Any samsters will marry a working lady ?

[steamer]

after so many chionging yrs, this question ever crossed my mind quite a no. of times;not tat i am in a position to do it, but rather will i do it if i ever had a chance to do so.
In a conversation after a recent session with my regular wl, she mentioned tat after so many yrs in the biz, she has learnt tat all men cannot be trusted.
This set me thinking...its not easy for us to view a relship thru the eyes of a wl. The criteria and perspective tat we use and see are no longer the same as wat they use and see. Our priorities in a relship are no longer the same. Whoever wants to enter into a relship with a wl, must be able to understand her criteria, priorities and perspective. Does love feature highly in it anymore, or is it superseded by a sense of reliability? Forget abt sense of security, wls hv become very resilient and independant, and hv learnt to take care of and rely on themselves.
juz my 2 cents of reflection....

[newbadass]

Originally Posted by shaggerific

Can you imagine hundreds of guys with their grubby paws and dick all over your girl?? Worse still, can you imagine going to a function and then someone recognising your girl??

I'm not sure whether I can tahan. Then again, maybe it's because I am not special, not a TRUE MAN, and definitely not a hero. Just a pencil-pusher who cannot be compared to those who are exploring new lands....

But please... whoever wants to do it, don't do it just to prove that you can do it. That is just fucking childish. You got nothing to prove to anyone. If you succeed, we don't benefit. If you fail, we don't lose anything.

Anyway, they are still women and that automatically means we can only trust them 50%... whether or not they are WLs!

[PoundIt]

Originally Posted by Tai_zi21

Does a WL steal to earn a living or even cheat ro earn a living?

In fact maybe u should think abt how gd u urself is before u despise ppl i guess

Just my humble pt of views

Cheers

hi, thanks for pointing out my mistake for any misunderstanding.

what i meant is, when one is helpless(in a way), he/she will do whatever he/she can to survive. Be it involving in getting a low paying job or sex trade.

I apologize that I made it sound as if they're stealing or things like that.

Cheers.

[ric33]

Just to share with bros here about a 'success' story (at least up till now)...

3 years ago, A brudder of mine married a TN gal. When they met, the PRC was here in Sg barely for 3 days. They met and continued a rather up & downs relationship.

From the day they met (3rd day here), we(my bro and the chick and me and my gal) go out every evening. She still went to the TN daily.

The gal left after 14 days and my fren continued the "relation' with her. She had done her visas, pass, paid a huge fees and what not to go to Taiwan. However, she returned to Sg and met my fren again and decided not to go to Taiwan. On her second return to Sg, she did not work at all. My fren took a week's leave to accompany her.

They eventually got married here, and now have a son of 2+ age. They went thru a bad time when my fren was retrenched and she was pregnant and she did pondered of going back and of course quarrels and fights happened. But then again, because of the child, she stayed on and even took out S$10k to assist my fren.

Heaven help this couple and my fren found another job eventually and the boy is now healthy and growing. She has since gotten her PR and as far as I know, they are a happy family.

Happy endings do happen some times....

[dominion]

for me, judge not lest you be judged...

we live in a modern world, so be more open-minded and less prejudiced. how diff is a WL from a lady who's not? there are lots of WLs out to cheat bros of their money but also lots of non-WLs who do so too... More WLs are able to do it because the nature of their job allows them to achieve it easier. That doesnt mean WLs in whole are any less than other women.

But still I advise unless you are really sure, dont do it. most WLs are not brought up to look for love here. They see men who cheat, lie and steal and generally don't believe in men. So while they might be nice to you, they might not trust you with their future.

[BkkResident]

Originally Posted by dominion

for me, judge not lest you be judged...

we live in a modern world, so be more open-minded and less prejudiced. how diff is a WL from a lady who's not? there are lots of WLs out to cheat bros of their money but also lots of non-WLs who do so too... More WLs are able to do it because the nature of their job allows them to achieve it easier. That doesnt mean WLs in whole are any less than other women.

But still I advise unless you are really sure, dont do it. most WLs are not brought up to look for love here. They see men who cheat, lie and steal and generally don't believe in men. So while they might be nice to you, they might not trust you with their future.

U need to marry someone who will stay with you through thick and thin. How many girls these days will do that? Be it WLs or normal girls?

No point marrying someone from a good family background but when times are bad,they leave u. Its better to know earlier before committing yourself into the relationship than to realise it later.

Most WLs like other bros had mentioned are not out to look for love. They are out to look for a better life in the future. Whoever can provide the best for her,she will go for the better option. Love is something really very subjective these days. Most WLs had undergone hardships/poverty which many of us never had experienced before.

Also u might worry that she will not love u. She also knew u from where she work.

[ansonlky]

Originally Posted by BkkResident

U need to marry someone who will stay with you through thick and thin. How many girls these days will do that? Be it WLs or normal girls?

No point marrying someone from a good family background but when times are bad,they leave u. Its better to know earlier before committing yourself into the relationship than to realise it later.

Most WLs like other bros had mentioned are not out to look for love. They are out to look for a better life in the future. Whoever can provide the best for her,she will go for the better option. Love is something really very subjective these days. Most WLs had undergone hardships/poverty which many of us never had experienced before.

Also u might worry that she will not love u. She also knew u from where she work.

Yah. We need someone who can stick with us thru thick and thin. If you happen to have an Ex Cat40 or WL as your gf. U will be wondering will she leave u if u tell her u don't have the ability to provide her the material needs she used to enjoy while she was a working lady previously. Being together now doesnt mean u will be together forever in future. Being separated also doesnt mean u will lose her forever.

[LikeBBB]

I miss her.....I really miss her. I thought I can just get it over with but it is not to be. Why did she left without a word? All I wanted was a confirmation from her if she don't want to see me again. But instead, the unavailable tone keeps coming up when I call. I really think its too cruel of her. I can accept refusal but not like this kind of half past six replies when I don't even know what's happening.

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by BkkResident

Also u might worry that she will not love u. She also knew u from where she work.

There are so many normal gers walking in the street, I just dun understand y guys go to the whore house to look for love???

[Shuang_Jie_Gun]

Originally Posted by naemlo

There are so many normal gers walking in the street, I just dun understand y guys go to the whore house to look for love???

maybe they believe money can buy them love and what their heart desire.however when the money runs out,the passion dies off and they will realise it is going nowhere.they need to go through it to really truly understand what this kind of " love" is going to bring you.

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by LikeBBB

I really think its too cruel of her. I can accept refusal but not like this kind of half past six replies when I don't even know what's happening.

Errr aren't it simple? She is ignoring u = refusal. Why demand an answer n make yourself miserable??

[dominion]

Originally Posted by naemlo

There are so many normal gers walking in the street, I just dun understand y guys go to the whore house to look for love???

sometimes is because cannot get those on the streets... really...

[AD69]

Originally Posted by LikeBBB

All I wanted was a confirmation from her if she don't want to see me again. But instead, the unavailable tone keeps coming up when I call. I really think its too cruel of her. I can accept refusal but not like this kind of half past six replies when I don't even know what's happening.

I think she already gave you a confirmation in a way. She did it by changing her numbers and doesn't want you to contact her anymore.

If she still hinders love for you, she would tell you her new numbers when she change her numbers.

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by dominion

sometimes is because cannot get those on the streets... really...

Go to the agencies n look for your ideal ger....

[ahpaul25]

Originally Posted by naemlo

There are so many normal gers walking in the street, I just dun understand y guys go to the whore house to look for love???

The trend is going to be the same as Jap. soon......Marry a AV Idols.....Sometimes I seem many cases in SG LOCAL BOSSES are too busy in work, and seldom look for local gers walking in the street.....so I go for a quick 1.....in GL Lor 8.....and Bao those PRC....the amount they spend is around 10K per mth.....as I meet afew of my PRC frd kenna bao by sure rich ppls....The World is spinning....ppls are changing.....My gfs are all PRC also...I also don mind marry a PRC......Hai.......