I fell in love with a ktv girl - need advice - Page 4

Cheri_Popper · #46 14-04-2006, 02:57 PM

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Originally Posted by Shuang_Jie_Gun

very well said bro.Reality hurts rite?Haiz..reminds me of my sad past.

The problem with these ppl and you is that you guys choose to find love at the wrong time and place!

OUTWIT! OUTSMART! OUTTALK! And you will OUTSURVIVE them!

Want me to show you what XW sms to me?!

ADNMAN · #47 14-04-2006, 03:26 PM

Dear Threadstarter, the very fact that she works in KTV means she wants to make money, may be lots of it. She did not ask you for status because she would not have any intention of having a status with you. Try asking her to be your GF and you will know it. She might show some extra interest just because she wants someone to share her views and thoughts; may be, she would do this with some others too. Better maintain it at that level.

And, I don't think that she will agree to leave the KTV job unless you find a means to finance her more than what she gets now-and that too, when she is sure that it would be for a longer time.

You cannot get to know her and come to a conclusion in just two or three encounters. You better wait for more interactions with her; then you may understand her nature and intentions more clearly. You will then be in a better position to decide whether or not she is worth to be your GF, and whether her nature and intentions will allow the relationship to last longer.

Shuang_Jie_Gun · #48 14-04-2006, 04:11 PM

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Originally Posted by Icarus

This lousy mood makes him vulnerable to any gals that come along in his life now, whom he feels comfortable with....thus he feels like fallin in love...

this is exactly how i felt during my 1st unofficial PRC KC trap and subsequently a few more after that.lolz..thinking back makes me feel how foolish i used to be.

Shuang_Jie_Gun · #49 14-04-2006, 04:13 PM

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Originally Posted by Cheri_Popper

OUTWIT! OUTSMART! OUTTALK! And you will OUTSURVIVE them!

Want me to show you what XW sms to me?!

yeah..faster show me.

newbadass · #50 14-04-2006, 05:31 PM

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Originally Posted by bangkoktonight

How many times have you been to a KTV??
Only newbie go to KTV to chat with girls.

I'm going to have to disagree with that statement. Plenty of lao jiaos also go to KTV to chat only. That's why you have places like LV and TAM.

Of course, that does not imply that I think we should go to KTVs just to chat with girls. I think it's a bloody waste of my hard-earned money. But to each his own

King Durian · #51 14-04-2006, 05:41 PM

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Originally Posted by arrdwolf_77

my friend's gf just gave my friend $4k to pay debts. She works in nightclub. Still exist la. she never open legs one.

Never open leg? Maybe she open mouth giving BJ

speedrives99 · #52 14-04-2006, 06:05 PM

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Originally Posted by ok69

gelyang ktv ..
1 night she can earn $100+ tips and thats not including 'takeaway'

she come all the way .. okie i assume is china to work for $ and u ask her not to work? well ... unless u can provide her $100+ daily? And u cant ~

I just hope u did not RAW her ..

And yeah ,, it wont work out .. just fuck As many times as possible before she left for another richer guy

Shes singaporean. Yes i did use protection...

speedrives99 · #53 14-04-2006, 06:18 PM

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Originally Posted by edmund899

she love u?

I believe so. We had a long chat last night after she finished work. I got to know she came from a poor family and father is unable to work due to health problem and mom doing factory worker. Got a younger sister stil in sec school.

She quited her Diploma last year due to studies and financial problem and started to work in ktv since Nov last year...

When i asked her if she plans to quit, she tell me she plan to work for 2 years and save up $ to set up some business. In fact she decided not to have any relationship during these 2 yrs so she can concentrate til she met me. She told me she fell in love the moment she saw me in the room but had to sit with my friend cos the mummy order.

Right now shes waiting for me to make the decision. She nvr rush me to break with my gf. I feel i also shouldnt make her decide to quit or not. Knowing her plans, if i were to ask her to quit and be with me, i feel she will not agree. But i do not wanto lose her as well. I can tell shes not that kind of easy gal, but i really wont know what happens in those ktv.

Im rather confused now. In fact i tell myself not to mind if she were to be my gf and continue to work, But im not sure if i can handle it....

sadfa · #54 14-04-2006, 09:14 PM

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Originally Posted by speedrives99

Hi all, newbie here needs some advice. Pls be patient wih my introduction.
What arethe chances of this relationship working out?

i think u need 2 do a search on this forum on all the cases of ktv girls cheating the men.

if u still think u r an exception, u need help.

sadfa · #55 14-04-2006, 09:17 PM

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Originally Posted by arrdwolf_77

she never open legs one.

how u know or your fren know?
your fren make her wear chastity belt or she got no cibai?
its very easy for her 2 make your fren wear green hat.
she just needs an opportunity n if she thinks she can get away wif it.

DaLu Power · #56 14-04-2006, 10:20 PM

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Originally Posted by arrdwolf_77

My friend's gf just gave my friend $4k to pay debts. She works in nightclub. Still exist la. she never open legs one.

How you know she didn't "open leg". Such gers do exist in real life. But seems that you are assuming.

sropau · #57 14-04-2006, 10:22 PM

U better Wake up Bro!!! I seen a lot of such cases & jus to tell u tat one of my best friend comit suicide bcos his $$$ kana cheapted by one of the stupid KTV gal n now he is gone!!! U get what i mean!!
If u reali want to be wif tis KTV gal then u better take care!!

Cheri_Popper · #58 14-04-2006, 10:30 PM

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Originally Posted by sropau

jus to tell u tat one of my best friend comit suicide bcos his $$$ kana cheapted by one of the stupid KTV gal n now he is gone!!! U get what i mean!!

So serious meh? So sad!

sropau · #59 14-04-2006, 10:39 PM

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Originally Posted by Cheri_Popper

So serious meh? So sad!

Yes Bro...it has been so many years liaoz n i still feel sad abt this incident

like2bonk · #60 14-04-2006, 10:47 PM

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Originally Posted by sropau

U better Wake up Bro!!! I seen a lot of such cases & jus to tell u tat one of my best friend comit suicide bcos his $$$ kana cheapted by one of the stupid KTV gal n now he is gone!!! U get what i mean!!
If u reali want to be wif tis KTV gal then u better take care!!

Aiyo, can spare more details or not. So far never heard of so serious before.