Home Wrecker - Page 5

bloggert · #61 10-07-2008, 08:12 AM

To summarize the progress, if I may:-

1. Hypothetical exploration - fantasy stage - convinced that on-line means it's not real so it's safe to explore
2. Crossing some social lines - beginning of breaking down of inhibition
3. Growing emotional dependency - boost to self-esteem
4. Starting to act out fantasy - crossing some mild physical line (kissing, holding hands)
5. First wave of remorse
6. String of justifications - more breaking down of inhibitions - (it's just this once, no one will ever find out, we have strong feelings, etc.)
7. Re-crossing of physical lines (kiss again) and going further
8. Dependency and addiction sets in - inhibitions gone, wanting to go further
9. Planning for consumation
10. Consumation
11. Big wave of remorse
12. Confusion - addiction vs. guilt - sense of betrayal vs. desire
13. Possibly repeats of #10 with less resistance
14. Reality starts to set in

Things could go anywhere from here depending on how the parties want to play it.

It is apparent that social (and/or religious) taboos play an important role in keeping marriage relationships intact. Without those, a lot more people would be involved in affairs.

tanmikel · #62 10-07-2008, 08:13 AM

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Originally Posted by benxmanda

Dear Fellow Forumer,
What if you wife is doing this behind your back? Would you wreck a happy marriage and family because of you lust?[/SIZE]

takes 2 hands to clap

bigmannow · #63 10-07-2008, 10:15 AM

TS, wat if IVS is one of samster here? U not afraid he read all this and find out?

tryying · #64 10-07-2008, 10:52 AM

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Originally Posted by bigmannow

TS, wat if IVS is one of samster here? U not afraid he read all this and find out?

There might be a possible but there also another possible which is he where got time to surf when he is having HW all the time? Maybe in the future, we might have a post from someone writing a story similiar to this?

aces68 · #65 10-07-2008, 03:27 PM

wow, this is incredible..but i think that is the reality out there. but i think the difference between man and woman is that the woman have affair with emotions..guys tend to fuck and forget.

cassano10 · #66 10-07-2008, 03:36 PM

IVS : tomorrow cannot because I need to go Singapore, next Monday OK?

bro are they local

Bronco · #67 10-07-2008, 05:45 PM

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Originally Posted by cassano10

IVS : tomorrow cannot because I need to go Singapore, next Monday OK?

bro are they local

Sound like both from mudland, guess TS too...

cassano10 · #68 10-07-2008, 06:01 PM

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Originally Posted by Bronco

Sound like both from mudland, guess TS too...

malaysia u mean?

cassano10 · #69 10-07-2008, 06:02 PM

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Originally Posted by tanmikel

takes 2 hands to clap

agree wat u have say
but in tis case by seeing the words of conversation
guess its the guy tat hav ulterior move frm the very start

Bigbluebird · #70 10-07-2008, 06:12 PM

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Originally Posted by benxmanda

By now, we can see what kind of jerk IVS is and more to follow, what do you think will happen? Pity DH still in the dark while his beloved wife HW is doing this behind his back. Why a caring mum and wife would want to cheat on her husband? What if HW is your wife? What if you are IVS? What if you are MR BEN and a buddy of DH? What would you do? MORE TO COME...

Dude, you have to understand that we all live in this rotten world full of bastards, biatches and most of them hyprocrites. Many of us say we won't do this and that based on righteousness, I don't know how many will stick true to their words when the crunch comes.

Well I mentioned before, duty to my friends comes first before their partners, so if say HW is my friend, then I'll not hesitate to screw her. I condemn IVS like you do over here, but well, maybe one day we might end up walking the same path as he did/does.

Oh yes, I'll expect a lot of zapping when I come back on later

DarkAsh · #71 10-07-2008, 09:11 PM

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Originally Posted by Bigbluebird

I condemn IVS like you do over here, but well, maybe one day we might end up walking the same path as he did/does. Oh yes, I'll expect a lot of zapping when I come back on later

It always takes 2 hands to clap. I won't condemn IVS for the simple fact that he does not know DH. Besides HW is also itching for it. If it is not IVS it will be someone else. Only a matter of time. Tell me honestly, how many bros here can say no to a solid MILF who is giving you the positive signals?

btw .. I wont zap you

benxmanda · #72 10-07-2008, 09:50 PM

The next morning, i.e. Friday morning, I told HW that I need her to follow me to see a client in Pahang. I ask if she has anything important to do on next Monday if not I would want her to follow me to Pahang for one day business trip. Hey hey strictly no hanky panky between myself and HW. Somemore there will be another colleague to come along also.

Actually, she doesn’t need to follow us for the trip to Pahang but somehow my conscience made me do it so that she wont get to meet IVS and end up doing something she may be regretting later.

I really pity DH for what happening here, and if you ask me what if IVS is another samster here and he may read this, I say, WTF, dare to do not dare to admit? If he happens to read this, I dare him to come to me to confront me, if he wants to continue in this line. I know I am not somebody but I believe with the contacts I have I can really make him suffers in this line. Like people say, never drive someone over the wall if possible.

Little did I realize that I can only slow down the process but not stop it, Bloggert, you are right as we shall find out what happen next, I really respect you for backing off from going further if you really did. An my heartiest to Sammyboy as I found out that many of our forumers here have very high level of wisdom. My salute to you all.

I am in dilemma now as to whether to cut the story now or to go on…

Pondering…