Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner - Page 488

MrDarkSide · #**7306** 07-07-2010, 12:45 AM

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Originally Posted by KangTuo

Communication...

It depends on her character and personality. Some prefer to be updated frequently. Some prefer just to know the results. But if I were you, I will give her a rough idea of the progress.
Sometimes when humans heard nothing about something they care about, their minds tend to wander about.

ciongka · #**7307** 07-07-2010, 08:02 AM

After spending 3 weeks goin thru almost 500 pages of tis
thread i hav more insights into viet culture n the pros n cons
of having a viet spouse thanx guys

Hurricane88 · #**7308** 07-07-2010, 12:30 PM

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Originally Posted by ciongka

After spending 3 weeks goin thru almost 500 pages of tis
thread i hav more insights into viet culture n the pros n cons
of having a viet spouse thanx guys

At least you bother to read...the examples, experiences and discussions inside were priceless...

8fdjf934ms · #**7309** 07-07-2010, 10:09 PM

Need some advise from bros here who more familiar with vietnam then me...

My girl recently got some money problems. Her mother sick need medication, so she borrow from friend to return younger sister to help mother about 5mil VND (got need so much meh)?

Only just know her about two months. So resist to help her. Feel damn bad la but I tahan myself!!! But she never ask me for any money directly throughout. Then she say want to go work KTV 'chang ge' earn money return her friend. I keep quiet never say anything cause she know I won't like...

But anyways that's just the back story, she's working as a shampoo girl in a hair saloon apparent. North-West of HCMC. Forget what the place called already. Last time she work can earn 3mil VND. Now she working at another place now earning 2.4mil VND...

Just want to check with bros here if vietnam girls got cut hair cut until 10pm 11pm one meh? Cause I suspecting maybe she go work KTV never tell me. I thought cut hair supposed to be after office hour, but during lunch time she can go home and eat lunch one... Shouldn't it be lunch time then people free go cut hair? Apparently this saloon only females one (got such thing)? She tell me recently change boss then make them work until very late no customer but 10+ 11+ still got customer one. Am I being to suspiscious here?

naemlo · #**7310** 07-07-2010, 10:37 PM

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Originally Posted by 8fdjf934ms

Am I being to suspiscious here?

Assuming the money problem is real (most of the time is bullshit). U called her "your ger", u unwilling to help her with money and if she goes out and works in KTV, who is to be blamed here??

If the money problem is bullshit, then you have to accept the fact, relationship with WL, most of the times, money is always an issue.

fcukger · #**7311** 07-07-2010, 11:16 PM

TS SV??? where is ur cafe located?? in sgp or vn?? if in vn i can go patronise leh as i go drink kopi daily at q8... :P

MrDarkSide · #**7312** 07-07-2010, 11:37 PM

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Originally Posted by naemlo

U called her "your ger", u unwilling to help her with money and if she goes out and works in KTV, who is to be blamed here??

The old ginger is spicy.

No money, No Honey.

Shampoo girl, assuming no hanky panky @ 3M... Dont think it is possible.

情感王子 · #**7313** 07-07-2010, 11:47 PM

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Originally Posted by MrDarkSide

Shampoo girl, assuming no hanky panky @ 3M... Dont think it is possible.

I think it is possible if she is working in D1 area where there may be more tips from foreigner. In bro 8fdjf934ms, I think his girl work in province which is highly impossible to get about $3M vnd

情感王子 · #**7314** 08-07-2010, 12:04 AM

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Originally Posted by 8fdjf934ms

My girl recently got some money problems.

Only recently got money problem? I thought it should be always.

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Originally Posted by 8fdjf934ms

Her mother sick need medication, so she borrow from friend to return younger sister to help mother about 5mil VND

Excuses

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Originally Posted by 8fdjf934ms

Just want to check with bros here if vietnam girls got cut hair cut until 10pm 11pm one meh? Cause I suspecting maybe she go work KTV never tell me. I thought cut hair supposed to be after office hour, but during lunch time she can go home and eat lunch one... Shouldn't it be lunch time then people free go cut hair? Apparently this saloon only females one (got such thing)? She tell me recently change boss then make them work until very late no customer but 10+ 11+ still got customer one. Am I being to suspiscious here?

Since you say that she can go home to have lunch, maybe she really work as shampoo gal or other job with no hanky panky biz. Most job is till about that timing. Many viet will go home eat lunch then back to work. Eat out is no cheap (for them).

According to my own knowledge, girls working in KTV/MP are not allowed to go home during meal time. The boss will have runner to tabao for them. These kind of work is till midnight and after. Some have night shift...

You got to go vn often to understand more...

8fdjf934ms · #**7315** 08-07-2010, 12:26 AM

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Originally Posted by naemlo

Assuming the money problem is real (most of the time is bullshit). U called her "your ger", u unwilling to help her with money and if she goes out and works in KTV, who is to be blamed here??

If the money problem is bullshit, then you have to accept the fact, relationship with WL, most of the times, money is always an issue.

No la, she not WL. (as far as I know :P) Met her in vietnam on a holiday. Cause I read all the forum here so many story one, all say a lot of viet girl all ask for money one... then I don't want her to be with me because of money right so must test test her mah

naemlo · #**7316** 08-07-2010, 04:35 AM

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Originally Posted by 8fdjf934ms

Nthen I don't want her to be with me because of money right so must test test her mah

U asking for it for being suspicious and miserable abt her... 2 options, either u trust her or get someone to trace her.

ciongka · #**7317** 08-07-2010, 07:11 AM

Yah its gd to read up more cause 1st time knoe viet gers
more familiar with prc n thai all these yrs

At least can arm myself with a "shield" 1st frm their "weapons" :P

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Originally Posted by Hurricane88

At least you bother to read...the examples, experiences and discussions inside were priceless...

情感王子 · #**7318** 08-07-2010, 07:15 AM

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Originally Posted by ciongka

Yah its gd to read up more cause 1st time knoe viet gers
more familiar with prc n thai all these yrs

At least can arm myself with a "shield" 1st frm their "weapons" :P

If you are taking about WL, then Thai, PRC and Viet are all the same. It is about $$$

SingViet · #**7319** 08-07-2010, 09:25 AM

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Originally Posted by fcukger

TS SV??? where is ur cafe located?? in sgp or vn?? if in vn i can go patronise leh as i go drink kopi daily at q8... :P

i already sold the cafe roi as i couldn't be there for past few months due to spinal operation.

Hurricane88 · #**7320** 08-07-2010, 05:35 PM

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Originally Posted by SingViet

i already sold the cafe roi as i couldn't be there for past few months due to spinal operation.

So fast, lucky being there once...anyway cheers to you...