My Current Situation

[RobinGL]

Continue……..

She hugged the uncle and the uncle was whispering in her ears. (guess also know what the uncle want) and I see her shaking her head. I saw the uncle showing sign the language of three (must be 300 lah) she shake her head again and this time the uncle showing the sign language of five (must be 500). She continued to shake her head.

That uncle right plam was place behind her head and push her head towards his mouth. She turn away and the uncle kiss her cheek and slowly to her neck. I cannot tahan liao and about to open the door when I saw her pushing the uncle away and stretch her right hand with her palm open. She is asking for her tips and the uncle hold her hand. This time, she pointed outside the room where I was watching. She must have told the uncle that her boyfriend outside waiting.

The uncle took out a bunch of money and gives her a piece. She took the money and come out from the room. I did not ask her any question and proceed to my car. I was high and told her that we sit at the nearby coffee shop for a drink and wait for me to sober.

We sat at the coffee shop and she order a tea for me and an orange juice for her (if I remember). She was telling me that she earn 300 for from the four room (2x100, 2x50). She is happy but tired as she seldom butterfly.

She was told me about the behavior of each customer in that KTV. Not only had that uncle asked her to “Kai Fang”. In fact, all the room she butterflies asked the same question. Imaging all the temptation who the gals who need money urgently. I have that thought that KTV is begun to be places where we look for prostitute.

One of the customers told her that he is not married and wanted to married her. He will date her out tomorrow. This is another tactic brother used to bluff the gal to bed but this is outdated. Some gals from mainland might believe that. However most of the time, after brothers “Upped” the gal, brothers disappeared.

One of the customers told her that he is very rich, got mountain, got sun, got star and moon. Drive BMW, stay private house, every time go drinking spend lots of money. BUT TIPS ONLY 50. “See Bei” not steady. This tactic only can be used on gals with low IQ and never see big snake shit.

One of the customers told her that he love her so much and would do anything for her. When asked to marry her, the customer said ok but need to test first. She reply, tomorrow we go apply for marriage then straight to hotel. Customer immediately pull back.

The other one is the tiko uncle. Nego and go…..straight forward.

In the end we took a taxi home as I could not drive. While at home, we have sex again. This becomes our routine before we sleep.

[RobinGL]

Originally Posted by Desirezzzz

Dear TS, please do not only consider about your wife..i guess whats most important that you seriously gotta consider is your kids...they are so innocent.. Do not let your actions effect them one way or another...Wish you all the best!!!

Bro,

I totally agreed with you. Every time i quarral with my wife, i could see that my kids feel sad. If choose between my kids, wife and XY. I will choose my kids.

I rather have my 2ic gone than lossing my kids. I going back home today to be with my kids. Mei mei called me and i promise her.

[RobinGL]

Originally Posted by Iemanishere

Bro robin, maybe you may like to bring her back to china and make her stay here, and you fly in and out.. Start a small biz there and let her run... I don't know how u feel.. But this is the only win win I can think of now..

Bro,

Thank for your suggestion.

I will be responsible to both parties whether any decision i make. I am created the problem and both parties are innocent.

That why i hate myself till now.

[RobinGL]

Originally Posted by tuffcookie

Hi RobinGL

I was in your situation too (well, sort of, I am a woman though).

I pendulumed between feeling good with a new relationship and yet unwilling to part with an old (existing) one.

For what it is worth, this book is a good read:
When Good People Have Affairs by Mira Kirshenbaum.
It is non judgemental and helpful, at least to me. Hope it will shed some light for you too.

Do continue posting. It is interesting to read and you write real well, ah beng-ish or not

Sis,

Thank a lot and i hope your is a happy ending.

You help the author sell one book later, going to bookshop later to buy that book. Thank you so much.

[RobinGL]

Originally Posted by acidicavex

Understand that been there accept that my case is a slightly different senario i too once thought that maybe i can have both world one world that have all my fantasies come true. the other world will just be surrounding my kids..... But the true is cruel i am up choosing going back to my family which till today still working on it... nonetheless whenever i return home i only content that i have both my kids around and for the sake of them i exist in the family...... That all that have been going thru my mind nowadays. Watching them grow up is my biggest satisfaction as for the partner or wife still trying to work out althought the fight nowadays is 10x worse than before especially when she have the upper hand.

It your call bro good luck

Bro,

I pity you. Mayby my ended the same way but not 10x worse but 100x worse. No more sex by than. hehehehe

[peachbloom]

Originally Posted by RobinGL

Yes Bro, i am still with her. Until now i hope but......... Aiyah mix feeling.....im blinded by love.

Im actually loss at this state. Not been home for the last two months.

not home for 2 months...don't you miss your kids?

think about your responsibility as a father and whether you want to continue to lie to them like this, perhaps will give you some direction on what you want. your kids will grow up very quickly and the time you miss out on their growing years is such a pity.

[ckyo]

"Just a question for you. If you see a 50 dollars note and a 100 dollars note on the florr. Which one were you pick?"

Answer : Both r asset of course pick both. Analogy and scenario does not match -_-. Eg. (F&*K gal = 1 liability, F&*K = 1 more liability) unless they give money.
If both give money then i must learn from you already.

[owl888]

Juz curious XY's on social visit pass/WP or whatever pass? Should not take long b4 she gg back PRC? After she goes back then I m sure u can take a break and thought about your situation carefully..........

[sean69]

Originally Posted by RobinGL

Bro,

Have to wait till the right time to talk about this with my wife. No easy and need careful planning. However i can have both...hehehehhe

Just a question for you. If you see a 50 dollars note and a 100 dollars note on the florr. Which one were you pick?

I know we cannot have the best of both world. Just that i want to spend a bit time with XY to see how we go about it. Can work out with XY a not, i really dun know.

if i see a 50 dollars note and a 100 dollars note, i will pocket both..

on the other hand, even if i decide to leave my wife.. it must be becos no feelings liao and not becos of XY.. seriously speaking, can u believe she is for real??

[sunnysky9]

Well bro, we hope not to be caught in a similar situation like you. Hopefully Time will help to loosen things up and your problems resolved. Good luck.

[auntygranny]

TS,

Thank for the story. I have finished reading on my journey home.

[picnic]

bro, think carefully as while kids grow up, after wife brainwashing, they will get to hate you no matter what you have done for the family, too late to regret by then. You not too late as wife not suspecting and kids still young.
Take care.

[RobinGL]

Originally Posted by peachbloom

not home for 2 months...don't you miss your kids?

think about your responsibility as a father and whether you want to continue to lie to them like this, perhaps will give you some direction on what you want. your kids will grow up very quickly and the time you miss out on their growing years is such a pity.

I mean two months did not sleep at home. I go back once a week to see my kids.

Originally Posted by owl888

Juz curious XY's on social visit pass/WP or whatever pass? Should not take long b4 she gg back PRC? After she goes back then I m sure u can take a break and thought about your situation carefully..........

XY on work permit, 2 years

Originally Posted by sean69

if i see a 50 dollars note and a 100 dollars note, i will pocket both..

on the other hand, even if i decide to leave my wife.. it must be becos no feelings liao and not becos of XY.. seriously speaking, can u believe she is for real??

I'm loss

Originally Posted by picnic

bro, think carefully as while kids grow up, after wife brainwashing, they will get to hate you no matter what you have done for the family, too late to regret by then. You not too late as wife not suspecting and kids still young.
Take care.

[callmebad]

quite sad,it seems relationship with your wife is not so good and what is left to hold you back are the 2 kids

[picnic]

Personal experience, as wife get suspicious, they have no way of venting their anger except to brainwash the kids, the kids grow up to hate me as the mother told them that the father is always out wif other women even though she doesn't have evidences. moral of story, spend more time wif kids and wife bro.