My Current Situation

[mccormick]

Originally Posted by superman128

mccormick..
thanks for your honesty..
but i highly doubt so loving couple would do such thing. you have witnessed it before with your naked eyes. good on you. i have myself as well.
i do understand we live in world full of lies and evil shit, i dont deny that. but the logic comes down to how well one is not tempted by evil thoughts i.e. married dude goin out cheonging and looking for syt mei mei..
im married myself. with 4 kids believe it or not..
i do have the temptation. but i hold it strong to my will for that i believe:
1. the world is round. therefore wat goes ard comes ard.
2. wat if my wife is doing this to me. what if 15 years later my son is doing the same thing to others. wat if my daughter is the one kena 20 years later?

i still watch porn.i still surf sammyboy..but in the end for all i know im a married man.just face it. you cant live life like a 15 yearold cunt when your 35, you cant dress up like when your 20 when your well into your 60s. you see my point ? different responsibility steps in during each stage in life.

however, i do agree with you this is what your normal,typical sporean dude will react when face with such issue. becos that how the government has shaped things into everyones mind since young.

i left our wonderful island many years ago living abroad. and im glad that i do so..

ROBINGL bro isnt asking for advice, nor any suggestion...yeap yeap i get it.
then why did he refer to this matter as 'my current situation' if he just wanna share his side of stories ?

bro robin..you already know wat you want since the day 1 you started playin fire..so dont blame no one when shit happen in the end.
sorry my humble 2 c.

bro Superman.. i gotta agree with you somehow.. but we can't measure maturity with age ya?

Anyhow, I have stopped my flinging.. now i cherish my family more.. and jus like you.. i do watch porn now and SBF still my fav forum..

[RobinGL]

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One day while we were making love her virginal discharged some blood. She told me that she suspected that her Intra-Uterine Device had shifted and she must get pregnant. This is just only her guess. Day passed and her menses is around the corner and her period is always accurate.

It was day her menses supposed to come and it did not. I told her that it is because of the change of climate and resulted in the delay. One week passed and she shows no sign of her menses. I began to worry and we she had a test kit brought from China.

She did the test and the results shows positive. We were worried and planning to go for an abortion. She is worried that we have no money for the abortion as both of us are broke. I assured her not to worry about money at the same time find it a pity to abort my own child.

I brought another test kit the next day and repeat the test again. It time the result show negative. I was happy but don’t know which results to believe. I bought another test kit and follow the instructions closely. Guess what…………………………………….negative.
(Never buy China product….almost scare the wit out of me)

We were both happy that she is not pregnant. From that day onward, we use condom while having sex. Not long, she switched to raw again.

One fine day, we were talking dirty and she asked she was position I have not try before and I answer anal sex. She thought for a while and agreed to it. I immediately went down to the 7-11 and brought lubrication.

To be frank, I have never try anal before, I strip her naked and apply the KY on her ass. I try to insert my 2ic into her asshole and she keep complain of pain. She is determined to let me insert my 2ic into her ass. I slowly insert inch by inch and ever time I entered she complain of pain. Finally I inserted my 2ic fully into her ass. When I started to pump her, she begged me to stop as her shit almost come out. She told me that it is the same feeling of given birth.

I refused to take out my 2ic and pump her slowly and I could see her tear flowing. As I never try before, I cum faster than usual and shoot all my army into her asshole. I jokingly told her that she will not have constipation and she could shit easily. I love her more as she is the first in my life to have anal sex.

She continued to have dirty talk and she promised me that she will CIM and outdoor sex the next time round. We both agreed that we must enjoy out sex life and in different place and different style.

[cuntarow]

Originally Posted by RobinGL

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She is worried that we have no money for the abortion as both of us are broke.

Bro,

Seriously i think its time to reap what you sow. if you still believe in her feeling towards you. you must stop pumping in money and must seek alternative in making more money to refill your vault again than are you able to maintain your balance between her, your family and your job.

if she feels you are broke than lets her believe it so as in hard time those never walk out of you are those true hearted. but pls do be stupid enough to leave trail stating that it is a hoax.

if she still stand-by you and when your alternative source of income is steady and stable than maintain it this way no need to pump in extra. as you also won't be able to fill it up just excavating deeper and bigger only.

Congrats that your test shows negative but always remember even condom are only 99.99% safe and 1 out of the million is needed to do the trick so pls be wise.

you can only have a better stand of say if you are still in control of your financial. if not you will have no say at all.

lets be practical, as in regardless nationality and races you married or flings with, no ones like to stick with a povert.

play well and hopes things turn out better

[V|ernar]

Five year down the road , you will know everything is different . I already stop loving prc woman as I had see far too much . What you done , I had done it . What you haven't done , I too had done it .

I hope you wake up 1 fine day , it not easy to climb back but I believe one day you will .

Out of million might be 1 is good , I hope yours is blessed .

[superman128]

Originally Posted by mccormick

bro Superman.. i gotta agree with you somehow.. but we can't measure maturity with age ya?

Anyhow, I have stopped my flinging.. now i cherish my family more.. and jus like you.. i do watch porn now and SBF still my fav forum..

good on you.at least this world has one more person with commonsense and think with his big head not small head hidden in the jungle.

[V|ernar]

oh , i forget to tell you .. unprotected anal sex is more worst then anything ..

[GeMiNiZzzzZzz]

Originally Posted by V|ernar

oh , i forget to tell you .. unprotected anal sex is more worst then anything ..

That's why gay has a higher rate of infecting it

[RobinGL]

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One weekend, we drove to Sentosa and when we were at Palawan Beach, we discovered a secluded place and naughty idea came into my mind. I asked her whether we could try having outdoor sex and she agreed. She was wearing short at that time i and I stripped her. She wanted to give me blow job, while she was about to do it. She realized that I did not wash up and in the end we end with anything.

We stay at the beach drinking and enjoy the sea breeze. At that time, few customers of her call to date her out but too bad she rather spent time with me then the customer. Most customers when date her out will asked for sex but was rejected. Many only date her once as they know that they have no “Kang Tao”.

The only time we have outdoor sex was when I fetch her from work and it was raining heavily. I drove to Mount Faber and we have sex in my car. It was trill was our heart beat faster. We were not afraid of peeping tom as it was raining and the window was cover by the rain drop.

One day while I was driving she did oral sex on me. I drove extremely slow and I enjoyed that moment. Overtaking vehicle did not suspect anytime as the see no passenger beside me.

During the last two month, I was quite broke and she pay for the rental and also the money that she owe my friend. I have no money to pay for my car installment and she was afraid that my car will be towed away. She fork out the money and pay for it. She would keep a cash card with her and top up for me every time she see my cash card is low in value. Each time when she board my car she will check whether I have enough fuel.

I feel very bad for her to pay for everything. She also ensured that I must have at least two hundred in my wallet. With what she had done for me, I love her more.

She wanted me to shift out and she will share her room with another friend of her. These lighten her burden and I agreed. As my wife is overseas, I brought her home again and this time round my neighbor saw her. I do not know what will happen when my wife is back and I prepared for the worst to happen.

Currently both of us had been working very hard and I recently secure a project and company is making money. She wake up early and go for HH and SH. Although we seldom meet, she call me when she wake up, go to work, during her toilet break and when she reach home. We stop going to CASINO and both concentrate to earn more money.

I can see that our relationship glow deeper and deeper. ……….

[RobinGL]

Originally Posted by superman128

mccormick..
thanks for your honesty..
but i highly doubt so loving couple would do such thing. you have witnessed it before with your naked eyes. good on you. i have myself as well.
i do understand we live in world full of lies and evil shit, i dont deny that. but the logic comes down to how well one is not tempted by evil thoughts i.e. married dude goin out cheonging and looking for syt mei mei..
im married myself. with 4 kids believe it or not..
i do have the temptation. but i hold it strong to my will for that i believe:
1. the world is round. therefore wat goes ard comes ard.
2. wat if my wife is doing this to me. what if 15 years later my son is doing the same thing to others. wat if my daughter is the one kena 20 years later?

i still watch porn.i still surf sammyboy..but in the end for all i know im a married man.just face it. you cant live life like a 15 yearold cunt when your 35, you cant dress up like when your 20 when your well into your 60s. you see my point ? different responsibility steps in during each stage in life.

however, i do agree with you this is what your normal,typical sporean dude will react when face with such issue. becos that how the government has shaped things into everyones mind since young.

i left our wonderful island many years ago living abroad. and im glad that i do so..

ROBINGL bro isnt asking for advice, nor any suggestion...yeap yeap i get it.
then why did he refer to this matter as 'my current situation' if he just wanna share his side of stories ?

bro robin..you already know wat you want since the day 1 you started playin fire..so dont blame no one when shit happen in the end.
sorry my humble 2 c.

Bro,

I think at some point you have misread.
My wife and i are not loving at all. I have my reason to marry her. It another sad story but not short gun.
I look for mei mei but never develop feeling for the past 300 over gals who sit with me before for the past 9 years.
It good that you may not feel to temptation and i wish and hope it remain this way.
What goes around come around and i do accept the fate if thing work out this way.
You still watch prono and does it fall into temptation and what if 15 years down the road that the prono actor or actoress is someone you know. You are one of the demand and they why you have supply.

I respect you for maintaining your family and i know that it is not easy. No hard feeling, please.

[RobinGL]

Originally Posted by superman128

hey bro robin.
thanks for answering my questions.
well if thats the case...my advice to you.
1. pack your bags, open house door and leave.
2. find XY, fly somewhere n start new life. maybe back to mainland.
3. forget everything bout spore including your kids, since your wife sleeps diff room and as long as money comes in monthly, i assume its a broken home?

4. most importantly dont forget..shes a ktv girl.. who knows few years down the track the loop happens all over again and she then dump you? dont be naive.. this is not the 1940s where everyone is so pure and honest.

in the end, you can trust noone but yourself and just continue cheonging game as long as you want like hugh hefner. when you have the money n power who doesnt come to you? 5 years down the road..i doubt you will still have the same feeling for XY like you do now.one day you walk into a ktv and someone catch your eyes.......... there we go...same story will happen again..

get it ? so, you either pack your bags and fly away with XY or just finish paying debts and leave XY for your own life..

Bro Superman,

Thank for your advise and will bear that in mind.

Different people got different perspective. You may experience and see things which i could not experience or see before. Giving advise if easy but i rather make my own decision and blame myself if i make the wrong decision.

I still love my kid and XY too. XY know my problem and agreed that we solve the problem together. Pack and go leaving the problem behind is not what a father of four like you and so call a responsible guy will do. You might beg to difference.

I sense that you are irrtated for my doing and hope that you read my posting as a leisure than putting your emotion in it.

Thank for reading

[RobinGL]

Originally Posted by HauntedSex

Hi Bro Robin, it seems like this type of relationship problems had been repeated to many of our samsters here or others, including myself...
10 years back, I was married and fell in love with a Viet KTV gal like what you facing now... I was neither handsome nor rich but both love me deeply and I love both of them too. Lastly I made the decision to leave both of them to ease all party's painful 3 triangle relationship...

Now I'm happily remarried, refused to get myself another KC trap and spent all my time on my work, wife, parents and in-laws, also becoming richer and wiser now. Sometimes all you need is the courage to end all confused relationships to start off a new beginning... Cos there is not much time to ponder about everything as life is too short for us to pacify everyone... just my 2 cent worth, cheers.

Bro Hauntedsex,

I am happy for you that make the right decision. I agreed with you, life is short.

Originally Posted by callmebad

Yes, I get the message from RobinGL loud n clear !
Right now that I'm not in his situation and it will be very easy for me to be critical of what he did.
I think for all of us, we should look at what he did as a sort of 'mirror' and to learn from his mistakes so that if we happen to be drifting into this kind of situation, we should know how to 'step onto the brake fast' !
I feel sad to see him continuing in his way for the sake of his kids because cutting loose with his wife may cause some damage to his kids.

Bro Callmebad,

Yes, "step on the brake" if you are drifted into my situation.
Remember me when thing is about to happen on you.
Pay and Go is wise choice

Originally Posted by Dontdoit

Saw this PRC lady today keeps calling her Singaporean man laogong laogong, immediately link you to him.


Tio poison deep deep liao

Hahaha.........my gal sometime also call other on the phone for Lau Gong.
This can make them get more tips.
"Lau Gong" come with a price.

Originally Posted by hazardous77

Hi Robin bro,

Thanks for sharing your story here. I'm married and although I haven't got the urge to look for other girls, reading your story made me strongly believe do whatever you want outside, but don't bring home the shit. It sounds like a really messed up situation you're in right now, and I hope everything turns out fine for you.

IMHO, you should try to break off all contacts with her and concentrate on your family. Since you brought her to your house before, move out (tell the wife you want a change of environment) and change hp number lor. There's a chance next time she will have a change of heart, but your family won't

Bro Hazardous,

I might not be leaving XY. I am still thinking of the best solution without hurting my kids. As for wife it a gone case. Can anyone sleep seperate room with your wife for 9 nine years.

Originally Posted by donkeykong99

how can you be a millionaire when you are not even focused on your life with all the affairs dominating your daily time..

Dear Donkeykong,

I like your sentence. It wake me up. Thank

[picnic]

Bro Robin, I hope for yourself and XY sake, please stop going to ANY casino as this is the cause of all your cash problem, only then you can protect her and ensure a good life for you all.

[callmebad]

relationship glow deeper and deeper means your feet stuck deeper and deeper into the quicksand

how or what do you think the end game will be like?

[spidejep]

Deeper = More troublesome???
but seems ur enjoying ur time ler, except for the occasional guilty feeling for ur kids..
even tough i'm enjoying reading ur post, i feel sorry for you too. u r trap in the situation no body want to be involved [i'm talking abt the bad feeling of cheating ur family, not the sex ^^]. I'm hoping the best for you..
from what i feel, the story is not even close to end just yet isn't it??
Keep posting

[sin_2007]

My thoughts in this and this is just me.
Though I've not engaged in FB/FL and my first girlfriend is my wife, but, referring to information of this thread, http://sammyboy.online/showthread.php?t=258547 and assuming that sex will most likely be a declining activity. Wouldn't it fair to logically choose a partner whom had committed and made sacrifice than to bet on a relationship based on lust which will eventually diminish?