Unable to cum as well/sex issue

[alantay]

Okay just so just now I visit a pretty china ML that looks like Korean model. I was so surprised that she actually accepted me even though I told her that I'm not circumcised and my penis is quite large. I'm also quite tall in frame as well at 185 cm and 69 kg tall. I myself look young in person, as I have a healthy diet and frequently consume probiotic and reservatrol. 我也很擅长用中文来跟人家沟通。So there's actually a few of the issue I face:

1) I have no stamina when it comes to missionary position, I frequently ask that WL if I can switch to a scissor position and she obliged to me. Even went on sitting position right I feel very restless so I have to lean my back against the mattress.

2) okay so not having circumcising feels like having a layer of condom on me. It takes me very very long to ejaculate. So I have to set the expectation right for the WL that if the time is up and I cannot cum so be it.

3) okay when the penis is a bit large and of course the lady will feel a lot more pleasure. Some may not like it because they were a few a bit more pain. So in I have to switch to hand job and after that I can manage to ejaculate. However it takes a lot of teasing and such to get ejaculated. About 50 minutes mark.

4) I do watch a lot of porn and masturbate regularly on a daily basis. However recently I feel that I'm not able to ejaculate that frequently even when I masturbate.

5) I myself is under Lyrica 150 mg everyday as a nerve stabilizer. Because of frequent migraine that affects my work performance. This also helps me sleep a lot better however when I Google online it seems to affect my sexual health.

6) under my testicle right there is a lot some bit of fungal infection because of the heat and weather in Singapore. So recently I get steroid antibiotic cream from the doctor who is a urologist and he feels a lot better I also managed to ask him if he managed to do circumcisation under general anaesthesia and he say that he is better than the shang method.

7) I myself do see a physiotherapist regularly to get treated of my upper back and the right side of my body. They also mentioned I have some kind of slouching related issue and have a mild form of scilocis.

[ModelsInc]

how old r u ?

[alantay]

Originally Posted by ModelsInc

how old r u ?

I am 36.....

[Nekofear]

Need you to get aroused by foreplay first.. maybe ML give sexy talk or praise, then you monitor your cum again.. maybe quicker after this

[erapryde]

Are you able to do some regular exercise? Stamina can be improved over time. Sex is after all a workout itself. Also, I used to be a very heavy porn user and engaged in too frequent masturbating over a long period of time. I'm talking 16 years long.

Some brief backstory, I did not have sex for 16 years of my life even though I was attached throughout those years from when I was 26 until 42. I only started having sex again once I became single again this April. So during those 16 years it was just porn and heavy self servicing to quench my libido (I won't go into why this happened because it has something to do with my principles).

Physically, I started having erection and ejaculation problems. Mentally, I started to develop an unhealthy disgust for what I have become. The disgust was so bad that I actually hated touching my own dick. I wanted to lose the cognitive connection my brain has made between my hand and my dick. What I did to fix myself was to go cold turkey on the porn and masturbation for awhile, 3-4 months for me before I saw some results. It's much better already.

[alantay]

Originally Posted by erapryde

Are you able to do some regular exercise? Stamina can be improved over time. Sex is after all a workout itself. Also, I used to be a very heavy porn user and engaged in too frequent masturbating over a long period of time. I'm talking 16 years long.

Some brief backstory, I did not have sex for 16 years of my life even though I was attached throughout those years from when I was 26 until 42. I only started having sex again once I became single again this April. So during those 16 years it was just porn and heavy self servicing to quench my libido (I won't go into why this happened because it has something to do with my principles).

Physically, I started having erection and ejaculation problems. Mentally, I started to develop an unhealthy disgust for what I have become. The disgust was so bad that I actually hated touching my own dick. I wanted to lose the cognitive connection my brain has made between my hand and my dick. What I did to fix myself was to go cold turkey on the porn and masturbation for awhile, 3-4 months for me before I saw some results. It's much better already.

So you mean have sex regularly is also a form of workout? Yeah I feel that a lot of stamina is required when having real sex. I mean this kind of dopamine addiction is action quite hard to get rid of.