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Too many SGP man are too naive. They do not know what their viet spouses are thinking about. They assume that their viet spouse think and act in the same way, just like any other Singaporean. But the truth is, no matter how demure their viet spouse may be (cook them a meal when they are hungry, make love with them when they are horny) , thinking is mostly different from their actions. Actions are for show only and is part of the long term plot. But of course, not all Viet spouse are bad, some are really committed to be good wives and mothers. (minority) Those that have frequent contacts with Viets in Vietnam will have better idea of their thinking relative to those SGP man who assumes that all humans in the world think and act like Singaporeans.
I heard some brothers mention to me that they always regret after buying gifts or helping their VBs financially.
Personally I find them as a bunch of "forgetful and unappreciative" girls. So far I have not meet one that is different from the other.
My personal experience (November 2013, the day I gained enlightenment)
My girl wanted a Eyebrow fluid and Chanel perfume. After giving, she want a bike which I wanted to pay in a few months .... but my girl got upset and we stop talking. (so I was save by the bell and do not need to pay for a bike...)
Later on I meet a few more girls and all keep asking for things or money. Some requests are met while other "ridiculous" request are rejected. Some can keep talking about money the whole night that I chase her out of my room at 11:30pm by pushing her out of my room.
Their attitude is such that they forgotten what you have given to them earlier once a new request surface. And if the new request is not meet; you are a bad boyfriend.
I am now practising "NO". And once that is fulfilled I will be the last man a VB gold digger want to meet on earth.
And if I find one whom stick with me after countless "NO"; then I think I may found a "close to decent" girl finally. (however I will always keep in mind that she may be "acting" and it will take at least 2 years to see the truth.)
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Originally Posted by SingViet
Too many SGP man are too naive. They do not know what their viet spouses are thinking about. They assume that their viet spouse think and act in the same way, just like any other Singaporean. But the truth is, no matter how demure their viet spouse may be (cook them a meal when they are hungry, make love with them when they are horny) , thinking is mostly different from their actions. Actions are for show only and is part of the long term plot. But of course, not all Viet spouse are bad, some are really committed to be good wives and mothers. (minority) Those that have frequent contacts with Viets in Vietnam will have better idea of their thinking relative to those SGP man who assumes that all humans in the world think and act like Singaporeans.
The same applies to many third world girls. Maybe their environment and upbringing makes them this way. Some sinkies women had this mentality too. Asking for gifts and monetary rewards at the slightest opportunity presented them.
i heard some brothers mention to me that they always regret after buying gifts or helping their vbs financially.
Personally i find them as a bunch of "forgetful and unappreciative" girls. So far i have not meet one that is different from the other.
My personal experience (november 2013, the day i gained enlightenment)
my girl wanted a eyebrow fluid and chanel perfume. After giving, she want a bike which i wanted to pay in a few months .... But my girl got upset and we stop talking. (so i was save by the bell and do not need to pay for a bike...)
later on i meet a few more girls and all keep asking for things or money. Some requests are met while other "ridiculous" request are rejected. some can keep talking about money the whole night that i chase her out of my room at 11:30pm by pushing her out of my room.
their attitude is such that they forgotten what you have given to them earlier once a new request surface. And if the new request is not meet; you are a bad boyfriend.
I am now practising "no". And once that is fulfilled i will be the last man a vb gold digger want to meet on earth.
and if i find one whom stick with me after countless "no"; then i think i may found a "close to decent" girl finally. (however i will always keep in mind that she may be "acting" and it will take at least 2 years to see the truth.)
Too many SGP man are too naive. They do not know what their viet spouses are thinking about. They assume that their viet spouse think and act in the same way, just like any other Singaporean. But the truth is, no matter how demure their viet spouse may be (cook them a meal when they are hungry, make love with them when they are horny) , thinking is mostly different from their actions. Actions are for show only and is part of the long term plot. But of course, not all Viet spouse are bad, some are really committed to be good wives and mothers. (minority) Those that have frequent contacts with Viets in Vietnam will have better idea of their thinking relative to those SGP man who assumes that all humans in the world think and act like Singaporeans.
unless the VB can always get a good catch, else how much can she squeeze from a local guy and may even be low pay working class .. so much time and effort and risk ... and how many more chance she will get? why so many into same trick/practice?
If she is a decent girl u like, dun have to "no" for everything. Small amount and not frequent like 100k or 200k, just close 1 eye.
I always pass most of my VND to my ger when in HCMC, she will settle everything for me. I keep about 200k for just in case. Sometime, when I leave HCMC, I dun collect the money back from her. Once in awhile, I will tell her the money left over, she can use it for herself and next trip she will tell me how much is left (I roughly know).
lol, 100k to 200k vnd really small amount, hahah a
unless the VB can always get a good catch, else how much can she squeeze from a local guy and may even be low pay working class .. so much time and effort and risk ... and how many more chance she will get? why so many into same trick/practice?
no money to squeeze no problem . She can stay here and get involved with other Sgp man also can . Seen so many Viet spouse with bf outside . Husband work day and night , she works day when husband is at work . Squeeze from other Sgp man money to send back Vn province to build house . Besides a Sgp husband and Sgp bf, still have a Vn bf in Vn . 101 tricks that you never think of .
no money to squeeze no problem . She can stay here and get involved with other Sgp man also can . Seen so many Viet spouse with bf outside . Husband work day and night , she works day when husband is at work . Squeeze from other Sgp man money to send back Vn province to build house . Besides a Sgp husband and Sgp bf, still have a Vn bf in Vn . 101 tricks that you never think of .
Clap,clap,morning one great post and afternoon another one,salute u brother,nobody then describe better than u on the real fact which most sgp man still cannot accept all this real fact brought up from u
Too many SGP man are too naive. They do not know what their viet spouses are thinking about. They assume that their viet spouse think and act in the same way, just like any other Singaporean. But the truth is, no matter how demure their viet spouse may be (cook them a meal when they are hungry, make love with them when they are horny) , thinking is mostly different from their actions. Actions are for show only and is part of the long term plot. But of course, not all Viet spouse are bad, some are really committed to be good wives and mothers. (minority) Those that have frequent contacts with Viets in Vietnam will have better idea of their thinking relative to those SGP man who assumes that all humans in the world think and act like Singaporeans.
Cos all this thing is normally typical sg girl will not do.And sgp man will think,she is good,not demanding like sg girl,family woman,sweep floor do household chores,willing to give birth baby for him and not like sg woman who prefer not to,so happy to marry a good wife but she will also think and do what sg woman will not think or do and by then the real truth will makes u realised that they are here for something and not u whom she call u ox
no money to squeeze no problem . She can stay here and get involved with other Sgp man also can . Seen so many Viet spouse with bf outside . Husband work day and night , she works day when husband is at work . Squeeze from other Sgp man money to send back Vn province to build house . Besides a Sgp husband and Sgp bf, still have a Vn bf in Vn . 101 tricks that you never think of .
Cos sgp man dont have face like andy lau,have sex skill better than vietnamese man or have house as big as istana so they have to cover their backside first by squeeze until cannot squeeze any sgd juice out and send back to their home ground to feed their vietnamese andy lau and build their vietnam istana cos they are vietnamese,born there and 'educate' there
no money to squeeze no problem . She can stay here and get involved with other Sgp man also can . Seen so many Viet spouse with bf outside . Husband work day and night , she works day when husband is at work . Squeeze from other Sgp man money to send back Vn province to build house . Besides a Sgp husband and Sgp bf, still have a Vn bf in Vn . 101 tricks that you never think of .
jialat, I got a viet FB, so to speak, now squeezing a robert (according to her) and at the same time FB me , with good tips of course... well I also another robert perhaps, give and take ba cos she not too "business" with me.... but I also trying to look for greener pasture
that robert even "check" on her regularly .. so funny, like husband checking on wife...reverse scenario.
Many thanks to the reply and valuable insight from senior here.
Just an update to my original post. After i am back to sg, still continue chat in skype for 1 week and she told me if i can help her with her english course school fees about SGD400/mth, she willing to be my gf and make love to me. Seem like she fishing for guys to sponsor her, have decide not to contact her .
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Originally Posted by mutantchicken
simple because local guy would NEVER accept that, but you guys are too easily manipulated
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Originally Posted by KangTuo
'Want but no sex' is to test you...
Pre-marital sex is so common now.
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Originally Posted by Pohchuan
At 40, you are considered at the right age to play the mature male candidate role that are attractive for women looking for a more stable senior boyfriend.
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Originally Posted by Hurricane88
Also when gal learns English means the scope widens to include foreigners...she should had a good idea what foreigners will give and what she will want...
Hi MIFAcafe,
One ridiculous thing i encounter is when i meet the girl, she bring me to eat at expensive restaurant that cost me SGD60 for one meal. VN wages so low, why would they eat like that. Cannot believe.
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Originally Posted by MIFAcafe
My personal experience (November 2013, the day I gained enlightenment)
My girl wanted a Eyebrow fluid and Chanel perfume. After giving, she want a bike which I wanted to pay in a few months .... but my girl got upset and we stop talking. (so I was save by the bell and do not need to pay for a bike...)
Too many SGP man are too naive. They do not know what their viet spouses are thinking about. They assume that their viet spouse think and act in the same way, just like any other Singaporean.
Those that have frequent contacts with Viets in Vietnam will have better idea of their thinking relative to those SGP man who assumes that all humans in the world think and act like Singaporeans.
24-03-2014, 07:46 AM
