My Current Situation

[callmebad]

the story sorts of telling us not to play with fire
we can say those KTV gals are not to be trusted
but in the end it's your choice in whether to trust her or not
because it is only you that has close encounter with her
how this is going to develop into ?
is this real love or lust?
only time will tell

[RobinGL]

I wrote from the bottom of my heart and that why it make my threat interesting.

Many brothers might think that there are some elements of false facts but it the true. Not until you are in my shoe you won’t get to understand how I feel. Many may think that I have the kind of freedom which you don’t enjoy but the true is I have that freedom for a price.

Those brothers walked thru this path before will understand and my threat reminded them of their stupidity in the past.

Many may think that KTV gals are all money sucker but it remain the fact that she is not. I am not trying to defend her. Just this evening when I send her to work she told me one thing.
I sucked people money for you and you cannot be unfaithful to me.

I stop cheonging and concentrate on my work. I work hard to earn more money for the sake of our future. She too.

I remember one of my client was telling me that when he was young he do not have the drive to make more money. It is when he had a second family, he work hard. He is now a millionaire. Sometime in life, you need certain pressure to excel. I not trying to encourage brothers here to had a second relationship.

I reinstate, my purpose of the posting is to warn brothers who is going to play that kinds of game to stop or about to get into this relationship to stop.

I am not trying to a saint but I do not want to see more victim or family breakup unless you are a bachelor.

[Iemanishere]

I truly agree with you bro robin.. But many may not understand till it falls on them.. Till than may be too late..

[noelak]

I just wanted to say this is the best honest heartfelt thread ever!!!

I log in everyday now to read how the story unfolds.

BTW. I am developing feelings for a massage (HJ only) girl...and recognize a lot of the feelings and situations you described in your story...

[andythai]

I reinstate, my purpose of the posting is to warn brothers who is going to play that kinds of game to stop or about to get into this relationship to stop.

I like the above line most. You can have a mistress for a while and change a new one. That is how I play my game.
Too scared to get serious especially u are married with kids.

[superman128]

Originally Posted by mccormick

Bro Superman128.. I suppose TS's encounter touches some of the bros' heart.. I'm one of them cos I went thru that b4.. but mine wasn't a KTV gal.. she's just another gal next door type and I was married at that time..its really amazing and u really dun know what u are doing then...

U mentioned:
"' i wont see her again bla bla'..then seconds later..when she rang or called, you would without hesitation rush to her place..this really confused me"

I'm like you. I would not believe a married can have such freedom.. now I believe so, cos I saw a real case... he's my friend... his wife knows he is fooling around but she's fine with it as long as he doesn't bring the cow home... sometimes he even decribed his encounter in a KTV to us when his wife is around.. The best part is, both of them are still as loving and they have a son... you can say that they are putting up a show in front of us.. and who knows.. but to us, they are a loving couple..

mccormick..
thanks for your honesty..
but i highly doubt so loving couple would do such thing. you have witnessed it before with your naked eyes. good on you. i have myself as well.
i do understand we live in world full of lies and evil shit, i dont deny that. but the logic comes down to how well one is not tempted by evil thoughts i.e. married dude goin out cheonging and looking for syt mei mei..
im married myself. with 4 kids believe it or not..
i do have the temptation. but i hold it strong to my will for that i believe:
1. the world is round. therefore wat goes ard comes ard.
2. wat if my wife is doing this to me. what if 15 years later my son is doing the same thing to others. wat if my daughter is the one kena 20 years later?

i still watch porn.i still surf sammyboy..but in the end for all i know im a married man.just face it. you cant live life like a 15 yearold cunt when your 35, you cant dress up like when your 20 when your well into your 60s. you see my point ? different responsibility steps in during each stage in life.

however, i do agree with you this is what your normal,typical sporean dude will react when face with such issue. becos that how the government has shaped things into everyones mind since young.

i left our wonderful island many years ago living abroad. and im glad that i do so..

ROBINGL bro isnt asking for advice, nor any suggestion...yeap yeap i get it.
then why did he refer to this matter as 'my current situation' if he just wanna share his side of stories ?

bro robin..you already know wat you want since the day 1 you started playin fire..so dont blame no one when shit happen in the end.
sorry my humble 2 c.

[superman128]

Originally Posted by RobinGL

Bro, I thank you for your honesty.

At first, it just playing game but slowly developed into love.
I borrowed from friend but she pay my friend monthly not me.
We stop going CASINO and i can see the changes in her.
She changed because of me and she was touch by my love.
Something which i cannot explain.
You may think that i give excuses but this is the true.
I fully understand the sterotype of KTV gals.
But she represent the million.

I sleep in seperate room with my wife and she do not care where i go.
As lone as monthly expenses is pay to her.
I do not wsh to review how i got into this marriage. Not short gun but a sad story.

hey bro robin.
thanks for answering my questions.
well if thats the case...my advice to you.
1. pack your bags, open house door and leave.
2. find XY, fly somewhere n start new life. maybe back to mainland.
3. forget everything bout spore including your kids, since your wife sleeps diff room and as long as money comes in monthly, i assume its a broken home?

4. most importantly dont forget..shes a ktv girl.. who knows few years down the track the loop happens all over again and she then dump you? dont be naive.. this is not the 1940s where everyone is so pure and honest.

in the end, you can trust noone but yourself and just continue cheonging game as long as you want like hugh hefner. when you have the money n power who doesnt come to you? 5 years down the road..i doubt you will still have the same feeling for XY like you do now.one day you walk into a ktv and someone catch your eyes.......... there we go...same story will happen again..

get it ? so, you either pack your bags and fly away with XY or just finish paying debts and leave XY for your own life..

[HauntedSex]

Hi Bro Robin, it seems like this type of relationship problems had been repeated to many of our samsters here or others, including myself...
10 years back, I was married and fell in love with a Viet KTV gal like what you facing now... I was neither handsome nor rich but both love me deeply and I love both of them too. Lastly I made the decision to leave both of them to ease all party's painful 3 triangle relationship...

Now I'm happily remarried, refused to get myself another KC trap and spent all my time on my work, wife, parents and in-laws, also becoming richer and wiser now. Sometimes all you need is the courage to end all confused relationships to start off a new beginning... Cos there is not much time to ponder about everything as life is too short for us to pacify everyone... just my 2 cent worth, cheers.

[callmebad]

Yes, I get the message from RobinGL loud n clear !
Right now that I'm not in his situation and it will be very easy for me to be critical of what he did.
I think for all of us, we should look at what he did as a sort of 'mirror' and to learn from his mistakes so that if we happen to be drifting into this kind of situation, we should know how to 'step onto the brake fast' !
I feel sad to see him continuing in his way for the sake of his kids because cutting loose with his wife may cause some damage to his kids.

[TheHappyMondays]

Good lucks to you, brudder. I shareing your sentiments.

Originally Posted by RobinGL

I wrote from the bottom of my heart and that why it make my threat interesting.

Many brothers might think that there are some elements of false facts but it the true. Not until you are in my shoe you won’t get to understand how I feel. Many may think that I have the kind of freedom which you don’t enjoy but the true is I have that freedom for a price.

Those brothers walked thru this path before will understand and my threat reminded them of their stupidity in the past.

Many may think that KTV gals are all money sucker but it remain the fact that she is not. I am not trying to defend her. Just this evening when I send her to work she told me one thing.
I sucked people money for you and you cannot be unfaithful to me.

I stop cheonging and concentrate on my work. I work hard to earn more money for the sake of our future. She too.

I remember one of my client was telling me that when he was young he do not have the drive to make more money. It is when he had a second family, he work hard. He is now a millionaire. Sometime in life, you need certain pressure to excel. I not trying to encourage brothers here to had a second relationship.

I reinstate, my purpose of the posting is to warn brothers who is going to play that kinds of game to stop or about to get into this relationship to stop.

I am not trying to a saint but I do not want to see more victim or family breakup unless you are a bachelor.

[Dontdoit]

Saw this PRC lady today keeps calling her Singaporean man laogong laogong, immediately link you to him.


Tio poison deep deep liao

[D-joker]

Last night i went to entertain some frens at a ktv which i didnt go for 1yr le. Then after drinking a few bottles, i gt drunk. N e worst part is i saw my ex ktv gf working there.... She still remember me after 1yr n i keep appologising to her. So much memories flow thru my head. End up she take care of me n ask my fren drive me hme... Think i must really stop all ktv activity.. If u cant cnrtl ur feeling in ktv, u r as gd as dead especially if u hav a family...

[goodpartner]

Imagine a world without KTV as an emotional outlet for frustrated family men...
Good or bad?

[donkeykong99]

Originally Posted by RobinGL

I wrote from the bottom of my heart and that why it make my threat interesting.

Many brothers might think that there are some elements of false facts but it the true. Not until you are in my shoe you won’t get to understand how I feel. Many may think that I have the kind of freedom which you don’t enjoy but the true is I have that freedom for a price.

Those brothers walked thru this path before will understand and my threat reminded them of their stupidity in the past.

Many may think that KTV gals are all money sucker but it remain the fact that she is not. I am not trying to defend her. Just this evening when I send her to work she told me one thing.
I sucked people money for you and you cannot be unfaithful to me.

I stop cheonging and concentrate on my work. I work hard to earn more money for the sake of our future. She too.

I remember one of my client was telling me that when he was young he do not have the drive to make more money. It is when he had a second family, he work hard. He is now a millionaire. Sometime in life, you need certain pressure to excel. I not trying to encourage brothers here to had a second relationship.

I reinstate, my purpose of the posting is to warn brothers who is going to play that kinds of game to stop or about to get into this relationship to stop.

I am not trying to a saint but I do not want to see more victim or family breakup unless you are a bachelor.

bro , with my heartfelt feelings i m saying this to you ..this will never and rarely ends well..unless you take things into hand right now by either ending it or divorcing your wife. by not taking either action you are definitely an accident waiting to happen and its not going to be financially good either way .
how can you be a millionaire when you are not even focused on your life with all the affairs dominating your daily time..

[cuntarow]

Originally Posted by goodpartner

Imagine a world without KTV as an emotional outlet for frustrated family men...
Good or bad?

I beg to differ, thats why they create k-box