Similar situation anyone?

[teeteedoh]

Hello all! I'm new to this place here and I'm quite impressed at how helpful many of the bros and sis are here! Kudos to that!

Anyway, I'm just wondering if there are any bros out there who's kinda in the same situation as I am now? I'm going on 25 this year, had 3 relationships so far but still not getting any (if you know what I mean ). Somehow my luck with gfs are always with those no-sex-before-marriage kind and that doesn't go well with me. So now i'm still a virgin while quite a couple of my close friends have already had plenty of experience already. I feel like I'm missing out on an exciting part of life right here, so it'll be nice to know that there are others out there who share similar fates! Also, bros with solid advice please feel free to share too! Thanks and looking forward to hear some stories!

[ah rat]

Ts,marry then f**k

[ZacCommand]

TS if you are keen to lose your virginity , may I suggest you head on down to Geylang legal houses . There many girls willing to help you but of course for a small fee. Just my humble 2 cents suggestion.

[teeteedoh]

Originally Posted by ah rat

Ts,marry then f**k

Hahaha buay sai lah liddat must wait damn long leh

[4getful]

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[4getful]

TS, may i suggest you go for PRC gals first. You can easily have all type of sex with the PRC gals. Next time when you are ready to settle down, you can choose those type no sex before marriage. Or another view is, you have been fooled. Those gals who told you no sex before marry, probably already fuck by their previous bf. If women's words can be trusted, they would not have 2mouth already.

We are living in an era of use n throw, quick meal, instant noodle, 3in 1 coffee, promotion due to carry balls, not due to your capability to do a job. That is y we will be seeing more n more project failure, more mistake made and more local talented, their knowledge not being tapped. Hard working n sincere ppl are suffering. Same as ppl having good gf or happy marriage but suffer with no sex. We are like heading to a self destruction with no u turn. If you don't keep up the pace, you gonna be lose out. Life is short, enjoy before you wake up realising u have aged n the cock cannot stand anymore.

[teeteedoh]

Originally Posted by 4getful

We are living in an era of use n throw, quick meal, instant noodle, 3in 1 coffee, promotion due to carry balls, not due to your capability to do a job. That is y we will be seeing more n more project failure, more mistake made and more local talented, their knowledge not being tapped. Hard working n sincere ppl are suffering. Same as ppl having good gf or happy marriage but suffer with no sex. We are like heading to a self destruction with no u turn. If you don't keep up the pace, you gonna be lose out. Life is short, enjoy before you wake up realising u have aged n the cock cannot stand anymore.

Seems like you've been through a lot bro, sounds like some harsh truth there. I'm thinking that I'll just settle for some casual, non-serious kind of relationship first with some local open-minded ladies perhaps? Just too bad haven't had much luck in the area. I've even tried Tinder but the girls there srsly just don't reply (not like i used some cheesy pickup lines...). Always wondered how those studs do it man :/

[ZhugeYaz]

hi bro teeteedoh.
When I was 20 and still a virgin with no GF, I decided to pay for sex. Never backed down since. 7 years liao. Now I have a very good GF, I still pay for sex. Its a sickness. I do it because I can. At the prospect of something unknown. So if you haven't started, DONT. Look far away from this forum and marry a nice girl and bonk her all your life. But if you want the dark side. stay and be prepared to lose yourself. I consider myself a very nice guy who do things because I am trapped in a warped reality of buying pleasure. We can talk more about it if you want. I am not much older than you so I can relate.

[teeteedoh]

Originally Posted by ZhugeYaz

hi bro teeteedoh.
When I was 20 and still a virgin with no GF, I decided to pay for sex. Never backed down since. 7 years liao. Now I have a very good GF, I still pay for sex. Its a sickness. I do it because I can. At the prospect of something unknown. So if you haven't started, DONT. Look far away from this forum and marry a nice girl and bonk her all your life. But if you want the dark side. stay and be prepared to lose yourself. I consider myself a very nice guy who do things because I am trapped in a warped reality of buying pleasure. We can talk more about it if you want. I am not much older than you so I can relate.

Hello ZhugeYaz thanks for the advice, it sure does feel better to know there are indeed others who share or once shared the same fate. Did you ever feel frustrated with yourself? Like you're not much different, or sometimes even better than other dudes out there but somehow they seem to be getting it all the time? Also, how come you got gf liao still find others for sex? No offence but you kena the no-sex-before-marriage kind of gf also ar?

[conquer]

TS can go geylang to pop your cherry. They will give you an angpow if they know you are still a virgin.

[UnFulfilled]

U got try or not? Step by step ma. Today kiss, tmolo pet n next n next ma. Cant be 3/3 fail.

[teeteedoh]

Originally Posted by UnFulfilled

U got try or not? Step by step ma. Today kiss, tmolo pet n next n next ma. Cant be 3/3 fail.

Of course lah... Got hit 2nd base or 3rd base (depending on your definitions), but just end up stuck there never go homerun. :/

[larue]

Originally Posted by teeteedoh

Seems like you've been through a lot bro, sounds like some harsh truth there. I'm thinking that I'll just settle for some casual, non-serious kind of relationship first with some local open-minded ladies perhaps? Just too bad haven't had much luck in the area. I've even tried Tinder but the girls there srsly just don't reply (not like i used some cheesy pickup lines...). Always wondered how those studs do it man :/

Don't think so much, just go out and have fun. You're young so don't let anyone stop you.

If there ever was a time for you to look stupid trying, or make mistakes, now's the time. The world is big, the pond is full of fish. Have fun fishing, or whatever you think could be fun. Maybe scale Everest or something.

Go sign up for yoga, ballroom dancing whatever. Think anyone will laugh? No, and if they do, the joke's on them. Million and one ways to get girls.

Don't be self conscious, it's a nasty chinese habit that creates a mental prison.

Don't be the 'nice' guy. All that will get you when you're older is a big hole going 'I threw my youth away', and that hole never goes away, no matter what kind of girl you eventually marry. That 'I should have....'

Here I am trying to make amends at an older age, and I am not talking specifically about sex, but the whole going out and getting a real life just for me, but with restrictions you don't face at your age.

Life is a carousel, it goes round till the ride is over. You don't want to look back with regret. A lot of people do, and still do nothing but exist. Don't be one. If I was the person then that I am now...

She won't put out for you, find one that does. Don't stop there, look at your life for things you want to change, and go do it.

[1nottiboy]

Once upon a time, I was just like you. A real gentleman. I had total respect for women and I believed they wanted to save themselves for marriage. Let me tell you. I was wrong.

Women are just like men. They want sex too. But they dun wanna be labelled a slut. So you hafta take the bulls by the horn. Be assertive. Not forceful. I am not asking you to rape you gf but you have to push the right buttons.

Unfortunately, knowing which buttons to push is not a science. It is an art that is acquired over time. Anyway my parting words to you are "if she is not fucking you, she could be fucking someone else."

[pleasurehobby]

Do you know?

Women experience 3 times as much pleasure in sexual intercourse as compared to them?

As much as they deny it, they want sex more than you.

If you have the skills to create the chemistry with them, they are often already wet before you even touch them at all.