my affair with my sis in law

[Ntspannar]

Originally Posted by juzz

Hahaha .... if you are so righteous, what are you doing in a sex forum?

Are you so lily clean yourself with nary an evil bone in you?

So by this theory anyone who commits a crime or does something wrong should not face any form of negative feedback? So why are u judging me too then?

I realize a lot of ppl here talk about this being a sex forum so all gloves are off. So the guys who rape kids are ok right? I mean who are u to judge as well since you're in a sex forum. Always with the ready made excuses...

[Ntspannar]

Originally Posted by sexcision

Congrats on being such a great keyboard without trying to be one.
TS is sharing his story, who are u/we to judge what character he is or what he did is right or wrong? He is just sharing what he is feeling. And personally I feel what he feel is truthful and real, to be honest. That is exactly what I would feel if I am in his shoe.
We are all humans after all, We are selfish by nature.

Yes we are selfish by nature. Doesn't make his statements right.
I am not against sharing truthful feelings. It's good if it helps moving on but to lay the blame on one party and whine as if he did nothing wrong just cause he didn't get caught just shows what kind of man he is and why despite his wide having issues, she made the right choice. Make a mistake? Did something not so great? No big deal we are human. But to say I didn't get caught and then say she's bad for not sticking through the marriage...lol

That's like saying I stole company money didn't get caught but boss I'm a bad employee and fire me so the boss is retarded. I how everyone likes a good steamy story. I read it I like it. Doesn't mean what's fundamentally wrong with the way he consoles himself or justify himself = right.

[Ntspannar]

I have never troll any thread. Iread and enjoy.
But if you're justifying yourself with that mindset it just shows what kind of man you are.
I do not judge the relationships you undergo and I am not the type that goes oh your wife will future partner will cheat on you as karma. Couldn't care less.

But to justify your entitled self on how and why your wife gave poor reasons for divorce...just because you didn't get caught is cowardly. Man up. She made her errors and so did you. No need to make it look better or package it with you did not get caught. At least she said she didnt love you anymore. That's pretty truthful. You on the other hand ignored the fact you lied (which is fine by most here as ppl here like to claim we are in sex forum so lying is ok, had an affair with her sister which is something most ppl like to read too so they say is fine but they get upset when they wear green hat...go figure) and then later even decide to push more blame towards the wife for wanting a divorce.

Just for the general consensus, I'm here mostly to read ilock stories. It doesn't make me any whiter than the average guy but I don't hide behind excuses like this is a sex forum so all logic and objectivity should be thrown out the window because it appears the ones who quote me back and disagree are the same ones who say I shouldn't judge or disagree. Typical. Only like reading what suits their dicks.

Originally Posted by seowlang

I almost treated you like someone that is trolling but nonetheless, decided it warrants a reply. Not saying this just because of the words you used on me but...

Quite a few points you made that confirm you didn't read the entire story before commenting. I admit I am no angel but 2 wrongs do not make a right; ie. first wrong committed by me and second wrong I feel my wife has a major part to play. No need for me to go into details and it is never fair to hear only from me.. but there wont be a chance for my ex-wife to represent herself here so, nothing much to debate about.

Strange you said the readers are here to read about sex bcos if readers were to testify, I believe this thread has one of the least sex among all the threads in sbf, no? That was also part of the reason I asked if anyone wants me to continue bcos i think it belongs more to 'matters of the heart'.

Last but not least, whether I deserve to be a eunuch or not, I leave it to my creator. He can do as he pleases and I am not worthy to comment

[seowlang]

Originally Posted by Ntspannar

So the guys who rape kids are ok right?

Give a better example pls. Dont give a bad example to make your argument appears more legit.

Also, your example shows that you are not clear on what morally wrong and/or what legally wrong is.

what is morally wrong may not be legally wrong (eg. married men having consensual or paid sex outside of marriage). what is legally wrong is most likely morally wrong too, but it still depends on the country's law (eg. polygamy is allowed in Muslim countries but not singapore).

[diputs1269]

Originally Posted by Ntspannar

So by this theory anyone who commits a crime or does something wrong should not face any form of negative feedback? So why are u judging me too then?

I realize a lot of ppl here talk about this being a sex forum so all gloves are off. So the guys who rape kids are ok right? I mean who are u to judge as well since you're in a sex forum. Always with the ready made excuses...

To be exact, in this thread TS did not rape his sister in law, is just sex between two consenting adult so no crime committed. Furthermore on record, no kids are involved in this thread. Please be factual, thank you.

[seowlang]

Originally Posted by Ntspannar

But to justify your entitled self on how and why your wife gave poor reasons for divorce...just because you didn't get caught is cowardly. Man up. She made her errors and so did you. No need to make it look better or package it with you did not get caught. At least she said she didnt love you anymore. That's pretty truthful. You on the other hand ignored the fact you lied (which is fine by most here as ppl here like to claim we are in sex forum so lying is ok, had an affair with her sister which is something most ppl like to read too so they say is fine but they get upset when they wear green hat...go figure) and then later even decide to push more blame towards the wife for wanting a divorce.

It terms of moral values, I fully agree my betrayal of my ex-wife is a sin of the highest level. Period.

But I would like to take up 3 main points you made.

1) "just because you didn't get caught is cowardly"
Just because I didn't get caught doesn't make me cowardly. I was a lucky bastard.

2) "You on the other hand ignored the fact you lied"
I didn't ignore the fact that I lied. I mentioned earlier that 2 wrongs do not make a right. How is that ignoring my wrong doing?

Even in the eye of the law, we have to base everything on a case by case basis. First case being my affair (in your words, I lied) and that is without a doubt my fault. Assuming I am caught, henceforth, are we going to give the same judgement for every other subsequent cases based on this first case? Or should we just draw evidence and facts relevant and available (key word) to the 2nd case and discuss within that context?

Of course your answer is the former. Using this argument, my wife can have no chance of outdoing me as I do not have a brother and the only chance to 'outdo' my sin is to sleep with my elderly father. So for the rest of our lives, had we been together, any mistake lesser than that would be my fault since I am the one that committed the 1st wrong and there isn't another mistake more grave than mine?

3) "later even decide to push more blame towards the wife for wanting a divorce."
Not sure where you got this from but I didn't push more blame towards her. I felt I was not given a chance to work out the differences we had. Thus I was bitter.

[sexcision]

Originally Posted by seowlang

It terms of moral values, I fully agree my betrayal of my ex-wife is a sin of the highest level. Period.

But I would like to take up 3 main points you made.

1) "just because you didn't get caught is cowardly"
Just because I didn't get caught doesn't make me cowardly. I was a lucky bastard.

2) "You on the other hand ignored the fact you lied"
I didn't ignore the fact that I lied. I mentioned earlier that 2 wrongs do not make a right. How is that ignoring my wrong doing?

Even in the eye of the law, we have to base everything on a case by case basis. First case being my affair (in your words, I lied) and that is without a doubt my fault. Assuming I am caught, henceforth, are we going to give the same judgement for every other subsequent cases based on this first case? Or should we just draw evidence and facts relevant and available (key word) to the 2nd case and discuss within that context?

Of course your answer is the former. Using this argument, my wife can have no chance of outdoing me as I do not have a brother and the only chance to 'outdo' my sin is to sleep with my elderly father. So for the rest of our lives, had we been together, any mistake lesser than that would be my fault since I am the one that committed the 1st wrong?

3) "later even decide to push more blame towards the wife for wanting a divorce."
Not sure where you got this from but I didn't push more blame towards her. I felt I was not given a chance to work out the differences we had. Thus I was bitter.

Bro SL, I rather u not wast your time debating with this white night. There’s no right or wrong is this world. What seem right might be wrong to others.
As such, I would rather you spend the time to update your story instead.
You do know that many others are waiting patiently for your update? 😊

[seowlang]

Originally Posted by sexcision

Bro SL, I rather u not wast your time debating with this white night. There’s no right or wrong is this world. What seem right might be wrong to others.
As such, I would rather you spend the time to update your story instead.
You do know that many others are waiting patiently for your update? 😊

i hear u bro

[ChaseHandshake]

Support nice story and thread!

[seowlang]

Originally Posted by ben2011

Hi SL, can't hep to comment here, a really touching story.... Hope at the end of the day, everyone have a happy ending, including ur ex-wife

Your story let me remind of my affair some way more than 10 years ago, which led to my divorce too.

Cant help getting emotional after read your story from page 1 to end, suddenly thinking of both of them, my ex-w and her.... Once a while all those memories will come back to my mind...
Hope you are doing Okay now.

I always listened to this when I'm emotional.

I am sorry for what happened. I understand the pain of going thru a divorce. unfortunately, you went thru more pain of losing both women

[andythai]

Bro Seowlang, did I catch your hints correctly that you did not lost two women but lost your wife. Hope you are a lucky and blissful man now.

[Oldman13]

Support your thread. We more keen on the story and not his opinions!!

QUOTE=seowlang;18536420]i hear u bro[/QUOTE]

[StaminaIsKey]

Originally Posted by Ntspannar

You really are something. You fucked her sister and feel that it's a bitter thing when small couple problems are used as reasons to divorce?!!

You didn't get caught so that can't be used. Your wife was definitely not wrong about you. Not trying to be some keyboard warrior but if I was your wife brother or father I would castrate u, not ask her to divorce u. Divorce would be the least of your problems. All the other readers won't say it as theynjust wanna read the sex parts but with this mindset you definitely deserve to be a eunuch. No remorse and only blaming the wife...seems like you're not better than the worst of her...

Come sex forum telling others how to be saint. Such hypocrite...
I wonder if your head kena kick by donkey when you baby or what. Come sex forum tell others this and that.

[Lilypussy]

Originally Posted by Ntspannar

I have never troll any thread. Iread and enjoy.
But if you're justifying yourself with that mindset it just shows what kind of man you are.
I do not judge the relationships you undergo and I am not the type that goes oh your wife will future partner will cheat on you as karma. Couldn't care less.

But to justify your entitled self on how and why your wife gave poor reasons for divorce...just because you didn't get caught is cowardly. Man up. She made her errors and so did you. No need to make it look better or package it with you did not get caught. At least she said she didnt love you anymore. That's pretty truthful. You on the other hand ignored the fact you lied (which is fine by most here as ppl here like to claim we are in sex forum so lying is ok, had an affair with her sister which is something most ppl like to read too so they say is fine but they get upset when they wear green hat...go figure) and then later even decide to push more blame towards the wife for wanting a divorce.

Just for the general consensus, I'm here mostly to read ilock stories. It doesn't make me any whiter than the average guy but I don't hide behind excuses like this is a sex forum so all logic and objectivity should be thrown out the window because it appears the ones who quote me back and disagree are the same ones who say I shouldn't judge or disagree. Typical. Only like reading what suits their dicks.

If u like the story, read quietly, otherwise just F.O.!
No one ask you to analyse the content if it is right morally, and whether he is coward or not, or he did wrong whatsoever, is NONe of your business!

You come in here behind your GF/Wife already you are NOT, what right have you to judge others??

[diputs1269]

Originally Posted by seowlang

i hear u bro

Can you please continue writing your Story, thank you.