17 years old can go geylang meh?

[BronzeGod]

Originally Posted by whacky

Hi bronzegod, I've never had a girlfriend my whole life. In my early 20s now. Sometimes I do regret not being bothered to find one. As for now, I am happy being single.

never too late my friend. I do suggest you do try out what having a girlfriend is like

[whacky]

Sir Bronzegod, thanks for your advice. I should seriously consider getting a gf in order to gain firsthand experience of the ups and downs of a relationship. I'd appreciate it if you could share with us your experiences with your gf(s).

[BronzeGod]

Originally Posted by whacky

Sir Bronzegod, thanks for your advice. I should seriously consider getting a gf in order to gain firsthand experience of the ups and downs of a relationship. I'd appreciate it if you could share with us your experiences with your gf(s).

well. I'm no expert in this field. I only had my first gf when I was 16.

what to share... hmmm... there's a lot of drama and the girl needs you to show how much you care for them...

this means occasional surprises, bringing them to nice places to eat, some chivalry like opening doors, pulling chairs, offering your arm or jacket when it gets cold in the cinema. hugging and kissing them. being able to stay cool during an argument and being willing to listen and work things out. basically being "a man".

if you can write poetry and nice letters, they love that kinda shit. they like sweet stuff. but you have to balance out being sweet and also being manly.
gotta mix in some rough stuff with the smooth moves....

this is just a brief summary.

it also depends on what kind of girl you are chasing lah.

Some are more quiet type and prefer quiet outings in an airconditioned environment like go restaurant and then movies.

some are more party type, so must bring them go clubbing and havoc, plus entertain her many lame friends.

some like outdoors and nature, so must go forest trekking and jogging and running around sentosa, play beach volleyball all that.

some damn arty farty, must go for wine tasting, museum and donno what arts or film festival and talk a lot deep subjects...

all sorts lah...

but best is the quiet type, easier to handle. less pattern is better.

[whacky]

Originally Posted by BronzeGod

well. I'm no expert in this field. I only had my first gf when I was 16.

what to share... hmmm... there's a lot of drama and the girl needs you to show how much you care for them...

this means occasional surprises, bringing them to nice places to eat, some chivalry like opening doors, pulling chairs, offering your arm or jacket when it gets cold in the cinema. hugging and kissing them. being able to stay cool during an argument and being willing to listen and work things out. basically being "a man".

if you can write poetry and nice letters, they love that kinda shit. they like sweet stuff. but you have to balance out being sweet and also being manly.
gotta mix in some rough stuff with the smooth moves....

this is just a brief summary.

it also depends on what kind of girl you are chasing lah.

Some are more quiet type and prefer quiet outings in an airconditioned environment like go restaurant and then movies.

some are more party type, so must bring them go clubbing and havoc, plus entertain her many lame friends.

some like outdoors and nature, so must go forest trekking and jogging and running around sentosa, play beach volleyball all that.

some damn arty farty, must go for wine tasting, museum and donno what arts or film festival and talk a lot deep subjects...

all sorts lah...

but best is the quiet type, easier to handle. less pattern is better.

Great piece of advice bro bronzegod! Wish i could up your points!

[whacky]

Bro bronzegod, i personally believe that a significant proportion of girls fall into at least 2 of the categories you described.

[BronzeGod]

yep.

a tip I would have in choosing a good girl is to choose the one that doesn't need you to drive her around, doesn't mind taking mrt or bus with you and eating in a hawker centre, and also doesn't mind just staying at home and watching TV with you. and if she likes washing and ironing your clothes, you've got a keeper

of course can't be doing that every date lah, or else you will just look cheapskate.

The first date is the most impt as she'll alway remember that first date, and she will use it to evaluate if she wants to see you more. every man has to have their own sure-fire bag of tricks to use on that first date to create that "feeling". u will develop this as you go along but a tip is to watch a lot of those romantic movies that girls feed on, and then just adapt accordingly

Good luck!

[whacky]

Thanks for the tips bronzegod!

[SadLoser]

The stories here really brought back memories of the the early days where i first started exploring the shady streets of GL.
During those days, the streets from lor 6, 8, 10 and i can't remembered which lorong is always lined up with rows of very beautiful PRC gals who stand along the road like contestants at beauty pageants. That time i was 17 going to 18 very young and handsum with my hair styled very yandao and the gals would always tug at my shirt when i walked past, and said "Leng zhai, qu ma" But i was always shy and blushed (dunno why also), and just lowered my head like a retarded moron and walked shyly away...Although i rejected their advances, my heart inside and penis were itchy. So i always like to stroll around the streets of GL after dinner. Strolling at GL became my 2nd hobby after my 1st hobby watching porn. I still did not dare to approach any of the PRC whore until one day i was feeling damm moody and depressed after being turned down by the gal i liked and my penis was rock hard and i knew i wouldn't be able to sleep even if i go home. I walked along lor 6 and this very beautiful short hair PRC whore standing outside Fragrance hotel caught my eyes. She was really pretty with memermising eyes and looked like in her early 20s. i walked up to her and asked her how much? She quoted me $80, not inclusive of hotel. i told her okay, but i need to withdraw money 1st, she laughed and say ok must come back and find her ok, and i asked her for her name (xiaofang or something, i really cannot remember now) and i quickly went to the nearest ATM (i became an expert at where all the ATM are in GL soon after) and withdraw the money and rushed back to the fragrance hotel.

It was my first commerical fuck and maybe cos i was extremely nervous with my heart pounding very fast, my rock hard penis cummed in less than 10 mins. Although it seems like everything happened in a flash, i was feeling quite happy after the session and proceeded home a happy man.

I am not sure if i regret taking the first leap that night. It is true that commercial fuck is an activity which takes up money, time & energy. Will i be a different person today if i did not started commercial sex 10 years ago?? i also dun know. But now i am thinking of my next session at 2831 hehe...

[whacky]

SadLoser, thanks for sharing with us your personal experience!