Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[jackbl]

Now i think difficult to ask GOOD BOY out. He's always at "JC".
Hope to meet up with you guys again ...

Originally Posted by Sha_Gua75

maybe you can ask naemlo more about tales of working gals. He more Lao Jiao in this field
PAGING PAGING FOR GOOD BOY!!!

[Sha_Gua75]

Originally Posted by SingViet

I beg to differ. Pham Ngu lao is such a complicated place. better to stay elsewhere. i personally prefer Bui Thi Xuan. U can get nice rooms at cheap rates. If u really sibei poor till u need rooms that cost US$8 a night, then Pham Ngu lao may offer some suggestions. [/COLOR]

You rich not poor... me poor...but Pham Ngu Lao is more attractive to me. Complicated? Dont think so to me. Maybe different mindset again. Anyway the room there I havent see 8 usd one before...U recommend empress b4 but I see Empress not nice as in terms of value of such pricing..and around the hotel nothing much to walk around at night..

Pham Ngu is more crowded with foreigner and more lively...Personally I myself feel safer walking alone at Pham Ngu Lao than walking alone at street of Malaysia...If really so scare of danger...i would suggest to anyone dont go vn but stay in Singapore...safer

[Sha_Gua75]

Originally Posted by jackbl

Now i think difficult to ask GOOD BOY out. He's always at "JC".
Hope to meet up with you guys again ...

No leh...that GOOD BOY online now...maybe surfing prono

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by Sha_Gua75

maybe you can ask naemlo more about tales of working gals. He more Lao Jiao in this field
PAGING PAGING FOR GOOD BOY!!!

Nbzzzz......si sha_gua.

To me, trust a WL only 1% of wat she said. Doubt her 99%.

As usual I will say this, "friends are there to advise, end of the day it is u who choose your own path, if it success, your friends will be happy but if it unsuccess then blame yourself n not others."

There are thousands of Viet normal gers on the street, y choose to fall for WL??? When u choose to fall for WL n yet still doubt her, life not miserable enough meh????

Hmmmm y there is a wall in front, yet a lot of ppl still bang their face onto it?

[bonkers69]

wow...nowadays paging still jalan ah
agreed with bro GOOD BOY advice

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by Sha_Gua75

No leh...that GOOD BOY online now...maybe surfing prono

Lucky u didn't mentioned me. I dun surf porno sites but downloading AV.

[Sha_Gua75]

Originally Posted by naemlo

When u choose to fall for WL n yet still doubt her, life not miserable enough meh????

Hmm so you saying fall in love with WL roi...cannot doubt her but believe all she said?

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by Sha_Gua75

Hmm so you saying fall in love with WL roi...cannot doubt her but believe all she said?

Hhehehe yes believe in her.... cos those who fall for WL cannot think properly liao. Enjoy while it lasts.

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by Sha_Gua75

I do not know why but reading what you write, give me uneasy feeling...just be careful...it is hard to listen to what others advise as the party involved wont listen in...but normally what they advise will have some sense up to certain %...

maybe you can ask naemlo more about tales of working gals. He more Lao Jiao in this field
PAGING PAGING FOR GOOD BOY!!!

Bro Sha_Gua75, thank you for your concern. I know you had some bad experience with JC viet gals, thats why you are very careful with that now. Yes, my viet g/f did work in JC before and i know her there. But still there are good one and bad one... she belongs to the good type. I have seen many viet working gals also (although now i am into pinoy). I know which type of gal is fark and throw type and which type can be friends.

Through the many sms and phone calls and chat and visiting my viet g/f in vn, i do belief she do not belong to the category of a typical working gal in JC. Although she belongs to the poor people in vn...

Not all working gals are bad as stereotyped by most bros here... personally i know another working gal 2 years back... and now she is happily married in sillypore and have been a good wife to her husband now. Her husband also knew her in JC... he was once my enemy in this love traingle.

Anyway... still thank you very much for your concern and would like to continue sharing with u things about vn gals. Cheers

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by SingViet

Correct, no gift is not good idea. if no gift for 1st time, then u can kiss her family goodbye

Than i should be lucky that my viet g/f bring me to supermarket to buy about S$35 of groceries before visiting her parents...

[Sha_Gua75]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

I know you had some bad experience with JC viet gals, thats why you are very careful with that now. Yes, my viet g/f did work in JC before and i know her there. But still there are good one and bad one... she belongs to the good type. I have seen many viet working gals also (although now i am into pinoy). I know which type of gal is fark and throw type and which type can be friends.

Through the many sms and phone calls and chat and visiting my viet g/f in vn, i do belief she do not belong to the category of a typical working gal in JC. Although she belongs to the poor people in vn...

Not all working gals are bad as stereotyped by most bros here...

Hmm not just me bad experience but my friend too...even to the extend that he lose his job...and now i dont be careful with them now vi nothing to be careful about...no matter how careful...when the time comes...also become helpless....I also tell pple and myself that the WL i know last time belong to the good group one...

I would say that 99.9% of the WL is poor people in VN....

I dont stereotyped those WL as bad girl....I have know a few of them and they are nice to me and so vice versa in terms of friends...I once know a WL in JC and when I tell her that that day is my birthday...she ask for my IC to prove...and later on 1 martell on my table as bird day present...

There is a few case of WL from Singapore happily married ...but I never seen it myself b4...only hear and say....like I say before...no one knows what really happen behind their relationship...one thing good about your girl is that she dont work in Singaporea long enough to know more people from JC...if not can you imagine that she go there to JC to chit chat after your marriage? and pick up more bad habit...?

I know a WL who get married happily...that WL also tell me how her husband love her etc...but almost everyday at JC drinking...

Not that I want to look bad on your relationship...but really hope from my heart that it will goes well for you and your girls....

just remember the old saying....欢场无真情 and Love is Blind...

There is some truth in it....

ps: if it did failed...dont be shy...learning process of vietnamese poison

[SingViet]

I do agree that there are WL that are actually good. But to be really true, i should say that most people are born good, but it was due to environmental reasons that they become bad. Some bros that i know put up a very simple reasoning, if these WL are good, then why do they want to become WL? Why are there lots of poor vietnamese gals in Vietnam that choose to work in proper jobs and refused to become WL? These bros are correct to a certain extend. But often, the families of the WL put so much pressure on them to bring money back that they have to resort to such means. This is coupled with the fact that they are hardly educated, so becoming WL is the only option to earn more money. My wife's cousin (Sha Gua knows her well ) refused to choose the path to become WL although she is faced with financial problems all the time.

They are also some WL that are tired of all the family burden and the life of a WL that they want to quit when they find a good man to marry. These ladies actually have seen thru man's nature and will treat their man really well when they choose to settle with the chosen man.

So in fact, not all WL are bad although majority of them are quite schemming. it will have to depend on your fate

[SingViet]

Originally Posted by Sha_Gua75

You rich not poor... me poor...but Pham Ngu Lao is more attractive to me. Complicated? Dont think so to me. Maybe different mindset again.

I didn't say u poor, why u so sensitive? I didn't think that Pham Ngu lao is a complicated place when i first arrived in VN some years ago. But after a few years and getting to know the place better, i changed my views. Often, many places look alright if u do not know the place that well, but after u stay there for some time and get to know it better, your mindset will change.

[Sha_Gua75]

Originally Posted by SingViet

I didn't say u poor, why u so sensitive? I didn't think that Pham Ngu lao is a complicated place when i first arrived in VN some years ago. But after a few years and getting to know the place better, i changed my views. Often, many places look alright if u do not know the place that well, but after u stay there for some time and get to know it better, your mindset will change.

not sensitive la. just joking about u rich i poor. anyway Pam Ngu Lao to traveller is a better place to look see and I know it is not wise to stay long there. Just like Gelyang Red Light District nice to go look see but not nice if you stay there with family for long term..But in terms of safety I see it way better than farking malaysia...where even at petrol station you get gun down or shopping centre you get rob...

[Sha_Gua75]

Originally Posted by SingViet

They are also some WL that are tired of all the family burden and the life of a WL that they want to quit when they find a good man to marry. These ladies actually have seen thru man's nature and will treat their man really well when they choose to settle with the chosen man.

So in fact, not all WL are bad although majority of them are quite schemming. it will have to depend on your fate

On the other possiblity....maybe they see a good man nearby so they start schemming to get the good man to fall in love with them and marry them and settle down...

This way can call real love or not? Depend on individual I guess...althought love will come soon after they settle down...