Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner - Page 1247

Tobii · #**18691** 11-11-2013, 03:52 PM

Hi people. I googled & found this discussion link informative, hidden in this ahem website. I got myself a Việt bride recently from agency & the information from the experts here are truly enlightening. I have been alone & carefree for the longest time I can recalled, till I heeled on the calling from deep inside & decided to exercise the second last option of getting a "life" partner. Now... I don't really know. It was like a flash, & there is this young woman sleeping beside me. It's not the same as before, honestly, those bonk, pay up & go days. No responsibilities whatsoever. We have communication barrier, though she can understand very little English, even less Mandarin. She learnt real slow.... I wondered how the experts here learn Việt language so fluently? I find the language difficult. We have to rely on phone translations most of the times, though she promised to learn. But she is kinda slow learner or was I impatient? She's in Singapore for a month or so, agent said confirm 3 months she can speak basic Mandarin, but I felt the agent is just talk big. She is going mid 20s & I'm into my 40s. Her sometimes kiddy ways & mood are something I'm still trying to get in terms with. I have wanted someone not so young when I found her. The even older ones just looked cunning or aggressive... (was it me again?). She is with me for a week now, & while she did try to help out household works, there's really not much she can do. I can see she's bored at times, for a young girl like her to be a stucked at home. What should she be doing when I'm at work? But I'm also worried as she has a relative working in People Park's spa salon, & she frequent there a few times. She likes it there as the Việt "sisters" are there. Is it a good idea for her to mingle with them? I envy a bro here who said her VB prefers to hang around with locals. One thing, she seemed to want a lot of times, till I can't tahan too. Is this normal? As I wanted check up to double confirm, we do not have penetrative sex yet. Those Japanese AV patterns she all can performed but I'm only a one shot gunner. All in all, it has been tiring for me, & I'm like missing those carefree days again. Any bro, experts advises/scoldings/lectures are soooo much appreciate. - Tobii

Hurricane88 · #**18692** 11-11-2013, 05:01 PM

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She is going mid 20s & I'm into my 40s. Her sometimes kiddy ways & mood are something I'm still trying to get in terms with. I have wanted someone not so young when I found her. The even older ones just looked cunning or aggressive... (was it me again?). She is with me for a week now, & while she did try to help out household works, there's really not much she can do. I can see she's bored at times, for a young girl like her to be a stucked at home. What should she be doing when I'm at work? But I'm also worried as she has a relative working in People Park's spa salon, & she frequent there a few times. She likes it there as the Việt "sisters" are there. Is it a good idea for her to mingle with them? I envy a bro here who said her VB prefers to hang around with locals. One thing, she seemed to want a lot of times, till I can't tahan too. Is this normal? As I wanted check up to double confirm, we do not have penetrative sex yet. Those Japanese AV patterns she all can performed but I'm only a one shot gunner. All in all, it has been tiring for me, & I'm like missing those carefree days again. Any bro, experts advises/scoldings/lectures are soooo much appreciate. - Tobii

she is mid 20's which is consider old in Vietnam...she has no choice but to marry foreigner like you...most of the gals in Vietnam marry around 18 to 23 yrs old to locals...older ones are usually divorcess or have kids...

not sure if typo...you said in red above you have not had penetrative sex yet and yet you say you are one shot gunner...not sure you wonder where she learn all those Jap AV techniques...wonder if you wonder too...

mixing with salon gals is not advisable...her so called relatives are usually just friends...think you better keep her busy at home...

read some of the cases posted here in this thread which may sound similar...admire your courage for marrying a Viet gal without learning and knowing their culture...wish you good luck...

Kim91 · #**18693** 11-11-2013, 05:47 PM

Bro H88, he meant with condom

Golden question · #**18694** 11-11-2013, 05:52 PM

Nowadays,i saw more and more newbies post here.Some just register recently and can actually post like this first post and ask things like

Hi,i recently know a viet,blar blar blar
Hi,i recently marry a vie blar blar blar
Hi,i am new and recently know a viet and want to marry her blar blar
Hi,how much to pay for her,family or this and that blar blar blar

All seek advise but disappear after one post

Then now one come say one carefree life after married

So nowadays I also don't bother to post anything cos it seem like they post for the sack of posting

Maybe want to let the threat continue lah or more 'happening' lah

KangTuo · #**18695** 11-11-2013, 08:45 PM

Bonking vb for so many years but I have yet to find a viet who can perform ALL A V pattern...

Hurricane88 · #**18696** 11-11-2013, 08:51 PM

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Bonking vb for so many years but I have yet to find a viet who can perform ALL A V pattern...

haha...then you unlucky...i had before...VB willing to try all the porn patterns...haha...marvelous memories...sweet dreams are made of these...

KangTuo · #**18697** 11-11-2013, 08:53 PM

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Originally Posted by Golden question

Hi,i recently know a viet,blar blar blar
Hi,i recently marry a vie blar blar blar
Hi,i am new and recently know a viet and want to marry her blar blar
Hi,how much to pay for her,family or this and that blar blar blar

All seek advise but disappear after one post

Then now one come say one carefree life after married

So nowadays I also don't bother to post anything cos it seem like they post for the sack of posting

Maybe want to let the threat continue lah or more 'happening' lah

Hi, i recently know a Northern Viet, lah lah lah
Hi, i married a Southern Viet, but I recently want to marry a Northern Viet, lah lah lah
Hi, I am new to Northen Vietnam and recently know a Northern Viet and wanted to arry her, lah lah lah

Hi, how much will i need to pay her and her family. Any different from Southern?

I wont disapear after one posr
I am still having carefree life after married

So nowadays i mostly tcss

Just want to keep the thread more happening

Tobii · #**18698** 11-11-2013, 09:26 PM

I sure hope I'm not a one post person. The experiences of the bros here are invaluable, so even if I'm not posting, I'll be loitering around. Just show smiley face can anot?

Tobii · #**18699** 11-11-2013, 09:37 PM

Thanks Hurricane88 Bro for the advise. I wonder too, haha. But more importantly we are "clear to go" as she was like eager to "make contact". I told her make baby must planning first. Think she understand. No, we did not have intercourse yet.

Kangtuo bro, steady lah. Still enjoying carefree life after being married. Whereas I was like worry this & that.

Hurricane88 · #**18700** 12-11-2013, 12:05 PM

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Originally Posted by Tobii

Thanks Hurricane88 Bro for the advise. I wonder too, haha. But more importantly we are "clear to go" as she was like eager to "make contact". I told her make baby must planning first. Think she understand. No, we did not have intercourse yet.

Kangtuo bro, steady lah. Still enjoying carefree life after being married. Whereas I was like worry this & that.

sleep beside you and no intercourse...yet she is your wife...not sure I can believe such things...a marriage without consummate can be termed as not full marriage...but anyway this is a forum and you can write what ever you write...good luck to you...

Bro KT, already has a baby one year after marriage...read his stories and you sure will be wow...haha...

but your story plenty of hidden agenda...to marry a Viet wife, you should had spent around S$ 20k and you said such stories...

Tobii · #**18701** 12-11-2013, 02:22 PM

Hurricane88, solemnity is on the way. We are also planning a full checkup. So tahan lor. No secret agenda lah, didn't exceed 20. I got budget constraint mah, everything buy cheapo nia.

Yeah. I read a bit at Bro KT. 潇洒自如。There are far too many pages...

volcano · #**18702** 12-11-2013, 08:16 PM

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No, we did not have intercourse yet.

hi dude..u r the man...i salute u...

i think 99.99% of the bros here will already do the deed on the very 1st night...

learning a new language takes time..takes how long to learn???...i think it depends on individual...i wondering why u actually trust what the agent says and believes that ur wife can learn either English or Mandarin in a short period of time when i think she is not even having lessons from language classes.

mixing with other girls working in "spas"....errrr...i seriously doubt its a decent spa...of cos she like to go there as there are companions to gossip in the same language.unless u willing to let her brain be "corrupted"...if not i would say its a NO NO for u to let her go there.

read through the whole thread and i am sure that u will have more knowledge on what Vietnamese think and do..

congrats to u and welcome u to the world of nuoc mam,goi cuon,pho bo etc

btw..do u mind to share how much u pay to the agent?

Hurricane88 · #**18703** 12-11-2013, 10:41 PM

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Originally Posted by Tobii

Hurricane88, solemnity is on the way. We are also planning a full checkup. So tahan lor. No secret agenda lah, didn't exceed 20. I got budget constraint mah, everything buy cheapo nia.

what you want us to know up posted...what you dun want us to know is your hidden agenda...anyway your story not convincing...why you even do full checkup since you have budget constraint...how many samsters here have Vn wife went for full checkup...

you can be cheapo...but your Vn wife will nvr believe you are poor...haha...