Super busy plus not convenient to type any update due to OC's omipresence. Ok, now on the story wiith D. D appears a decent girl, SYT, whom I made friend while roaming Dong Khoi street in Apr 09.
She speaks little Eng, and so I had to use whatever Tieng Viet that I learnt from my office staff to comm with her. That was about 4 months back. We went for lunch and some shopping...I bought her a blouse and a pair of shoes. Nothing happened...(I needed to be patient).
After that I didn't call her for the next two or three months, and with M casuing me a little heartache for her antics ($ face), I decided to try D. We went for dinner and I managed to rub-rub abit while in the cab. No resistence!! Again, nothing happened although I did hint we next time could go khack san and she was like "huh?".
D knew I was marraied (I think I told her roi, but couldnt remember actually). Nevertheless, I made good progress, and eversince, we had commed via skype while I am in Spore.
Two weeks ago, D skyped me and said she lost her HP!! Hwat the fuck...same trick again? Asked me to lend her $$ via Western Union. I told her no way, if any, we can "thao luan" when I am there.
Yet again, what the seniors here had gone through/encountered were unfolding right in front of me....I hope I was wrong with D, but let's see.
Tks to all seniors' earlier inputs and FR that kept me up to mark when I deal with the ban gai o HCMC!!
Next trip to HCMC in mid Sep for 1 week. Let's see what happens...till then tam biet !!
(Btw, I had actually wanted to upload D's photo, but wifey saw the photo and asked me who that was. Lan lan deleted and said no lah office colleauge which the Sing office guy wanted to see the photo.) phew....
Also, I had began to distance myself from the goody gal that I met...cos I told her I am not married, and she had shown interest in me. No heart to hurt such a good girl. (I wrote about this some time ago seeking advice if I had to come clean or otherwise. Decided to pull plug instead.) Hence I had decided that I will be upfront with all the ban gai that anh co vo roi. And if they still want to see me, then ok lor, if not, move on and change target. Like that no need to carry the lie that can be quite heavy sometimes.
Any seniors or experienced bros here care to advice how I can up D or even M (without burning a hole or kena KCed)? When mission done, FR will follow.
Another boring update of my ban gai o Saigon. (Please bear with me as I intend to log the saga down like a diary)
Arrived HCM and skyped D (I told her I will skype her since she lost her phone roi). She is not free the same night but agreed to meet on Thu Tu @ 7 .30 pm. We shall see what will happen. (1) She ask for $ to buy pone - then I will tell her FO. (2) She kuai kuai just be a good gal (?? think not likely).
At the hotel, chatted a 21 year old sweet girl from Hanoi who is on work attachment (undergrad). Got her contact no. Ask her out for bia but she said cannot, wait mother scolds. She said she may come to Singapore to study tourism diploma, and said will look for me. OK, will try try her test test my skill.
As for M, she seemed MIA liao. Called her mobile, a lady picked up and said M is not using the line anymore. Called her line 2, but got engaged tone (it is quite common to get network busy here). Few hrs later called her home, her younger sister gave the same mobile line 2 to me. Then at nigh, try try line 2, again the answer at the other line is another gal. No more leads, have to kill the line. Move on.
Another boring update of my ban gai o Saigon. (Please bear with me as I intend to log the saga down like a diary)
Arrived HCM and skyped D (I told her I will skype her since she lost her phone roi). She is not free the same night but agreed to meet on Thu Tu @ 7 .30 pm. We shall see what will happen. (1) She ask for $ to buy pone - then I will tell her FO. (2) She kuai kuai just be a good gal (?? think not likely).
At the hotel, chatted a 21 year old sweet girl from Hanoi who is on work attachment (undergrad). Got her contact no. Ask her out for bia but she said cannot, wait mother scolds. She said she may come to Singapore to study tourism diploma, and said will look for me. OK, will try try her test test my skill.
As for M, she seemed MIA liao. Called her mobile, a lady picked up and said M is not using the line anymore. Called her line 2, but got engaged tone (it is quite common to get network busy here). Few hrs later called her home, her younger sister gave the same mobile line 2 to me. Then at nigh, try try line 2, again the answer at the other line is another gal. No more leads, have to kill the line. Move on.
As for another decent gal (H - the one who motor-biked me around and I rubba rubba a bit along the way), since I cant bear to "destroy flower", I just make myself slowly slowly disappeared. Even when online, when I see her skype ID, I just make myself invisible. Think she got the hint liao, and stopped initiating skype message to me. Like that also good, not need anymore explanation why I bluffed her I was not married.
(Just to recap, she had a way to ask if I were married. 1st she asked if I stayed alone, then went into details who stayed with me when I said I was not married. And these questions were asked on the 1st time we went out at night. This had been quite a common line of questioning for most Vn gals, and now I will always come clean and said yes married in Singapore but not HCMC. Seemed quite a few dun mind if you are married or not.)
search my posts a ways back -- I gave a pretty full list of girl bars, most of which are right around the corner from you, and all within a 5 min walk.
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any nice hc,nc,bars to intro in hcm ?? will be going over in end oct ...
thanks bro !!
Wendella - see how many newbies just post to ask...dun even bother to read signatures....
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As for M, she seemed MIA liao. Called her mobile, a lady picked up and said M is not using the line anymore. Called her line 2, but got engaged tone (it is quite common to get network busy here). Few hrs later called her home, her younger sister gave the same mobile line 2 to me. Then at nigh, try try line 2, again the answer at the other line is another gal. No more leads, have to kill the line. Move on.
See if you dun show any interest last time, they will look for new targets...you are off their radar liao...Seems that we dun understand how Vn gals play their game fully...
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....This had been quite a common line of questioning for most Vn gals, and now I will always come clean and said yes married in Singapore but not HCMC. Seemed quite a few dun mind if you are married or not.)
Usually it depends on your age, if you are around 35 and below, you can still say that you are single, but if you are above 35, it's not a bad idea to say that you are married.
Reason is... if you are above 35 and still unmarried and without any girlfirend etc etc... the girl might just think that there's something wrong with you, either you are gay or a person with a lot of problems and you can't attract any girls to be with you. Vn girls usually mind that you are married or if you have a girlfriend, most are quite willing to settle to be your number 2. You just need to show to them that you are a devoted lover.
I have a good friend who is in his 40s who uses the below "trap" answer, and surprisingly it works !!!
Girl: Do you already have a wife?
Guy: Yes, and I have 2 wifes and 3 children, one wife in Singapore, one in Hanoi, but no wife in HCM yet, do you want to be my 3rd wife?
Girl: Errr... I will think about it...
Guy: Sure, but don't think too long, otherwise you might end up as my 4th or 5th wife instead... there are others in the queue, hahaha ! (In a joking manner).
The above may not ALWAYS work but it is proven to HAVE WORKED.
Other good answers are that you are divorce or have a few girlfriends but have broken up, making you single now. But be armed with a good answer why you divorced or broke up with your ex-girlfriends, because this will be the next question on the girl's list.
Anyway just never say that you are single all your life and she is your only girl, this is the worst answer. Girls never like to be with guys who are not popular with other girls. Let her feel that you are not desperate for her only but a guy with options to choose, this will put her on her toes.
Usually it depends on your age, if you are around 35 and below, you can still say that you are single, but if you are above 35, it's not a bad idea to say that you are married.
Reason is... if you are above 35 and still unmarried and without any girlfirend etc etc... the girl might just think that there's something wrong with you, either you are gay or a person with a lot of problems and you can't attract any girls to be with you. Vn girls usually mind that you are married or if you have a girlfriend, most are quite willing to settle to be your number 2. You just need to show to them that you are a devoted lover.
I have a good friend who is in his 40s who uses the below "trap" answer, and surprisingly it works !!!
Girl: Do you already have a wife?
Guy: Yes, and I have 2 wifes and 3 children, one wife in Singapore, one in Hanoi, but no wife in HCM yet, do you want to be my 3rd wife?
Girl: Errr... I will think about it...
Guy: Sure, but don't think too long, otherwise you might end up as my 4th or 5th wife instead... there are others in the queue, hahaha ! (In a joking manner).
The above may not ALWAYS work but it is proven to HAVE WORKED.
Other good answers are that you are divorce or have a few girlfriends but have broken up, making you single now. But be armed with a good answer why you divorced or broke up with your ex-girlfriends, because this will be the next question on the girl's list.
Anyway just never say that you are single all your life and she is your only girl, this is the worst answer. Girls never like to be with guys who are not popular with other girls. Let her feel that you are not desperate for her only but a guy with options to choose, this will put her on her toes.
Bro Chai Tao...very good impressive advice...Vn gals like straight forward and upfront answers...dun think you can bluff forever...
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Bro Chai Tao...very good impressive advice...Vn gals like straight forward and upfront answers...dun think you can bluff forever...
always cheong with chai tao but he never tell me this.
if only i am very direct upfront, i will not lose my number2 and she will not be number2 of somebody else who is straight forward. Maybe too scared to lose her, so i keep on xao nhieu nhieu
lesson learned...
infact few gals who i don't bother, i had been direct upfront and they still stick to me (though all are back in VN now)
Thank you...I dun update anymore...rely on Bro VietnamLover to update...my signature is pointing there now...
Bro VietnamLover...for your action...
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Bro Chai Tao...very good impressive advice...Vn gals like straight forward and upfront answers...dun think you can bluff forever...
Thank you Mr Big Wind, you are correct, vn girls really hate liars.
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always cheong with chai tao but he never tell me this.
if only i am very direct upfront, i will not lose my number2 and she will not be number2 of somebody else who is straight forward. Maybe too scared to lose her, so i keep on xao nhieu nhieu
lesson learned...
infact few gals who i don't bother, i had been direct upfront and they still stick to me (though all are back in VN now)
You so much more experience than me, I am not worthy... huhuhu.
OK so now I tell you, forget about number 2 and look for number 3,4,5...
But also need to choose the right timing to be direct upfront, otherwise loose a lot of opportunity for cheap thrills, HAHAHA !
See if you dun show any interest last time, they will look for new targets...you are off their radar liao...Seems that we dun understand how Vn gals play their game fully...
Very true...you observation is "one needle sees blood"
Usually it depends on your age, if you are around 35 and below, you can still say that you are single, but if you are above 35, it's not a bad idea to say that you are married.
Reason is... if you are above 35 and still unmarried and without any girlfirend etc etc... the girl might just think that there's something wrong with you, either you are gay or a person with a lot of problems and you can't attract any girls to be with you. Vn girls usually mind that you are married or if you have a girlfriend, most are quite willing to settle to be your number 2. You just need to show to them that you are a devoted lover.
I have a good friend who is in his 40s who uses the below "trap" answer, and surprisingly it works !!!
Girl: Do you already have a wife?
Guy: Yes, and I have 2 wifes and 3 children, one wife in Singapore, one in Hanoi, but no wife in HCM yet, do you want to be my 3rd wife?
Girl: Errr... I will think about it...
Guy: Sure, but don't think too long, otherwise you might end up as my 4th or 5th wife instead... there are others in the queue, hahaha ! (In a joking manner).
The above may not ALWAYS work but it is proven to HAVE WORKED.
Other good answers are that you are divorce or have a few girlfriends but have broken up, making you single now. But be armed with a good answer why you divorced or broke up with your ex-girlfriends, because this will be the next question on the girl's list.
Anyway just never say that you are single all your life and she is your only girl, this is the worst answer. Girls never like to be with guys who are not popular with other girls. Let her feel that you are not desperate for her only but a guy with options to choose, this will put her on her toes.
I am 40 and not married, no wonder no VN girls like me.... sad sad
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