Any samsters will marry a working lady ?

[dap26]

Originally Posted by newbadass

Foreign brides are foreign brides. WLs are WLs.
I see that you are ahead of your time.

Maybe the WLs you know are different from the WLs I know.

The WLs you know all seem to be noble and self-sacrificing, selling their bodies to feed their families. The WLs I know tell me a different story: they want fast money so they can spend more. We hang out, we lim kopi and talk cock... and they don't bullshit me with sob stories.

Times have changed, my friend. Prostitution is now a matter of profit, not survival.

Ya agreed!Me also heard tat some of WL is want to spent more $$ and earn more fast cash asap..

[Nucleus2006]

Originally Posted by Disgusted

a) the type that actually hope to meet a Prince Charming to take them away from this line

Just like some guys I know who go find WL to become girlfriend or wife.

[Nucleus2006]

Originally Posted by moorish idol

Another bonus marrying a PRC, they dont bother about status, face and standard. Very down to earth, very simple girl. They dun ask for expensive things go for expensive dinner, buy branded goods, they'll be happy if you just spend time with them. Infact my wife is very thrifty, I prefer buy veg at supermarket but she'll complaint its more expensive and insist that I go to the wet market as its much cheaper. Yea she cook very good food too...

Yes my uncle's PRC wife from the village is like that too. Only thing is she is not pretty... but she was not WL... really from the village. Grow vegetable those types.

[Nucleus2006]

Originally Posted by dap26

Ya agreed!Me also heard tat some of WL is want to spent more $$ and earn more fast cash asap..

I heard some are just cb itchy.

[Peggie83]

Originally Posted by moorish idol

Another bonus marrying a PRC, they dont bother about status, face and standard. Very down to earth, very simple girl. They dun ask for expensive things go for expensive dinner, buy branded goods, they'll be happy if you just spend time with them. Infact my wife is very thrifty, I prefer buy veg at supermarket but she'll complaint its more expensive and insist that I go to the wet market as its much cheaper. Yea she cook very good food too.

Come on, nowadays where to find pretty wife, low maintainance, doesnt ask for diamond rings, cook good food, do house work etc etc (gosh I'm sounding so chauvinistic) but who doesnt wanna come home to such an enviroment?

You tell me...

I also want to find that this type of gals preferably age 18~22

[LikeBBB]

Originally Posted by newbadass

Failure rate is higher than success rate, but who cares?

All those chiongsters who tried to get WLs as girlfriends or wives, do you think it mattered to them? If they failed, they simply join the statistics. If they succeeded, they simply become the rare exception, but nothing has changed. Failure rate is still higher than success rate.

Do you think this facts puts them off? No, because of the saying "you never know until you try". Sound familiar, SJG?

The fact is, all those people on this forum chaking them, fucking them upside down, trying to make sense of their decision... you all can save it. You think they will listen? No, deep inside they already know what they want... they are just waiting for words of encouragement to boost their conviction that they are headed in the right direction. Out of 100 discouraging posts, all they need is one encouraging or even neutral post to convince them that they can do it.

It's their life. Why do we even give a damn? As long as they clean up their own mess, who are we to interfere?

Meant to reply to this post long ago but did not. I hate to agree but what you mentioned is very correct most of the time. For most people who have a genuine liking for any of these WLs not in the sexual sense, deep down, we knew that its wrong but still we carried on, hoping that something good will come out of it. But more often than not, we are hurt both emotionally and financially and it is really true that despite all the discouraging posts, all it takes is that single encouraging post to reinforce that conviction.

You are a little direct in your last paragraph but I still have to salute you for that very meaningful insight into people who have chosen to like the wrong type of girls, people like us.

The girl I mentioned previously whom I have provided her with the money to obtain her work permit - I have lost contact with her for 2 weeks already. The inevitable still happened despite some soulbaring chatting sessions these few weeks which we broached on more than the usual dine and wine issues and other mundane stuff. I thought the least she could do in the event that she wanted to leave is to at least inform me - but she did not. (which is what disappointed me the most. )

What followed was initial disappointment, slight anger (I could never be angry with her for long), and now I felt at peace again.

I m not too sure whether to feel disppointed for I have been hurt both emotionally and financially or to feel thankful that its a small price to pay for such a lesson as the financial part is just substantial but still tolerable. I don't think I will change into a cynic overnight as I think I m soft hearted by nature but certainly it will change the way I view these ladies in future.

To those who have liked or are still liking such ladies, just be more prudent. I still believed that there are always exceptions but do see beyond what your eyes can see and listen with your heart.

[newbadass]

Originally Posted by LikeBBB

I m not too sure whether to feel disppointed for I have been hurt both emotionally and financially or to feel thankful that its a small price to pay for such a lesson as the financial part is just substantial but still tolerable. I don't think I will change into a cynic overnight as I think I m soft hearted by nature but certainly it will change the way I view these ladies in future.

To those who have liked or are still liking such ladies, just be more prudent. I still believed that there are always exceptions but do see beyond what your eyes can see and listen with your heart.

Bro, it's just money. Got arms got legs, no scared cannot earn back. Your heart, however, will need time.

Of course there are always exceptions. The million-dollar question is: are you with an exception or are you just another statistic?

[alan717]

Feel sorry for LikeBBB, is the heart that hurts most. Myself is also in trouble recently falling in love with a WL. I do not know how far can we go & also how true she is.

Anyway hope Bro LikeBBB can find someone who really love what he is. CHEERS !!!!

[newbadass]

Originally Posted by moorish idol

Its the game of high risk that attract true man...

Should we infer from your post that only true men will play this game with WLs?

[newbadass]

Originally Posted by moorish idol

Why so sensitive? I dun mean to start fight in here but just sharing, if you think those that push pencil and those that explore new land are equal than so be it...

Just clarifying, just clarifying... so that is really what you meant to say? Men who purposely find WLs to be wives are true men, heroes, deserve our admiration and applause like those extreme sports superstars out there? Maybe my England not so good, I misunderstand your post.

[shaggerific]

I think it's safe to say that all WLs come out to work to earn money (whether to earn quick $$ or to pay off debts. Of course, there will also be those who were forced into it, but such cases are also to make money to pay off bf's debts etc).

No WL comes out to work to find LOVE. Who in their right minds would want to be screwed by hundreds people they dont even know for that remote chance that they might find Mr. Right?

Some give good GFE to get more tips and RTF while others are just trained to do so. A lot of bros, me included , often misinterpret or are led to believe that the WL really likes you and this then leads to stronger feelings. But how sure are you that she really loves you? It is just an act to get out of the situation she's in? Is she just after your $? You will never know.

There are some cases where romance blossoms and they ride off to the sunset living happily ever after. But more often than not, it never works out. Sometimes, the WL makes off with your $. Other times, the guy just cant handle the girl's past. Can you imagine hundreds of guys with their grubby paws and dick all over your girl?? Worse still, can you imagine going to a function and then someone recognising your girl??

Well, I guess at the end of the day, we're all adults and everyone goes into these kind of things with their eyes open. So if it doesn't work out, you've got no one to blame but yourself. But that doesn't mean there's no happy ending. You just have to find the right one that's all. Dont forget, after getting all the $ that they want, when the WL quits, she's still a girl like all the rest and someday will end up as someone's wife.

[Tai_zi21]

If i say yes i will marry a working lady.... will u go and marry her?

If i say No i won't marry a working lady... will u not marry her?

I guess down deep in ur heart u already know the ans urself already isn't it?

Cheers

[PoundIt]

Originally Posted by Tai_zi21

If i say yes i will marry a working lady.... will u go and marry her?

If i say No i won't marry a working lady... will u not marry her?

I guess down deep in ur heart u already know the ans urself already isn't it?

Cheers

I don't mind marrying a WL, so long as she stop working once she's gotten her issues fixed.
I do agree that nobody would like to work as an WL in a professional basis since people do unimaginable stuff whe they're desperate.
It takes a lot of courage and patience to overcome the fact that she's slept with lots of guys before.

but then again, I'm gay.

[Tai_zi21]

Originally Posted by PoundIt

I do agree that nobody would like to work as an WL in a professional basis since people do unimaginable stuff whe they're desperate.

Does a WL steal to earn a living or even cheat ro earn a living?

In fact maybe u should think abt how gd u urself is before u despise ppl i guess

Just my humble pt of views

Cheers

[shaggerific]

Originally Posted by Tai_zi21

Does a WL steal to earn a living or even cheat ro earn a living?

In fact, they provide a much needed service... can you imagine if there were no WLs around?? How are we supposed to get out "release"??