very sad guy needs help about honeytrap.

[jackson555]

Even if you are not getting back together with her, I can understand your intentions of wanting to let her see his true colours.

But she is blinded and will not be able to see anything until she personally receive the first hint of true colours. Sending someone else to attract his attention isn't going to work, that's just straight-up naivete.

Advise you to nurse your heart ache and put your attention/love to something more useful like having a hobby or to work.

[Edyta]

TS u dont need to engage a honeytrapper to expose this guy. If he is bad he will cheat on n eventually she will know what kind of person he is. Time always tell.

[jason_]

this is an example of "love makes you weak, angry, sad, evil, revengeful,..."

[limaubing]

cant agree anymore with what jason said
but i think everyone of us here has been through such phase in life

[jason_]

if the guy who snatch your gal is really bad like you claimed, it just takes time before problems start. since you do not want her back anyway, she is not worth it since she dumped you, her future pain and suffering is really none of your concern.

i just feel you are a sore loser, you want both of them to suffer right now, even at the expense of spending money on honeytrap. not sure if the guy is bad like you said, maybe just equally bad as you or not as bad as you so your gal is smart to choose him? or maybe after finding good gal he become good guy?

i cannot see anything noble in your action. if you use the same amount in $10 notes, you can do much more good by slotting them into the letterboxes of 1-room hdb flats. or take just one packet of tissue after paying $10 to the blind malay woman selling tissue outside boon lay mrt station. doing good using this money is much more noble. for the last few years, every month i donate a 4-digit sum (this morning just donated $900), over the last 10 years i had probably donated a 6-digit sum, maybe that explains my good fortune in career and investments until i already have enough to retire today if i choose to though i come from poor family.

if the gal hear of your attempt, she will say leaving you is the right move, you are as bad if not worse. do not let this money buy you discredit and even more anger and bitterness when you can do good using it.

[sunhuan-con]

Let go will u make u become a happy man

[acidicavex]

How many 2k are u going to dump.... if the woman left u easily for someone else..... mean she probably going hurt u more...

Just move on with life... look for greener pasture.

[DeCrucifix]

TS do seriously consider the good advises given by some bros in this thread. I know it hurts and you want to take revenge. But perhaps it is time to move on. Keep your hard earned money. I am sure there is one girl out there for you.

[Lemon2]

Sorry bro ts, really feel for you as i have gone thru the same.
Move on bro... Better ones will come sooner than you think.
Cheer up.

[loneyheart]

It hurt when u still hanging on n t other party is game over ... if u never let go t pain will get worse .... let it go !! let it go !! Time will heal !! If u still love her give her yr blessing n wishes

[Psam]

I am sure you will feel shittier after you spend that 2k on her.

[damong777]

What is the point of honey trap? Revenge or to vent ur anger...

What if it fails and u kena exposed as mastermind?

Not worthwhile...just move on.

Get a hobby or go on a trip.

[wolfberry2]

if the girl founds out that you were honey trapping that guy, oh my.... i'd suggest you let things unfold naturally. if good karma befalls all, perhaps she can develop clarity to identify who really cares for her.

and over time, if you still do have feelings for her, perhaps you guys will rekindled the love again.

do take care!

[zacdegress]

Originally Posted by jnudes

There are many fishes in the pond. Just go and fish for a new one. For me you are one lucky guy! Some guy want to break with their gf after so many years together but have no courage to say it. You are lucky because she give you chance to get a new gf. So go for it!

It takes time to build a new relationship. Some people may not want to do so

[IamNinjaTurtle]

Great Thread!