Why do men stray...? Do i start again??

[Omax]

To TS, did your wife find out about your once off or prolonged relationship/s or both.

Women react differently to once off than to relationships.
however as I see it, she is still in it with you but need time to balance herself.

Sometimes I wonder if women knows their partner will inevitably have extras outside, but is content as long as they don't find out and the family is not neglected or compromised.

[xijodoy65]

s their partner w

[scuderia88]

Originally Posted by weefred

Haha do you feel sad when you visit geylang or fl? Well, she's been playing with guys well before she met me. So ,i guess not?
Heck, she's the one who find a guy to fuck Infront of me when i told her i got cuck fetish while watching porn.

Bro, so sorry to hear that. I hope you are alright.

[mikekey]

some will get to find out

[lurpsexx]

Originally Posted by itguy2008

TS, I am divorced. So I do not hope that you failed in your marriage like me.

Howeever, one thing you can consider doing to save your relationship.

Did you talk to your partner about it? Sometimes it starts from a simple feeling that both parties take each other for granted.

These thoughts then poisoned the relationship.

Thank you for your reply.. well, i did bring up that we dont talk much nowadays, cause she use her phone n earpiece everytime, n when i chit chat with her, she can't hear me cause she listening to her online stories thru her earpiece.. so she didnt respond at all, i do feel dejected when there's no response n i then raised my voice to get her attention, then she looked annoyed i talked loudly.. but i didn't give it back, n instead opt to remain silent to prevent any escalation.. that's my way of trying to get closer to her, n still trying...

[lurpsexx]

Originally Posted by Omax

To TS, did your wife find out about your once off or prolonged relationship/s or both.

Women react differently to once off than to relationships.
however as I see it, she is still in it with you but need time to balance herself.

Sometimes I wonder if women knows their partner will inevitably have extras outside, but is content as long as they don't find out and the family is not neglected or compromised.

Thank you for your reply too.. yes, i feel she's still in our relationship, but she's cooled off much, not put so much effort into maintaining the relation, we still go out as a family n do family things together, not like going to implode n divorce soon, just that things not so fun as before..
To those who talk about counselling, yeah we went to imh see counselling, n the counsellor spoke to us individually n as a group, we put into practice the suggestion n its a work in progress.. one thing the counsellor said n which i rem is, don't give up, do things like we used to when its fun n the healing will start with time..
So if is in our biological makeup or whatever reason, each of us hv our reason to do what we did, n we reap ehat we sowed, so whether good or bad after effects, its a experience to not forget.. that's life..

[ZolZ]

Originally Posted by lurpsexx

one thing the counsellor said n which i rem is, don't give up, do things like we used to when its fun n the healing will start with time..

Hang in there bro, I know its tough, and it can only be tough. But my respects to you for giving it a honest sincere effort to reconcile.
Thumbs up.

[AdamLee12]

Do you really need marriage?

[itguy2008]

Originally Posted by lurpsexx

Thank you for your reply.. well, i did bring up that we dont talk much nowadays, cause she use her phone n earpiece everytime, n when i chit chat with her, she can't hear me cause she listening to her online stories thru her earpiece.. so she didnt respond at all, i do feel dejected when there's no response n i then raised my voice to get her attention, then she looked annoyed i talked loudly.. but i didn't give it back, n instead opt to remain silent to prevent any escalation.. that's my way of trying to get closer to her, n still trying...

After a few years like that then the relationship will change in nature.

That was how my wife and I ended up divorced.

[saheno]

I'm fighting this urge now, but everytime i feel put down by those close to me, pushes me back to another's embrace, paid or not .. what do you think?

[Gummy1]

Very common for us

[kidssy]

I'm fighting this urge now, but everytime i feel put down by those close to me, pushes me back to another's embrace, paid or not .. what do you think?

[daexample]

I'm fighting this urge now,

[gavati77]

I'm fighting this urge now,

[rafiper]

initially due to excitement