Real life account of being in relationship with Thai FL

[jlanjut]

Waiting patiently for new updates.

[Smee]

Hmmmm, this is not a story.
This is at best a badly written summary of a story.
You skip through important details, you just go like, they stripped, they fucked.....
And without saying what happened, how to know how to react ?

Originally Posted by RockerLee

Part 5


While going thru and amending the deck and rehearsing, with Leaf leaning again his shoulder beside him, he caught a sight of her on Facebook and asked candidly if she could add him as well.

To say things escalated quickly will be an understatement.

That night, no bang, no kisses, after Mr T is done with the presentation prep, he slept outside on the sofa, got ready for work and as usual, left some money on the bedside table and left without a word or acknowledging Leaf, despite her pleas for his understanding.

After us bros heard this part, we all ask ourselves how we would have reacted in his shoes.

How would you guys react in this situation ?
 

Why did things escalate, how did it escalate ?
Her pleas for understanding ? About or for what ?

[RockerLee]

Originally Posted by iLuvSashimi

What did Leaf reply or what reason she gave bout adding her on FB?

Patience, there are things that need to fact check first

[RockerLee]

Originally Posted by Smee

Hmmmm, this is not a story.
This is at best a badly written summary of a story.
You skip through important details, you just go like, they stripped, they fucked.....
And without saying what happened, how to know how to react ?



Why did things escalate, how did it escalate ?
Her pleas for understanding ? About or for what ?

Says the leech with a 2011 account but only 11 post
Judge les you be judged

Contribute something better to the forum if you find this sharing of low quality

I look forward to your legitimate contributions

[RockerLee]

Part 6

After a successful presentation, Mr T joined his team for celebratory drinks and got piss drunk, surprising his coworkers as he is well known in the company, limiting himself usually to 1-2 drinks.

As he didn’t get back to the hotel at the usual time, Leaf was worried and kept calling him on his phone. One of his team members answered the phone and explained that Mr T is pissed drunk and they do not know which hotel he is staying at or what to do.

They carried him back to the hotel, greeted by a worried Leaf at the lobby.
Mr T mentioned he do not know what happened that night from his drunken stupor, but knew that Leaf was extremely concerned for him and despite the language barrier, went out and got him medication for hangover and what not.

Next morning, Mr T woke up with a splitting headache and Leaf hugging him. His movement awoken Leaf and immediately she got up and checked on him.

After she poured him a glass of water, they spoke, trying to recall what happened the night before, Leaf unlocked her phone and handed it to Mr T before going out to the living room.

Mr T deliberated awhile before locking the phone and walked out gingerly to join Leaf at the sofa and returning her the phone.

He just rests his head on her thighs, told her he didn’t check the phone and want to hear what she has to say instead of forming his own story or judgement.

She massaged his head after apologizing again for reacting badly and freaking out when he wanting to see her Facebook, only her family and closest friends are able to see her Facebook and even then, not everyone is able to everything she post, she is careful with who sees what and the contents of which are all her private thoughts and memories.

They both opened their hearts to each other and spent the whole morning talking and Leaf walked him thru her Facebook posts.

[Pokenpigs]

share more enjoy reading it

[RockerLee]

Part 7

Leaf showed what is exactly on her Facebook and came clean.

Most of her post were of her attending parties, travelling the world with her “Sugar” while she is actually travelling to work as FL and going out with customers to fancy places.

Technically not wrong, as she probably does have a sugar daddy or two in each of the countries she has visited. Judging from what I saw on her Facebook, should have at least 1 in each of Japan, Australia, Canada, Germany, Austria, Malaysia and Singapore.

According to Mr T, Leaf confessed that she has never held a normal job before in her life, from her teens till now, she always had someone to support her financially be it as a boyfriend, sugar or whatever and therefore afraid of actually finding an normal job despite holding a degree.

Latest post is a selfie of herself standing behind Mr T while they were ordering coffee from the evening before, with the caption, “Language is no barrier when Love is the language.”

Next is a post of the iPhone purchase, again a selfie with Mr T in the background making payment.

Slowly going thru the post till finally arriving at the post with a screen shot showing X amount of Thai Baht transferred to her by her “Sugar”, who turns out to be none other than Major Ops.

In another post, she posted a screen shot of their conversation about looking for a ring, with the caption, “lucky girl or silly man, not even a month already asking me to look for ring.” on Facebook.

Leaf confessed that she has always maintained contact with Major Ops since returning to BKK.

She shared further that he will frequently check in on her asking if she has enough money, sometimes transferring money before she could even respond in time.

And most importantly expressed his desire to get engaged with her and getting married within a year of engagement.

And thus, over time, she has developed a liking for Major Ops.

Love him or love him for the money?

Mr T also shared, while he personally does not use social media, he is aware that Thai girls, especially in Bangkok are addicted to social media.
They generally use Facebook, Instagram and tiktok to show off or craft a very careful image of themselves to gain followers, friends, envy and clout.

As with most people nowadays, have the fake it, till you make it mentality and thus his curiosity of how Leaf portrays herself.

Leaf shared further, she always felt that Mr T is busy with work, no time for her and have yet to express any signs of commitment to her.

She also felt Mr T is too perfect a guy for a working girl like her, and feels Mr T will be embarrassed to bring her out to meet his friends or family since they are like from different worlds, different status.

Mr T of course retorted back at her, this time and their past encounter in the past, they only in contact for less than 2 month, it is too soon to talk about engagement or anything of that sort.

Anyone who promises that to her is a liar or so caught up and head over heels, that once woken from the honey moon period, what ever feelings and relationship they have will end.

Mr T explained further, that he just wants to better understand each other before promising Leaf anything and he does not look down on her and asked if at any moment from before did he do or said anything that is in anyway degrading.

He just wants to do what he can to prove himself and to her that he is more than capable of fitting Leaf into his busy schedule and also to better understand her and does indeed still see a future with her, the same one that he has shared with her before.

Basically, Mr T do not want to promise the stars and in the end give Leaf only a picture of a star before waving bye bye if things don’t work out.

Leaf nodded in agreement, she is also sick and tired of being in relationships that burns brightly at first before fizzing out quickly and is indeed looking to settle down.

Yes, I am acutely aware how ridiculous it sounds that in less than a month, both Major Ops and Leaf are discussing about getting engaged and eventually married