Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner - Page 1481

curious76 · #**22201** 30-01-2015, 03:38 PM

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Originally Posted by Hurricane88

why you envy...

you can too...if you go look for it...

bro d777 is playing the field...think he is trying to revenge on VBs by playing them...if his mentality is such then he too will get into trouble...remember any good or bad deed will end with karma...

I hope bro d777 is not doing such deed...^^

You plant the seed you have to bear the fruit

damong777 · #**22202** 30-01-2015, 04:18 PM

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Originally Posted by Hurricane88

why you envy...

you can too...if you go look for it...

bro d777 is playing the field...think he is trying to revenge on VBs by playing them...if his mentality is such then he too will get into trouble...remember any good or bad deed will end with karma...

I hope bro d777 is not doing such deed...^^

Walao...bro h88 did not thought u think so highly of me.

Never play field. Just understand their mentality more now and can relate to them. Never want harm them and dun make empty promises.

That why just told the gal the truth.

As for Casanova or not, dun think so. If I really want to be, then that is taking revenge on gals. But no point. What goes around does come around.

damong777 · #**22203** 30-01-2015, 04:20 PM

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Originally Posted by curious76

You plant the seed you have to bear the fruit

U reap what u sow....so dun need envy me one, actually only two gals I like. The third gal is just a fling. She knows it.

She knows I dun "love" her just like her company. She is aware. That is all cool.

As for the other 2, a bit more complex relationship. One is with me for 7 months and another for 1 month

curious76 · #**22204** 30-01-2015, 06:04 PM

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Originally Posted by damong777

U reap what u sow....so dun need envy me one, actually only two gals I like. The third gal is just a fling. She knows it.

She knows I dun "love" her just like her company. She is aware. That is all cool.

As for the other 2, a bit more complex relationship. One is with me for 7 months and another for 1 month

That's why I feel so unhappy.. The seed that I planted is evil. So the fruit it bears will be evil.

smallplayer · #**22205** 30-01-2015, 09:11 PM

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Originally Posted by curious76

That's why I feel so unhappy.. The seed that I planted is evil. So the fruit it bears will be evil.

We all have to live with consequences.
If only If only If only...they r just meant for movies.

But I'm sure u can see somethings good in it?

Hang in there bro

devilcheong · #**22206** 30-01-2015, 10:58 PM

Lately get to knows a few VB friends.. purely friends.. but when after introductions for the first time we met and following they will usually ask the same questions.. how old are you and do you have a wife? ... really so many VB are searching for eligible partners nowadays..
My answers now would be always ... yes.. I have a few wives

becks2307 · #**22207** 30-01-2015, 11:52 PM

Are they really that desperate??? will they be faithful to you??

smallplayer · #**22208** 31-01-2015, 01:21 AM

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Originally Posted by becks2307

Are they really that desperate??? will they be faithful to you??

Imho.. regardless of nationality have good and bad apple.
They r desperate to get Singapore ox.
Better life for them and their family back in vn.
Or so they think.

Have vb friend whose sg husband married but treated lIke slaves and can't help family back Home.
But overall they have a better shot then stay on in vn

damong777 · #**22209** 31-01-2015, 08:17 PM

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Originally Posted by becks2307

Are they really that desperate??? will they be faithful to you??

depends on what u want in the first place

Everyone hopes for a better life.

curious76 · #**22210** 31-01-2015, 09:31 PM

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Originally Posted by damong777

depends on what u want in the first place

Everyone hopes for a better life.

Hope is one thing.. You do not cheat or lie to get a better life.. Sigh sorry.. Too much bitterness

milfmilf · #**22211** 31-01-2015, 11:45 PM

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Originally Posted by curious76

Hope is one thing.. You do not cheat or lie to get a better life.. Sigh sorry.. Too much bitterness

maybe some bros can enlighten why the VB choose to go this way
any truth story from VB

curious76 · #**22212** 01-02-2015, 08:05 PM

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Originally Posted by milfmilf

maybe some bros can enlighten why the VB choose to go this way
any truth story from VB

anyone can share story of the consequences of those VB that go this way?

volcano · #**22213** 01-02-2015, 08:34 PM

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Originally Posted by becks2307

Are they really that desperate??? will they be faithful to you??

yes,for those that have a hard life staying in countryside and not for those ok to do staying in big cities

faithful???.....theres no definite answer..it does not only applies to VBs but is all women of any nationalities.

curious76 · #**22214** 01-02-2015, 08:45 PM

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Originally Posted by volcano

yes,for those that have a hard life staying in countryside and not for those ok to do staying in big cities

faithful???.....theres no definite answer..it does not only applies to VBs but is all women of any nationalities.

I can tell you there is no faithfulness when one is hungry.. haha.. But some VBs i will say is look for her own problem.. Like mine did..

damong777 · #**22215** 02-02-2015, 07:13 PM

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Originally Posted by curious76

I can tell you there is no faithfulness when one is hungry.. haha.. But some VBs i will say is look for her own problem.. Like mine did..

Honestly every gal would want to help the family to have a better live and themselves also a better life. If cannot find in native country, got foreigner to marry why not? Similarly, would you want the best for your family?

If you read the 1000 of pages before hand, family culture is strong in vn where bf or husband rank 3rd or last place depending on how many siblings they have. That is unless what some bro have done, "re-educate" their wives to a more rational or Singaporean way of thinking.

As to faithfulness or not, it is dependent on the nature of relationship one have in the first place and where it started. If it started in a ktv or disco, it start on the ground of $$$ chances of a good foundation is not there. Simple reason is just built on $$$. If you met the gal in a cafe in vn, then it could be again different. And slowly build the relationship up.

Before we condemn all vb for being unfaithful, can we be faithful first? If not, who are we to say they are not faithful. That why i say the question it depends on what you want from relationship and your commitment from it.

Bro Curious: Learn to let go and find a new gal in your life. Continued bitterness on it does not help. Trust me i been through what you went through and it took time to heal. Look where i am now. Learnt to be smarter and know what i want. If i cannot find, then change a new gal. Just an advice.