing a true story about my buddy that break-off with her ml recently. They had been together for 3 years, the guy. My buddy is very supportive to his ml. The guy will visit her 1 to 2 times a week for continuous 3 years,
Very consistence, even when she had her period the guy can be there to take care of her. Sometime she complain of painful mensus the guy will clock her time out and let her rest at home.
The lady will always ask the guy to buy something like goldrings and chains, this lady always go to the goldsmith and do the search herself, after she would take a pic then she ask the guy to go and buy and give her as present, but she always pick very thick one of man size and she shows the guy she is wearing on her 1st finger. One fine day the lady tell the guy that she had lost her ring and she ask for a replacement. The guy bring a replacement ring the next day and she felt relieved. Few weeks later she told the guy again she had lost again the new ring. Again the guy go and get another ring for her, this time she's pick another design of man size.
My buddy came to me 1 day and tell me his problems of missing rings. I take some time to analyse with him what went wrong with the rings. My gut feeling tells me this lady actually gives the ring to her regular customers to buy their feelings so in return the customers will get her something better.

Very heavy investments. Why not just save the money and engage multiple top FLs for many many memorable FJs? 😜

[Allenc3]

Originally Posted by Supply

Sounds like you are in a very ideal state and spot right now.

Can enjoy the company without sinking in your heart. But it is a needle ground which tends to eventually pivot to some place else over time. Be it for better or worse, enjoy the entire course bah.

Is it really ideal? Feels on the verge of KC. From reading lots of posts here, have to tread carefully. Any red flags or anything amiss I would prob stop finding her. Sure I do feel special for many reasons thus far, but like others have mentioned ML can be lying and doing the same to other guys.

At least as I mentioned I have not, nor intend to spend any extra $. She hasn't hint or requested for any extra monetary gains too all this time. She was also the one who initiated making out, and to split the bills equally when outside. Would be happy to receive advice from any seniors here.

[Newsasap]

Originally Posted by Wee0502

Very heavy investments. Why not just save the money and engage multiple top FLs for many many memorable FJs? 😜

Caught in the net how to untie..

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by Newsasap

A woman never shed her tears....
I am writing a true story about my buddy that break-off with her ml recently. They had been together for 3 years, the guy. My buddy is very supportive to his ml. The guy will visit her 1 to 2 times a week for continuous 3 years,
Very consistence, even when she had her period the guy can be there to take care of her. Sometime she complain of painful mensus the guy will clock her time out and let her rest at home.

3 years together or 3 years as supportive regular customer? Big difference.

Don't your friend be alert on any red flags for such long time. If it is a 3 year relationship, don't your friend have the gut to reject request? Not all a one way traffic.

it is like fishing. you keep letting the line go, one day your line will finish also. Need to tarik but not too hard as it will break.

We can be good to ML but not to be treated like 舔狗

[Newsasap]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

3 years together or 3 years as supportive regular customer? Big difference.

Don't your friend be alert on any red flags for such long time. If it is a 3 year relationship, don't your friend have the gut to reject request? Not all a one way traffic.

it is like fishing. you keep letting the line go, one day your line will finish also. Need to tarik but not too hard as it will break.

We can be good to ML but not to be treated like 舔狗

Haha. Can say they are very close, meeting families.