You should go Plan B and Plan C first. If there is any chance that Plan A can work, the response you can expect from her should be very very different. From what i hear from you about her current response... you can stay 1 week there and WILL NOT even have the opportunity to see her for a cup of coffee.
For a Vietnamese girl to bring you to her own place, its a VERY VERY complicated process. They have to feel that you are THE ONE they have been waiting for all these while and you are gonna be their future, the one and only one.. before they bring you to show you where they stay. But before we all get there, she must go thru the process :
1. really likes you
2. likes to be around you all the time
3. trust you and believe in everything you say
4. telling you a lot of things about their life, their dreams and their fear
5. very excited that you are going to HCMC
6. want to meet you at the airport when u touch-down and want to stay with you all the way until you go back to airport to return to sillypore
7. already telling you about all the exciting places and wonderful cafe and delicious food places she's gonna show you in HCMC when u are there
8. Complaining that 5-days stay is a bit too short, how about 1 month?
But bro, your starting position now is that .. "your hotel is a bit far from my house.... so maybe cannot meet..".
So for that, i think u better go to Plan B and C first and dun even bother about Plan A anymore.
However, if you get the same response from Plan B and Plan C after sometime... you should re-examine the 3 examples and notice that you are the common denominator.. it simply means that you are not giving them what they want and therefore you are not getting what you expect. Usually the case.
While you are there, for good Dim Sum, go to 148 Nguyen Trai street. For very good duck noodles, go to 455 Nguyen Trai street.
Oh Bro deptrai4u,
thanks for your advice....
after hearing all these, i think my heart already know what thing....
should i give her a call to tell her i in hcmc and dont ask her whether she coming to meet me anot?
i also think is funny,
she can be with me in singapore and somemore her sister saw me that time when i go pick her up and send her to airport...
now i go to hcmc, she also cannot come, says her grandma sick need her to take care.....father and mother says too far....somemore i told her to says her boss coming to hcmc to talk business....she also not confirmed...
haiz
bro, paiseh the list u give me also got list the ktv to find gers overnight?
in case, for plan b..
Plan c i think is go there eat vegetarian meal
Common cheer up...it is not so bad as you think...if you go vn hcm and eat vege then hcm dun live up to its reputation...ask yourself why so many brothers go there so often...you can read all the interesting posts of alot of brothers who had enjoyed themselves tremendously without their usual gf around...as long as you are adventurous just follow my list and sure you will enjoyed yourself...you can get as many as gals you want to satisfy your lusts...pls dun let your gal spoilt your fun...you should be the person to play mind games and beat her to it...tell her you dun come i will still have fun and find new gf...lots of choices and better quality...bet you she knew that in vn hcm there are plenty of pretty gals keen on having sin men...sin men are hot property in vn... Tell you my frens always have to lied to their gfs just to get out to have fun in hcm...quote my fren said "always tell her i go out will still come back...if you cannot tolerate then time for you to find new bf"...
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Ya.. Please dun be like me!! got aeroplaned by a bro who told the D'Max girls provide sexual services.. So me green green, 1st time went there after the massage, I was like waiting.. and the sweet big eyed pretty babe sat there.. Eventually, I overcome my shyness and asked her the golden question.. And what I got was an awkward situation.. and I was blushing!! Got the number of the girl to get out of the situation..
The verdict: tried msging the girl but till now, there is no response.. she must be thinking I am the HUMSUP HORNY BRO !!!
Poor you.
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Originally Posted by deptrai4u
For a Vietnamese girl to bring you to her own place, its a VERY VERY complicated process. They have to feel that you are THE ONE they have been waiting for all these while and you are gonna be their future, the one and only one.. before they bring you to show you where they stay. But before we all get there, she must go thru the process :
1. really likes you
2. likes to be around you all the time
3. trust you and believe in everything you say
4. telling you a lot of things about their life, their dreams and their fear
5. very excited that you are going to HCMC
6. want to meet you at the airport when u touch-down and want to stay with you all the way until you go back to airport to return to sillypore
7. already telling you about all the exciting places and wonderful cafe and delicious food places she's gonna show you in HCMC when u are there
8. Complaining that 5-days stay is a bit too short, how about 1 month?
Are you talking about decent girl or working girl?
I ever visit often and overnight a few times at a WL's apartment. Does that mean I'm her SPECIAL ONE!? For my case I do not think I experienced your points 5-8.
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should i give her a call to tell her i in hcmc and dont ask her whether she coming to meet me anot?
would that be a better idea?
The best idea is not to call and "beg" her to meet you in HCMC any further. She already knows when you're coming. If she is sincere she'll call and meet you instead.
Drop the whole idea of hooking up with her to have a fun time in HCMC. Follow all the bros' advices here. Print out Hurricane88's HCMC Cheong List. This is the essence of all the contributors from this thread.
Try and PM samsters here and invite them for kopi or a meal. When I meet people my objective is to make sincere friends first. Cheonging is secondary. Be sincere and don't be like some who will jio you out for cheong because they want to share costs or have ulterior motives. When come back to Singapore they'll always be too busy to meet you when you jio them for kopi. If you treat people with sincerity then you'll always have cheong kakis wherever you go be it local or overseas because your kakis will instruct their overseas friends to take care of you even if they cannot join you for overseas trips. This is from my humble experience. Hope I don't offend any one hor.
Wa.. The video fierce.. the scene is in the middle of the KTV, dun ever we will ever see this in any of the joints we go..
His xiao already flowing out of his nostrils and staining his car already..
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Harlo bro, people tok about District 1 you go and tok about District 10, Thom didi is tokking about the vid for the korean MTV Nobody, think you tokking about our Sharing's vid on the ktv one huh e oi????
Haha. Now you all know who xiao cheong nao already!
The duck noodles you talking about is in District 5??? Nguyen Trai very long street leh..Near by got famous beef noodle stall isit??
Yes, its at Q5. the address of the 2 shops are already in the other people's postings. I prefer the 455 one, the other one is just a stone's throw away and its easy for people to mistake 1 for the other.
I like the Mi Thap Cam there... soup is yummy. Duck noodles with the whole duck leg with tigh is also yummy. a Must-try for newbies.
Are you talking about decent girl or working girl?
I ever visit often and overnight a few times at a WL's apartment. Does that mean I'm her SPECIAL ONE!? For my case I do not think I experienced your points 5-8.
well, for me, i am not so judgemental and always assume all working girl as decent girls until they prove to be indecent beyong resonable doubts.
For which case, i am referring to girls who brings you to the house they stay with their family, not rented apartment.
But even rented apartment, if they bring you back, i think it really means they are really comfortable with you, so i guess you are rather quite special to them.
You think about it.. if they bring just any customers to their place.. wouldn't that gets them into lots of unneccessary trouble after some time? And i think also no need to elaborate what is the nature of trouble we talking about here.
after hearing all these, i think my heart already know what thing....
should i give her a call to tell her i in hcmc and dont ask her whether she coming to meet me anot?
would that be a better idea?
The best thing to do is this...
1. Contact Bro Reaper, buy him beer, buy him food, and bribe him so much that he feels guilty and agree to impart some of his magical skills to you.
2. Focus on passing your Basic Training and be assigned accordingly to ur newly acquired skills.
3. Cheong like no tomorrow with him and his gang.
4. Dun forget to try those wonderful eating places, wash hair places and 3-legs massage places too!
5. Pay special attention to hotel bookings, make sure its guest friendly, in doubt, PM some brudders here to ask for help, no need shy one.
Basically, the whole thinking about this HCMC trip is about your enjoyment and not about her.
Oh, nearly forget... 1 day before you depart HCMC, just after you have a good lunch... use ur HCMC phone and SMS to her "Hi, I am XXX, I am in HCMC already " I bet u she will reply that SMS with a grand-mother story which is a cut-and-paste from a list of officially distributed excuses tat is used by all the WLs in HCMC. And when that happens.. and after you have done everything listed above... a grin should naturally appear on your face instead of a frown. And all of a sudden you will realise you achieve Enlightalment and the halo around your head will light up!
Enjoy urself... and may the Force be with you... nano nano..
well, for me, i am not so judgemental and always assume all working girl as decent girls until they prove to be indecent beyong resonable doubts.
For which case, i am referring to girls who brings you to the house they stay with their family, not rented apartment.
But even rented apartment, if they bring you back, i think it really means they are really comfortable with you, so i guess you are rather quite special to them.
You think about it.. if they bring just any customers to their place.. wouldn't that gets them into lots of unneccessary trouble after some time? And i think also no need to elaborate what is the nature of trouble we talking about here.
I've been to a WL's family home before as well. But I've a feel that the reason I'm being brought there is to be a slained goat instead.
Yes even if it's a rented apartment. They can get into serious trouble if authorities find out.
There is a few stall selling Duck noddles....above are two of them..
Another one I try before is at Dist 8....very nice too.
There is a Ba Chor Mee not bad at Joo Chiat Place.. No need to come HCMC la. Nearly 2000km U know??? Drive your purple car go there, maybe can get 1 free drink for a bowl of noodle ordered.
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There is a Ba Chor Mee not bad at Joo Chiat Place.. No need to come HCMC la. Nearly 2000km U know??? Drive your purple car go there, maybe can get 1 free drink for a bowl of noodle ordered.
Nnkc....Since when I drive a "PURPLE" car ha?
I think I want to drive a black car like your nick.
There is a Ba Chor Mee not bad at Joo Chiat Place.. No need to come HCMC la. Nearly 2000km U know??? Drive your purple car go there, maybe can get 1 free drink for a bowl of noodle ordered.
Oi hello...wrong thread la...here talking about hcm and not joo chiat la....duck soup noodle and not ba chor mee la...
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There is a Ba Chor Mee not bad at Joo Chiat Place.. No need to come HCMC la. Nearly 2000km U know??? Drive your purple car go there, maybe can get 1 free drink for a bowl of noodle ordered.
25-07-2009, 11:34 PM
Tell you my frens always have to lied to their gfs just to get out to have fun in hcm...quote my fren said "always tell her i go out will still come back...if you cannot tolerate then time for you to find new bf"...
For my case I do not think I experienced your points 5-8.
" I bet u she will reply that SMS with a grand-mother story which is a cut-and-paste from a list of officially distributed excuses tat is used by all the WLs in HCMC. And when that happens.. and after you have done everything listed above... a grin should naturally appear on your face instead of a frown. And all of a sudden you will realise you achieve Enlightalment and the halo around your head will light up!
Different Day"
