Fetish/Role Play/BDSM in HC

[Fmcane]

Originally Posted by forsak3n

Erm, I think you are confused as much as you have confused me with your reply. Let me try to understand what you are saying. And, please, stop asking us to "move on", as I think there is still much to be discussed.

• Like you say, everything is subjective, especially on a forum like this. Everyone's FR or review on anything (a person, a service provided, etc) is placed out here as a free expression of their opinion, and so, is up to readers to interpret. That was exactly my point, but it seems like what you are saying is only positive views can exist here?
• Just as you have openly voiced your support for L & S, ydgduo has voiced his opinion on them (or rather his views on the locals). I don't think it's fair to say that his opinion is unnecessary just because it sounds unpleasant. Also just to clarify, where was he yelling? I don't think he was yelling at all.
• Usually bitter medicine is always hard to swallow, and as such I feel that you were a little too defensive! My first interpretation of ydgduo's comment was his aspiration for the locals to improve, rather than him criticizing them outright - Did you see it that way at all? Anyway, ydgduo had further supported my assumption in a later post by saying he sincerely has their interests at heart. I'm not about to ask you to immediately subscribe to my view, but at least know that there is a different views on this matter.

I'm not here to stir, dispute, criticize, or create a mess. I just hope that online discussion can be objective at all times - and as a result, increasing the quality of discussion; rather than just slinging mud at each other or silencing the unpopular view of another without discussion or contest.

Cheers, and have a good weekend!

I respect your point of view. But I stood by on mine. My point is constructive feedback need not be unpleasant. Be it positively or negative.

Cheers and have a good long weekend soon

[doctor sex]

Originally Posted by Fmcane

I respect your point of view. But I stood by on mine. My point is constructive feedback need not be unpleasant. Be it positively or negative.

Cheers and have a good long weekend soon

All the original poster said was 'I am not happy with the skill level of local providers'. Do you think your reaction was anymore pleasant?

[Krenjusen]

Chill gentlemen, for all the love for bdsm!

[Submmit]

On my opinion i respect all the post in the forum. different people has different like and sytle. If you are satisfy or not with the session! well that is your own opinion and freedom to tell but not all seasion will be desame to each of one of us who are into this! If your going to any mistress well for sure you have to tell them you idea and what are you into and expectation on your session then that is your point of view!!! that you will know if ur fantasie's or like was granted. A Mistress who are into this sytle has a different idea and its just the matter of chemistry between the mistress and the slave. If i where you just give it a try again then you will know. The session will not be always desame and we all has a different session to each one of us here. I just want to share this What is BDSM?
BDSM is an umbrella term that encompasses the activities of bondage and discipline, dominance and submission, and sadomasochism. BDSM is not limited to these activities, but can include any or all of them.
Scene
Refers to either the "scene" at large (the community) or a particular instance (a scene) between participants.
Top
One who takes the active role in a physical scene. May or may not be a sadist or a dominant.
Bottom
A participant in a physical scene who submits to various activities from a top. May or may not be a masochist or submissive to the top.
Dominant
One who has control in a consensual exchange of power.
Submissive
One who surrenders control to another in a consensual exchange of power.
Sadism
Deriving pleasure from the giving of pain and/or humiliation or suffering.
Masochism
Deriving pleasure from receiving pain and/or humiliation or suffering.
Switch
A person who enjoys either side of BDSM role or physical play.
Consensual
Behavior or activities agreed to by all parties involved. True consent is informed consent and requires a reasonably accurate knowledge of possible risks.
Safeword
A word, phrase or action used by the bottom to signal to stop the scene or reduce the intensity.
I endorse these definitions as absolutes, but offers them as concepts to facilitate understanding.

[Fmcane]

Originally Posted by doctor sex

All the original poster said was 'I am not happy with the skill level of local providers'. Do you think your reaction was anymore pleasant?

You did brought up a valid reasoning which I would not contest. I could have overly reacted during my respond to the original post.
My apology if that is so .

That say, I am still standing firm on my views (and not imposing on others) .
- that the local are new and should be given the time to learn and prove.
- constructive feedback need not be unpleasant. Be it positive or negative.

[Submmit]

Originally Posted by Fmcane

You did brought up a valid reasoning which I would not contest. I could have overly reacted during my respond to the original post.
My apology if that is so .

That say, I am still standing firm on my views (and not imposing on others) .
- that the local are new and should be given the time to learn and prove.
- constructive feedback need not be unpleasant. Be it positive or negative.

You are also correct.... As time goes by Mistresses will gain alot of different idea, learn and improve base on exp. YEARS and how they explore into this Life Style. Mybe for now your not satisfy but give another try in the future. Their is no difference between slave who is begginer and become extreame. No point of view to discuss whatever the opinion of each other. Each one of us has a right and freedom to tell everything no matter good or bad. And each one of us is not desame mybe some they like the session with the local some are not. So my advice is try to find it by yourself and have session with local mistress then you will see or feel if it is fit on ur like and if u will have a chemistry with the person.

[subway73]

Hi guys, mistress Akiho coming to town.
Unlike jap. Sinkie has shortage of kinky love hotel. I believe the jap system is that we book our own?

In anticipation. I search for a suitable nest here n guess what? Chance upon this interesting boutique hotel called wanderlust. Name says it all.

Loft room with bar n racks. Farms a lot of ideas and imagination.
Pity no short time. But if jap mistress herself where to put up there, hmm ideal.

Jus a tot to share. Any bro knows la siora troupers? Can suggest.

[ydgduo]

Originally Posted by subway73

Hi guys, mistress Akiho coming to town.
Unlike jap. Sinkie has shortage of kinky love hotel. I believe the jap system is that we book our own?

any hotel room 5 stars with huge room will be fine for the professional domina with immense skill.

To be clear, it is not jap system, but japanese police system, for some reason, they do not allow sm dungeon. Every sm club with dungeon are closed by police.

So in tokyo, the mistress bring you to love hotel. but in oversea, different rule apply, therefore it is depend on the particular mistress, it is better you get the information from la siora.

[ydgduo]

Originally Posted by Submmit

feel if it is fit on ur like and if u will have a chemistry with the person.

I only go for domina, young beautiful, great body and skill in the art of s&m. It is an professional service, not a relationship. Japan SM is most professional of all, only being let down by their police of no dungeon policy.

[ydgduo]

http://lasiora2008.blog125.fc2.com/blog-entry-1298.html

why only two claps? no like. if you want more domina to come to singapore, start clapping. Show some appreciation. God damn it.

[ydgduo]

someone disagree with my views zap me. Quite a big drop, some guy with massive points.

[Submmit]

Originally Posted by ydgduo

I only go for domina, young beautiful, great body and skill in the art of s&m. It is an professional service, not a relationship. Japan SM is most professional of all, only being let down by their police of no dungeon policy.

Chemistry to a mistress does not mean relationship and it does not mean in adding 2yrs of more exp and exploring the mistress will be already old. BDSM is originaly started in japan.

[forsak3n]

Originally Posted by Submmit

BDSM is originaly started in japan.

ORLY?

I'm not sure how accurate all of you view Wikipedia as a source of information, but I often use it as a compass to guide me for starters.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/BDSM#Origins

[Fmcane]

Originally Posted by Submmit

You are also correct.... As time goes by Mistresses will gain alot of different idea, learn and improve base on exp. YEARS and how they explore into this Life Style. Mybe for now your not satisfy but give another try in the future. Their is no difference between slave who is begginer and become extreame. No point of view to discuss whatever the opinion of each other. Each one of us has a right and freedom to tell everything no matter good or bad. And each one of us is not desame mybe some they like the session with the local some are not. So my advice is try to find it by yourself and have session with local mistress then you will see or feel if it is fit on ur like and if u will have a chemistry with the person.

Yap, there is no right or wrong in many cases. From Mistress/sub, working colleagues, couples, family or even country had dispute due to different in believe. That's human I guess.

Originally Posted by ydgduo

someone disagree with my views zap me. Quite a big drop, some guy with massive points.

Better clarified first because I suspect many will assume is me. I have up u b4 so I can't do anything with your point.

[ydgduo]

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* Akiho's Singapore Tour 2013 SUMMER *
[Date]
28th(Wed)August/ 14:00-19:00
29th(Thu)August/ 12:00-19:00

[Place]
Central Area in Singapore.

[Fee]
Usual session fee + taxi fee＋(Enrollment fee JPY 3,000 if you are new member)
* 70 minutes session : JPY 20,000
* 100 minutes session : JPY 30,000
* 130 minutes session : JPY 40,000
* Extend 30 minutes : JPY 10,000
If you have had a session with Akiho before, nomination fee JPY 2,000 would be required.

[Currency]
* Session fee : Japanese Cash Only
* Taxi fee : Singapore Cash Only
Please prepare the fee by the session.

[Start Accepting Reservation]
* La Siora members who had met Akiho before: from 12:45 on Wednesday 7th August
* La Siora members who had never met Akiho before: from 12:45 on Saturday 10th August
* New members : from 12:45 on Sunday 11th August