The biggest complaint regarding this forum has always been over the fake freelancer stuff.
However those who started this journey the same time that I did will recall that I never intended to feature freelancers in the forum in the first place.
The forum was started to share information regarding the legal girls at Geylang and the other legal districts and the grey zone in health centres and ktv lounges.
The FL dome came about because the OKTs started flooding the forum. That's when the FL Dome had to be created along with its warning about FLs not going through the necessary check ups and was therefore a "buyer beware" section.
The forum took off when more and more "illegal" OKTs found the forum to be the best place on the net to make money at my expense.
The financial turnaround came about because one of the members here offered to set up the infrastructure necessary to collect money from the pimp underworld and send a portion to me so that I could pay the bills. It was either that or I would have called it quits. The traffic was massive and required 4 huge load balanced servers to keep things going.
Sadly he ended up paying the price and spent time in jail. Such are the risks of keeping a site like this going in this day and age. It's not just vice that is illegal. Just about everything in this site is now absolutely unacceptable in this woke dystopia we now live in.
Even images of fully clothed girls can be deemed to be "sexualising". Discussions about boobs and pussies are misogynistic and objectifying. Nothing here is celebrated. Everything is condemned.
I'm tired.
I'm also saddened when I read messages of the sort that the TS posted yesterday. It makes me long for the good times too. I'd love all the old timers to stick around because we all traveled this journey together for what is now almost a quarter of a century and we've all shared the same experience of falling testosterone levels, failed relationships, dwindling libido, health scares and all the other factors associated with advancing years.
But life goes on.....
It’s not easy. I can only imagine all the struggles you’re facing.
Even though I didn’t join from way back, I must say what you did with SBF is quite a game changer for SG. Maybe you think I’m flattering you or what but i seriously think what you did altered the course of SG sexual history in some ways. And that’s to be applauded.
As with most things SG that need to be clean, nice and properly curated, SBF was a nice two-finger salute to all that. And it’s also to show how human we all are.
Given how you’ve even managed to keep this place up for so long is already amazing. Yeah so things aren’t like the way it was before, and ppl need to work so much harder to find the gems, but I think SBF is still useful for the purpose it stands for.
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Re: Quitting SBF After 20 Years
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Originally Posted by sammyboyfor
I'm also saddened when I read messages of the sort that the TS posted yesterday. It makes me long for the good times too. I'd love all the old timers to stick around because we all traveled this journey together for what is now almost a quarter of a century and we've all shared the same experience of falling testosterone levels, failed relationships, dwindling libido, health scares and all the other factors associated with advancing years.
But life goes on.....
Always be here since the days of Delphi, this forum is not only about sex, i glad it has broaden beyond that, we even have a resident doc on board dishing out advice. I am sure there are still many of the old timers lurking round just perhaps like me time has caught up we need to slow down..but that doesn't mean we are gone..
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I am sure there are still many of the old timers lurking round just perhaps like me time has caught up we need to slow down..but that doesn't mean we are gone..
I totally understand your situation bro.
Me, I on and off nowadays and like you said age catching up too and thrill and excitement wasn't as exciting as before.
What I do is save some $$ and go outside of SG once awhile and have a bit of fun with some 'friend/friends' who I enjoy the company more.
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Originally Posted by watmidoin
I have decided to quit SBF. Again
I joined SBF on 17-02-2004, and finally went for commercial sex in 2006 to get rid of my virginity with a PRC FL. Back then, SBF's FL Dome (there was only one dome) had PRCs who were really freelancers. PDMM, factory workers, and "students". Bros would post FRs of their experiences and pass the FLs' contacts via PMs and emails. There were of course OKTs who pretended to be bros, but those were exposed very quickly by an angry mob if the girls did not match the descriptions. Back then, negative FRs remained for all to see. SBF was a treasure trove for people like me. However, I quit shortly after, deciding to give this concept called "love" another chance.
"Love" didn't quite work out and I returned to commercial sex around 2012. By then, agents had set up websites and filled them with photoshopped pictures But bros were still writing FRs and you could tell which FLs were good based on the FRs. But men sometimes think with our cock and I had the bad luck of meeting a baby elephant PRC FL in a run down apartment filled with Hong Kong feet smell. The horrible Hong Kong feet smell left me so traumatized about hygiene that I quit commercial sex again.
I returned to commercial sex last year to escape life's unhappiness. While sex offered a good distraction, it is not the solution to my problems. And at my age, I really enjoy long loving cuddles after sex. In the commercial world, long loving cuddles are very expensive and my finances aren't there yet. Furthermore, my health is not holding up very well recently. I have thus decided to end my third stint with commercial sex.
I might come back to commercial sex yet again, but I don't know whether I'll be back with SBF. I don't know what happened, but bros don't post FRs nowadays. Without FRs, SBF is no longer a forum. It is just a listing. Dome 2 is a perfect example. Nothing but a list of PRC FLs. Dome 3 is filled with fake FRs and becoming like Dome 2. Fake FRs are also beginning to outnumber real ones in Dome L. With the situation like this, SBF might not be the best place to find FLs if and when I do return to commercial sex again. Sammy boss started this with a lot of passion and created the ultimate sex forum back then. But age has caught up with everyone, including SBF.
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But bros were still writing FRs and you could tell which FLs were good based on the FRs. But men sometimes think with our cock and I had the bad luck of meeting a baby elephant PRC FL in a run down apartment filled with Hong Kong feet smell. The horrible Hong Kong feet smell left me so traumatized about hygiene that I quit commercial sex again.
