What I look for in a Fuck buddy

[bootybonker]

i look for milf
big boobs, perky round butt

on the outside is a career woman
on the bed is a wild pussy begging for cock

[tissue]

Originally Posted by beingunknown200

wow it is nice to hear about a nice (and on-going) relationship, esp from a sis. Tissue, think you and your husband r very blessed to have found each other, and a match of expectations at it! haha hope you can continue to satisfy your high sexual needs! *think you have to boil more herbal soup for him to bu bu a but*

Hi bro,

Yes, I did la..I always buy tonic soup for him and sometimes I forget to buy chicken meat, I will just add anything that is in the fridge..He will kpkb says its not nice but I will force him drink down saying that I cooked whole day for him and bitter medicine is good medicine and he lan lan must drink..

Originally Posted by beingunknown200

Back to the topic of this thread, after listening and observing from my buddies' experience (I personally think FB is a messy concept, too much emotional buggage), I sometimes think it is better to NOT find someone that you know as your FB, i.e. from workplace or among your friends circle. One of buddies used to up this mutual friend of ours during his "down" days...and he shared with us about his F experience with this friend of ours. Man, from then on, I cannot see this lady friend in the same light anymore.

To me, only current boyfriends of good friends and guys that my good gal frens have feelings for are off limits..Some may call me a slut but I think that guys are fair game once they do not belong to the above 2 categories..No guy is worth breaking up a friendship..Golden rule of being a FB: DO NOT KISS & TELL..

Originally Posted by beingunknown200

Guess it is ok to find within own circle of friends, but if you do, really please dont kiss and tell. It will create too much buggage.
Just my 2 cent's worth

I fully agree...I slept with a good guy friend of mine who is also a good friend of my husband and we are still very good friends now..We still meet regularly at gatherings, not to screw though..It was a one off thing just to cheer him up as he had just broke off with his gf..We decided that it will be a one off as he has enough FB and it is and because he is a very good friend of my husband (then FB who really liked me)..Talk about complications ah..

Cheers / Tissue

[tissue]

Hi All,

** Drift abit from topic**

Some brothers here have been giving me points for my postings in this thread..

Some are given by people who has been chatting and exchanging pointers and some are just people I dunno..

Nevertheless, I would like to say thanks alot for those who gave me the points (even though I dun see any use for it)..

Unless the guy you people cal BOSS allows me to trade in for . . . .

Anyway, thanks alot guys..

Cheers / Tissue

[shrek]

Originally Posted by tissue

Hi HardCock,




If the gal you like puts looks above anything else, then frankly, she does not deserve you..For gals like this, she will also mistake a FB relationship to be a BGR and will in the end bring more troubles for everyone involved..A gal like this is shallow and immature and really not worth spending all the efforts..

From my experience, the types of gals that places too much emphasis on looks are also more prone to emotional blackmails..They tend to think that they are more different than normal gals and they cannot accept that you are just treating her as a FB..If she does not get her way, she will start to do whatever funny stuff that she can think of..

Cheers / Tissue

ya right sister, but i ever met a girl who is maybe materialist or should i say more realistic?
she choose someone who is much older like 36 ten us. btw i'm 23 she's 22. reason behind is simple he's more finanical stable than me.. well, my age, i'm already earning 3k+ while i think for that guy as a well known local company manager earn maybe close to 4+...
this really cold my heart..

[tissue]

Originally Posted by shrek

ya right sister, but i ever met a girl who is maybe materialist or should i say more realistic?
she choose someone who is much older like 36 ten us. btw i'm 23 she's 22. reason behind is simple he's more finanical stable than me.. well, my age, i'm already earning 3k+ while i think for that guy as a well known local company manager earn maybe close to 4+...
this really cold my heart..

Hi Shrek,

I'm sorry to hear that but sometimes money may not be the only deciding factor. Have you considered other factors that may have made her move towards him?

For example, older guys may be more attentive to her wants and needs (in ALL aspects), they may be more comfortable with her and will be more patient towards her..There are tons of factors..

I had past lovers who were many years older then me and I admit that money is also an attractive factor..But then again, with older men, they really take very good care of younger gals, have more patience with me (then) and the sex was good..

Hope it helped!

Cheers / Tissue

[justwanadoit]

If only SBF have a section where many samster and samstress come looking for FB will be great. But will only work if there are samstresses really looking into it

[steamer]

Originally Posted by justwanadoit

If only SBF have a section where many samster and samstress come looking for FB will be great. But will only work if there are samstresses really looking into it

the samsters will probably hv to draw lots or participate in some reality show type exercise to be chosen..given the great nos of samsters here. or maybe like the subaru car challenge...see who can stay hard longest

[asdfghjkl]

got real FB here.. giving tips also.. sammyboyforum siao liao ah!

[yankim3]

Originally Posted by justwanadoit

If only SBF have a section where many samster and samstress come looking for FB will be great. But will only work if there are samstresses really looking into it

yeah. it would be great if we can held gathering and see who can click with who. then work it out from there. but thats not easy as the girls might be afraid to be seen by someone that knew them or her husband/bf.

[SharkMan]

Originally Posted by tissue

....I had past lovers who were many years older then me and I admit that money is also an attractive factor..But then again, with older men, they really take very good care of younger gals, have more patience with me (then) and the sex was good..

Hope it helped!

Cheers / Tissue

Hi Tissue, just to say I've enjoyed reading your comments.

[EyeLevel]

Originally Posted by HardCock

Recently, when we went out with for tea and coffee, we started to talk about our sexual fantasies...I dunno wat that mean...I guess that she's very comfortable with me to talk about such topics. Anyway, that's this time that she rest her head on my shoulder when talking her personal problem. Well, as a gentleman, I of cos lent it willingly. I also took this opportunity and gave her a tight hug...she din resist. In case u guys misunderstood, we din do anything...hahaha...Like I said earlier, better be safe than sorry...can't make one wrong move...she let me hug doesn't mean anything right!!!

Bro HC,
The signs are all there as wat the rest of bros and sis says... especially sis Tissue.. usually if the gal even bothers to sit close to you and rub shoulders with you, she is very comfortable with you.

If I were in your scenario, after the hug.. the safest is a lingering kiss to the forehead.... she might give you a questioning look .. if you interpret it as anger, then goes " sorry, I thought that kiss might help a little", if its a smiling questioning look .. then I say go for the lips liao.

I just went through a bazaar period ... someone I ject recently know, supposedly "couselling" me about my problems ... and after 1 week of counselling.... errr.. we are FBs now.... I'm still trying to figure how did it become so .. ha ha ha ha..

Cheers!

[shawn_mib]

sob sob, till now i haven even able to find a fuck buddy, guess i'm reali hopeless in this area... sad

[bennzi]

guys..not sure if the phrase 'fuck buddy' applies for this instances...for my case..would call it my lover w/o string attached....

how do we keep a discreet r/s purely sexual??....no sure how many of u are married here....dont u all find being discreet is kinder hard?? say..no holding hands in public....or behaving too intimately....or worried of bumping ppl u know on the streets...be it even in hotels..... i guess the adrenaline beats the stress to many of u here..

as for me...more like avoiding crowded places...ony goes out in the nite...goes to hotel that is very discreet....or the safest place is ur lover's place....or in ur car....i beilieve all guys will have sex in their very head..as for the ladies..its the attention...the company that makes them cling on u..rather then being horny...

but is it possible..that all the conditions are met b4 we ever consider to hve lovers outside our marriage???? or rather...married ppl better dont lite the fire unnessarily???

I like to have that thrill once a while...in terms of company..sex...conversations...dont we all swear we all love our wife..will never leave her no matter what we do outside...at the end of the day..how many of us are so clear headed that it is only a short term sexual adventures we crave for...but knowingly it wont last till end of our life....or are we having guilt as time goes by.......

[itguide]

Hey no worries. FB is indeed hard to find. Keep trying... and remember... you must respect them and take good care of them so that you do not hurt them.

I take care of mine and treasure her so much and did not even dare to CIM because I am afraid she can't take it. No regret now even though she is not with me any more maybe she thinks I do not like her enough to feed her with my semen.

Just keep trying and have fun.

[shawn_mib]

Originally Posted by itguide

Hey no worries. FB is indeed hard to find. Keep trying... and remember... you must respect them and take good care of them so that you do not hurt them.


Just keep trying and have fun.

totally agree, but where the best place to start searching?