Lady Samsters - Questions on Fcukbuddy

[emokid]

Sad to say I nv had a FB.. mayb nv realli find or i not of good quality ba.. hehe.. any samtress need 1? pm me.. haha

[lg500wong]

Oh... I thought most of the samsters are male... Never have any FB before too... Any ladies looking for a FB? Im here for you and would be delighted to meet up....

[destiny24]

fbs to girls are somewhat special..it's not a ONS thingy..u gotta really click with that person to have this r/s..of course minus the emotions part too..

i've had a FB proposal by this guy I've known for 6 months..both of us still not ready to meet up..one nite..he confessed to me that he's actually attached all the while and even plan to get married next yr..ask me not to fall in love with him..he claims that he didn't push for us meeting up as he's scared that he's doing the wrong thing..

i'm like ? seriously, i dun wanna be involved with someone who's attached..but i can't deny there's this special feeling I have for him..not love definitely..just a connection i guess..or maybe lust?

any other guys who tries to come on to me in the sexual way and I'll get turned off..but just not him..so it's weird..

[block11]

Originally Posted by destiny24

fbs to girls are somewhat special..it's not a ONS thingy..u gotta really click with that person to have this r/s..of course minus the emotions part too..

....

any other guys who tries to come on to me in the sexual way and I'll get turned off..but just not him..so it's weird..

weird? no laa... you stated the reason for it in your first sentence

[sexkitten]

Q1) Under what circumstances would you consider to have a F***buddy (FB). - when the alcohol sets in, and both of us are feeling horny.

Q2) Who do you usually pick as a FB? (Eg, Colleagues, classmates, ONS etc) -probably my colleague, its convenient (and exciting) to have office quickies! especially in the boardroom when no one is around...

Q3) What do you look for and/or expect from a FB? - for me, it would have to be someone who cares about me, and not just interested in having sex alone. of course, being good in bed is a bonus!

Q4) If you already have FB(s), what usually pisses you off big time about him/them? - Gets sticky & possessive

Q5) If you or your FB starts to get serious in love with each other but both of you are attached or married, do you have any backup plans/solutions? - hmm, then I guess I would have to assess if my feelings to my bf or FB is stronger. I would most likely dump the FB for my bf.

[scott999]

I like to seek the opinion of our female forumers.
Constructive feedback are also welcomed from fellow male samsters.
'Destructive' ones also can, but must be very funny lor so that more ladies can come in and read/share.

Q1) Under what circumstances would you consider to have a F***buddy (FB).
Q2) Who do you usually pick as a FB? (Eg, Colleagues, classmates, ONS etc)
Q3) What do you look for and/or expect from a FB?
Q4) If you already have FB(s), what usually pisses you off big time about him/them?
Q5) If you or your FB starts to get serious in love with each other but both of you are attached or married, do you have any backup plans/solutions?

[tookara]

any more feedback. i love my fbs

[inlaw]

Originally Posted by destiny24

fbs to girls are somewhat special..it's not a ONS thingy..u gotta really click with that person to have this r/s..of course minus the emotions part too....

any other guys who tries to come on to me in the sexual way and I'll get turned off..but just not him..so it's weird..

Interesting reading, this is a weird world.

Got one time FB this girl, she want continue but after having sex i dodn't continue, and that is the only fb experience i had before, but i feel bit weird abt myself, maybe still not mature in this area ..

Now no fb, would like to have one to get myself more emotion-less ready hehe

[zacarie]

Originally Posted by destiny24

fbs to girls are somewhat special..it's not a ONS thingy..u gotta really click with that person to have this r/s..of course minus the emotions part too..

i've had a FB proposal by this guy I've known for 6 months..both of us still not ready to meet up..one nite..he confessed to me that he's actually attached all the while and even plan to get married next yr..ask me not to fall in love with him..he claims that he didn't push for us meeting up as he's scared that he's doing the wrong thing..

i'm like ? seriously, i dun wanna be involved with someone who's attached..but i can't deny there's this special feeling I have for him..not love definitely..just a connection i guess..or maybe lust?

any other guys who tries to come on to me in the sexual way and I'll get turned off..but just not him..so it's weird..

i agree tt we gotta click..
me and the other guy are both married. just tt in different situation. he still have his family but i'm kinda separated from mine. we've met up and had sex.
i do have this thing for him. not sure what is it called. just a kind of connection i guess. we just feel so confortable with each other and can talk about anything. really everything. it's like he's a good friend.
same here. when we first met i was also having email from others. but just dont have a thing for any others other than him. kind of just get turn on by him.
so sometimes emotions do cross the line. but i guess there nothing much i can do but remind myself constantly....

[CandyceLove]

1) Under what circumstances would you consider to have a F***buddy (FB).

When bf (or future husband) is no longer interested to make love to me on a regular basis

Q2) Who do you usually pick as a FB? (Eg, Colleagues, classmates, ONS etc)

Someone I can trust (No Edison Chen or GARY types!). Not someone in my social circle, but probably a former schoolmate or former neighbour....someone who's just an accquintance and not a friend. Not into ONS.


Q3) What do you look for and/or expect from a FB? -

Besides the obvious - which is good in bed (again, it's subjective, as Samsters always say "one man's (woman's) meat is another man's poison")

Has to be someone who I am relatively comfortable with. Can talk and laugh with the person, but nothing emotional involved.


Q4) If you already have FB(s), what usually pisses you off big time about him/them?

Don't know.......

But maybe you wouldn't want a FB who always turns down your appointment at the last min (for no good reason, probably just managed to hook up with another gal).

FBs who treat us gals worse than FLs or WLs... as in, just pick you up, f*** in the car and just dump you back at your house. $20/30 hotel fee and a $30-60 casual dinner is deemed to be too "expensive" for a bonk.


Q5) If you or your FB starts to get serious in love with each other but both of you are attached or married, do you have any backup plans/solutions?

No, not possible for me.

[8387]

Only happened to me once. it was the lady who initiated. she was a good friend. it started as a joke in several conversations -- a what if we? At first, I was uncomfortable when she showed some serious interest. We are both married. Then one time, she said: "I am not looking for love, just sex. And rather than fcuk a stranger, why not a friend who I know will not take advantage of me." It is hard to turn down a lady when she asks, right? It was all cerebral and carnal -- no alcohol involved. It went on for a year and a half. And it was always out of town. It was good while it lasted. Honestly, I missed it, and still hope a similar opportunity will come. Well, good things come to those who wait.

[scott999]

Originally Posted by scott999

I like to seek the opinion of our female forumers.
Constructive feedback are also welcomed from fellow male samsters.
'Destructive' ones also can, but must be very funny lor so that more ladies can come in and read/share.

Q1) Under what circumstances would you consider to have a F***buddy (FB).
Q2) Who do you usually pick as a FB? (Eg, Colleagues, classmates, ONS etc)
Q3) What do you look for and/or expect from a FB?
Q4) If you already have FB(s), what usually pisses you off big time about him/them?
Q5) If you or your FB starts to get serious in love with each other but both of you are attached or married, do you have any backup plans/solutions?

Upz for an old but interesting thread.

[viviankoh]

Originally Posted by scott999

After all, women and men are all human beings, flesh and blood with feelings.
Feelings/Passion just go out of control sometimes.

I have met FBs that make me feel like, "Hey this is really my kind of gal that i have been looking for!"
Although the physical contact has stopped (this particular one settled down), we became best of pals instead.

Likewise, I have also gotten a shock 2 years back when another ex-FB wanted to cancel her ROM just to be with me.
We only get it going for a month and it sure caught me unexpected.

We must learn to see the warning signs of the other party;
+ constantly remind each other the nature of the FB relationships.

Its tough rite ??? We are all humans with feelings...

[redhun]

Can I ask if your fb gave you std ( curable) would you still see him/her after you are both treated and well?

[Blue_gal]

Q1) Under what circumstances would you consider to have a F***buddy (FB).
- just started to "taste" lust...just like "D"..u gets it started u can't STOP it after trying .. hahahha...so once u met a dude can click...once a WEEK.. also not enough.. hahahhaa...

Q2) Who do you usually pick as a FB? (Eg, Colleagues, classmates, ONS etc)
- ONS and then turn to MNS... hahahaha

Q3) What do you look for and/or expect from a FB?
- psychical FIT and must be able to click and both "LUSTFUL" at that time ... hahahahaa...

Q4) If you already have FB(s), what usually pisses you off big time about him/them?
- when U NEED HIM.. he nowhere to be FOUND...hang out DRY Lah....

Q5) If you or your FB starts to get serious in love with each other but both of you are attached or married, do you have any backup plans/solutions?
- Not applicable....Both know its just for LUST...

my 20yrs ago STORIES... hahahaha...