How To Get And Keep Attractive Gals Of Your Type

[besafe]

Originally Posted by warbird

You're right! Every man-woman RS is unique, dynamic n constantly changing.
You're good, very good, at playing the mind game.
大哥你是調情圣手， 你是扮猪吃老虎!
Cheers!
Bro WB

Hi Bro WB,
You are definitely the master.
Your targets are for for short term bao-ing.
Mine is for life.

Cheers.

[teebs_darklord]

Originally Posted by beautyhunter

Actually not all the girls like to do KC on SMS.
If I receive SMS using dear, I may like it, no matter fake or real..( the girl I prefer)

I ever look for one Fl more than 10 times, she seldom SMS, last visit asking her why never auto SMS me. She told troublesome to SMS coz so many name inside. I feeling Bo song and told her if u dun sms me i may not look for her. Until now almost 4 months she still no SMS
To another FL, feel irritated and hide phone, only meet her one time, but every 3 days SMS using Darling, dear, miss u make me

Si BH, u are the number 1 FL bonker and u dun know why meh? FLs who have gd biz most of the time will not bother with KC thru sms. They have better things to do, FLs with not much biz will forever sms u darling when u coming over. KC is something FLs do only because they have no choice.

[beautyhunter]

Originally Posted by teebs_darklord

Si BH, u are the number 1 FL bonker and u dun know why meh? FLs who have gd biz most of the time will not bother with KC thru sms. They have better things to do, FLs with not much biz will forever sms u darling when u coming over. KC is something FLs do only because they have no choice.

Wa lau.. U trace me. I come here first times, u also know...
Hee Hee... So u know Y, I so long didnt go Bal. . Coz same thinking she biz.

[teebs_darklord]

Originally Posted by beautyhunter

Wa lau.. U trace me. I come here first times, u also know...
Hee Hee... So u know Y, I so long didnt go Bal. . Coz same thinking she biz.

Hahaha...U can run but u cannot hide...

[beautyhunter]

Originally Posted by teebs_darklord

Hahaha...U can run but u cannot hide...

hahaha....

To ALL
Happy New Year 2012

[warbird]

Originally Posted by drunken

halo bro,

i recently meet a WL. quite good terms.
whenever she sms me using darling, dear... i feel very irritated...............................too fake

Dear bro, I feel irritated if I don't like the gal.

Originally Posted by beautyhunter

Bro. Warbird,

I will set tent here, can learnt a lots of thing here, What's is RS............

Hi Bro BH,

RS is man-woman relationship.

Originally Posted by beautyhunter

Actually not all the girls like to do KC on SMS.
If I receive SMS using dear, I may like it, no matter fake or real..( the girl I prefer)....................................

Hi Bro BH,

It depends partly on the gal n partly on who is the chaser n who is the chasee or who controls the RS if both r already in a RS.

Usually, the chaser n the weaker party in a RS tend to initiate more text msg n call more often...

Originally Posted by besafe

Hi Bro WB,
You are definitely the master.
Your targets are for for short term bao-ing.
Mine is for life....

Hi Bro besafe,

Congrats to u for finding a life partner. 早生贵子！

BTW，I'm still a newbie in BY-ing.

I hv been looking for my type of gals for long-term BY-ing since May 2009. Unfortunately, most of the RS hv been short-lived, from 2 wks to 3 months, for a variety of reasons. One chief reason is that, since I only BY gals who r not known to do ST n who hv refused ST w/ me, on wedding night I may not like the gals's body or her pussy...One good example is CD who was pretty, 170 in height n whom u hv actually met. You know the rest of the story...

However, my 2 current gals, one consider herself my de facto wife n the other my er nai, hv been w/ me long-term, one since Nov 2010 n the other since earlier 2011. Both r my type n both hv very pretty n responsive pussies, hahaha. I hv had a wonderful time w/ them...but the downside is that I often feel rather tired n drained.

Cheers!

Originally Posted by teebs_darklord

Si BH, u are the number 1 FL bonker and u dun know why meh? FLs who have gd biz most of the time will not bother with KC thru sms. They have better things to do, FLs with not much biz will forever sms u darling when u coming over. KC is something FLs do only because they have no choice....

Ths for the info. Bro BH is no 1 FL bonker!

Originally Posted by beautyhunter

Wa lau.. U trace me. I come here first times, u also know...
Hee Hee... So u know Y, I so long didnt go Bal. . Coz same thinking she biz.

Originally Posted by beautyhunter

hahaha....

To ALL
Happy New Year 2012

Hi Bro BH,

Master bonker!!

Cheers!

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To All Samsters,

祝你在新的一年：

一帆風順
二龍騰飛
三羊開泰
四季平安
五福臨門
六六大順
七星高照
八方來財
九九同心
十全十美

百事亨通 千事吉祥 萬事如意

Wishing All of You a Happy and Prosperous New Year!!



Bro WB

[warbird]

To all samsters,

I'm taking a short trip to Taiwan n PRC, before returning to SG. May be too busy to post for the next 1 wk.

无微不至， 不动声色。

Cheers!

Bro WB

[beautyhunter]

Originally Posted by warbird

To all samsters,

I'm taking a short trip to Taiwan n PRC, before returning to SG. May be too busy to post for the next 1 wk.

无微不至， 不动声色。

Cheers!

Bro WB

Bro. Thank u.

祝你一路顺风，Enjoy yr holidaY.

Cheers

[warbird]

Originally Posted by beautyhunter

Bro. Thank u.

祝你一路顺风，Enjoy yr holidaY.

Cheers

Thanks bro.

Happy New Year!

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I'm back.

Would like to organise regular outings to KTVs where I could find, connect w/ n either ST or BY chio gals of my type.

I guess I may be afflicted w/ a chronic case of TWONEITIS which is a form of ONEITIS, as my two long-term mistresses r still 我的女人, one of them will come here in a couple of days n will stay until I leave for Gotham country. The other will be here after CNY.

Yesterday, 2 frens intro a gal to me. I couldn't resist cuz, according to them, she is 19 yo (actually only 18), 168 w/o shoes, fair n more chio than all my previous gals...

I'm a bit disappointed. Although she is a chio SYT who has slim n proportionate body n nice boobs (B/C?), I like my 2 current gals more. I'm not saying my frens lied to me as beauty is in the eye of the beholder. She doesn't do ST, so I told her to come up w/ some BY terms that I could accept, hahaha.

Cheers!

Bro WB

[warbird]

Good Afternoon!

Due to various commitments n obligations, I hv been very busy...

Every real life encounter is a learning experience n makes me a better man. Every story in SBF gives me something to ponder n ruminate.

There is a thread on a Famous Samster and his HFJ PRC Story. This famous n most esteemed samster is alleged to hv been KC-ed big time by a PRC woman, although we hv yet to hear his side of the story.

Assuming that he really got KC-ed deeply, his major mistake is that he put her on a pedestal n tries to be very caring n very "nice" to her, behaving like a loyal n obedient serf, sucking up to his master/goddess. Where is his self confidence n self mastery? How could a woman w/ even just a modicum of self esteem respect such a "serf"? How could she feel safe n secure w/ him? There is no challenge, no mystery n no uncertainty for her. His behaviour is most repulsive to her! http://sammyboy.online/showthread.php?t=261944

He should hv done the exact opposite.

You see, a man must give a woman hope but never ever "confess" his true feelings to her. Keep her in suspense n slightly insecure n uncertain...even in a long-term RS, say after 20 yrs of marriage, a man must not reveal ALL his feelings to his wive. It kills attraction instantly. On the other hand, if u give her no hope n if u make her too insecure, she is likely to explore n search for new pasture.

Hope + Uncertainty = Attraction (Passion)

No Hope For New Experiences/Goals/Future + No Uncertainty = Zero Attraction (Zero passion)

Little wonder that 50% of marriages eventually end in divorce. The other 50% hv failed but both partners decide to stay together for the sake of children, money, career, business, reputation, etc.

I'll give u a recent example in which I got it right, at least in part unwittingly...

I met a high school gal CL who was barely 17 in Beijing last May. She wanted to come to SG to attend school n be my young mistress. She is 166, chio n has very big natural boobs, perky ass n nice legs. But I'm ambivalent towards her cuz she has medium sized bone whereas I prefer those w/ small bones n very small wrists. I told her not to come until her 18th BD. Since April last yr, she has texted me many times daily n begged me to see her in PRC asap. Sometimes I won't reply for several days n I never initiated ctc. My nonchalant attitude has made her crazy abt me.

She is now a student at a respectable uni in Shanghai. She hopes to be my one n only lover, but she knows that it's unrealistic. She later says that she would be happy just to be one of my lovers. She has intro me to her 41 yo mother, via QQ video, who urged me to go to Dalien to visit her daughter.

CL summed up my "bad" behaviour n her feelings in her QQ space:

你用你的全部生命去谈一次恋爱，那这次恋爱必然不能成功；你用全部精力去谈恋爱，那你一定会被人玩死；你用 全部时间去谈恋爱，别人一定会嫌你烦。因为爱情这事，你越是勤快，投入越多，它结果就越差。只有像懒人养花 一样，爱搭不理，偶尔关心一下，才会新鲜。关心越少，爱的越久。当一个男人不爱一个女人的时候，往往能把这 个女人弄得神魂颠倒，觉得他特MAN，特够味儿，特浪漫，特霸道特酷特能掌控大局。女人喜欢甚至崇拜这样的 男人，因为她们觉得有一种小鸟依人的感觉。

Cheers!

Bro WB

[S i l v i a]

你用你的全部生命去谈一次恋爱，那这次恋爱必然不能成功；你用全部精力去谈恋爱，那你一定会被 人玩死；你用 全部时间去谈恋爱，别人一定会嫌你烦。因为爱情这事，你越是勤快，投入越多，它结果就越差。只 有像懒人养花 一样，爱搭不理，偶尔关心一下，才会新鲜。关心越少，爱的越久。当一个男人不爱一个女人的时候 ，往往能把这 个女人弄得神魂颠倒，觉得他特MAN，特够味儿，特浪漫，特霸道特酷特能掌控大局。女人喜欢甚 至崇拜这样的 男人，因为她们觉得有一种小鸟依人的感觉。

The above sums up u,bro warbird!
Nice nice words she's describing!
Give girl hope but not love....WOW!

[mama88]

Bro Warbird, from my own experience, I do agree with that stance. But there's always a tipping point beyond which a negative outcome may occur. Like flying a kite, sometimes we need to pull back and sometimes to let the kite soar. Happy chionging!

[warbird]

Originally Posted by S i l v i a

你用你的全部生命去谈一次恋爱，那这次恋爱必然不能成功；你用全部精力去谈恋爱，那你一定会被 人玩死；你用 全部时间去谈恋爱，别人一定会嫌你烦。因为爱情这事，你越是勤快，投入越多，它结果就越差。只 有像懒人养花 一样，爱搭不理，偶尔关心一下，才会新鲜。关心越少，爱的越久。当一个男人不爱一个女人的时候 ，往往能把这 个女人弄得神魂颠倒，觉得他特MAN，特够味儿，特浪漫，特霸道特酷特能掌控大局。女人喜欢甚 至崇拜这样的 男人，因为她们觉得有一种小鸟依人的感觉。

The above sums up u,bro warbird!
Nice nice words she's describing!
Give girl hope but not love....WOW!

Hi bro Silvia,

Yes, "Give girl hope but not love...." is an oversimplification but it works like a charm.

Originally Posted by mama88

Bro Warbird, from my own experience, I do agree with that stance. But there's always a tipping point beyond which a negative outcome may occur. Like flying a kite, sometimes we need to pull back and sometimes to let the kite soar. Happy chionging!

Hi bro mama88,

You're absolutely right. You must know when n how much to push n when n how much to pull, hahaha. If a gal senses that there is too little hope, she will just give up on u.

Cheers!

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Good morning!

I hv learned quite a bit in the last couple of yrs on RS, female psychology n sexology n on BY-ing.

I hv also diversified into BY-ing non-WLs.

For example, CL is not a WL. I also know a pretty PRC student in Senkang who doesn't work anywhere. She has been in SG for a month, but her student visa has been rejected by MOE? Her school has appealed on her behalf. In Nov last yr, when she went to Singapore Embassy in Beijing for an interview, she squabbled w/ the receptionist n was probably blacklisted. She would be a very good potential mistress. She is very sexual n open-minded n told me when she had a BF, she would like to make love everyday...

After reading many books, newsletters n listening to tapes, I would make an attempt to answer an age old question.

I must first state that most healthy women r incredibly sexual creatures n they hv awesome sexual potential n powerful sexual urge. This potential has been suppressed by social-religious conditioning. It takes a real MAN to activate n release this dormant potential...like a dormant volcano, hehehe.

What does every chio woman want n need from a MAN?

1) She needs to be respected by his man as a special n unique individual.

2) She needs to hv intimate, emotional communication n bonding w/ her man.

3) She needs an exciting man to make her feel beautiful, sexy, sensual, feminine...

4) She needs hot n passionate sex w/ her man. She wants to be seduced, enticed, teased n satisfied over n over again. She wants to experience new ways n new adventures n she wants to hv her sexual fantasies fulfilled...

Such a good MAN is difficult to find, even for a very beautiful n high quality woman.

Cheers!

Bro WB

[Big B]

Adding my 2 cents to Bro Warbirds insights, a big obstacle to a successful chase is:

凡是太尽,缘分必定早尽

[warbird]

Originally Posted by Big B

Adding my 2 cents to Bro Warbirds insights, a big obstacle to a successful chase is:

凡是太尽,缘分必定早尽

Hi bro Big B,

Very insightful!

Your axiom actually applies to every RS n everyone in this world!

Cheers!

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Wishing every samster a Happy and Prosperous New Year!

Recently, I listened to an audio on "Want to hv more intimacy n sex in ur RS?" in which there was a dialogue between 2 Ang Moh gurus, a male n a female. Below is a brief summary:

3 Biggest Mistakes We Men Make When Trying to Improve Our Intimate RS n Sex Life w/ Our Wives/GFs/Mistresses:

1) We think that a new or superior technique can fix problems in our sexual RS. There is a place for technique, but u can't fix a RS problem w/ a sexual technique. There is such a disconnect from where the man is, mentally n emotionally, to where the woman is, mentally n emotionally.

2) We truly don't believe our partners like sex n so we approach sex by pushing, manipulating n coercing. At her core, a typical woman is a very sexual being...but her sexual potential has been constrained n even stifled by social-religious conditioning since a young age.

Her need for real sex is actually greater than a man's cuz her drive comes from her mind n her deeper need to connect, as compared to the more shallow n often urgent need to release which is the norm for a typical man.

3) We try to "nice " our way into more intimacy...but any good thing overextended becomes a weakness, even a disaster n by over extending a good thing, we may totally ruin our sex lives. We use niceness as a strategy to get sex. But it destroys everything a woman needs in a man to be turned on by him.

Any comments?

I don't completely agree w/ 3). Am I missing something?

Cheers!

Bro WB