Any samsters will marry a working lady ?

[shark89]

Originally Posted by Peggie83

I having sleepless nights over all these

Then why are you still contemplating to allow her to work in a ktv after your marriage (if you decide to go ahead)?

[Peggie83]

Originally Posted by shark89

Then why are you still contemplating to allow her to work in a ktv after your marriage (if you decide to go ahead)?

One scenario:

I said NO she will still ROM with me and ask me to give her all my take home pay.
Then when I am working during office hours, she will sneak out to work in KTV during happy hours without my knowledge

[shark89]

Originally Posted by Peggie83

One scenario:

I said NO she will still ROM with me and ask me to give her all my take home pay.
Then when I am working during office hours, she will sneak out to work in KTV during happy hours without my knowledge

Then my humble advice is not to ROM with her since she is this kind of person. You can't trust her and she won't comply with your request.

[Peggie83]

Originally Posted by shark89

Then my humble advice is not to ROM with her since she is this kind of person. You can't trust her and she won't comply with your request.

Definitely, based on her past history I don't trust her. I have not ROM with her yet. Thanks

I know a few cheongsters who married KTV gals as wife. Their wifes also did not comply their requests.

[shark89]

Originally Posted by Peggie83

Definitely, based on her past history I don't trust her. I have not ROM with her yet. Thanks

I know a few cheongsters who married KTV gals as wife. Their wifes also did not comply their requests.

Bro, please don't misunderstand me. I am not saying you should not trust her because of her past history. If you love her, you should not mind her past. But trust is something mutual and has to be built up between you and her. That is something outsider like me cannot gauge.

So if you cannot accept her going to work in ktv after marriage, then I would say better not ROM with this girl.

[Peggie83]

Originally Posted by shark89

Bro, please don't misunderstand me. I am not saying you should not trust her because of her past history. If you love her, you should not mind her past. But trust is something mutual and has to be built up between you and her. That is something outsider like me cannot gauge.

So if you cannot accept her going to work in ktv after marriage, then I would say better not ROM with this girl.

Bro, I understand what you mean. I love her but cannot accept she still work KTV after marriage.

[howck001]

If u accept before marriage she can work for ktv the after marriage Also should be fine .. Does it make any difference ..?

[Peggie83]

Originally Posted by howck001

If u accept before marriage she can work for ktv the after marriage Also should be fine .. Does it make any difference ..?

Technically speaking it do make a difference, I won't bore down into that.

I like your siggys. I think I would change the sentences into 'citizens never support a weak political party'

[shark89]

Originally Posted by Peggie83

I love her but cannot accept she still work KTV after marriage.

I guess you have answered your own question liao.

[Peggie83]

Originally Posted by shark89

I guess you have answered your own question liao.

Ya, this type of thing need to be exclusive. I get jealous easily if my KTV gf play, joke or touch her customers

[sun814]

[QUOTE=Peggie83;5328020]I know that but my salary is not enough for both of us to survive and Chinese New Year period she also need to fly China give her parents $$$

Given HDB flats so expensive now probably I will rent a master bedroom that cost around $700 a month for us to stay if we get married.

In Singapore, land cost is so high also still need to feed a woman & her family.


i was in this situation before, but luckily for my ex-fl wife, her family do not have to really depend on her as i never heard of her remiting money back. i m still renting a 3 room apartment in geylang which costs $2,500 of which i partitioned a room in the living room for our daughter (from her previous marriage) n rent out the 2 room, in fact net i only pay $900 for use of 2 bedrooms, living room n kitchen. fortunately, just bought a 3-room flat, as it is almost in its original condition, she will fork out S$40,000 for the renovation. (haha, i didn't know she has so much savings , in fact she has at least 2 properties in china n she sold 1 for this purpose of renovation)

[johnhandsome]

love is love.. doesnt count what she is

[Sex4Love]

To marry or not to marry a working lady is a very personal choice.
But if you choose to marry, make sure you really don't mind her past.
In the case of any quarrel or conflict, make sure you don't bring up her past to ridicule her.
When you walk on the street with her, be prepared that she may bumps into some of her ex-clients who may harass her and makes you feel embarrassing.

Yes, I agree that marrying a working lady can have lots of complications. But marrying a normal woman isn't much better and without headache. Just look at the number of divorces and the huge amount of separation money they ask from the guys that can bankrupt them and the damage can be so much that you can't afford to remarry. When I look at these revengeful women who are out to 'kill' their ex-husbands financially, they look none better and not much difference than those working ladies.

Sextisfaction

[Peggie83]

[QUOTE=sun814;5330309]

Originally Posted by Peggie83

I know that but my salary is not enough for both of us to survive and Chinese New Year period she also need to fly China give her parents $$$

Given HDB flats so expensive now probably I will rent a master bedroom that cost around $700 a month for us to stay if we get married.

In Singapore, land cost is so high also still need to feed a woman & her family.


i was in this situation before, but luckily for my ex-fl wife, her family do not have to really depend on her as i never heard of her remiting money back. i m still renting a 3 room apartment in geylang which costs $2,500 of which i partitioned a room in the living room for our daughter (from her previous marriage) n rent out the 2 room, in fact net i only pay $900 for use of 2 bedrooms, living room n kitchen. fortunately, just bought a 3-room flat, as it is almost in its original condition, she will fork out S$40,000 for the renovation. (haha, i didn't know she has so much savings , in fact she has at least 2 properties in china n she sold 1 for this purpose of renovation)

Happy to hear that you married a good wife. In fact most PRC ladies I knew are quite well-off or cash-rich than us. Given that there is not many restriction by the Chinese government, an PRC citizen can easily buy 2 or 3 properties & repaying by loan instalments unlike here.
I think your wife is more a mature-thinking lady and I alway think PRC women is more practical than local women.

[naturegreen]

[QUOTE=Peggie83;5337241]

Originally Posted by sun814

and I alway think PRC women is more practical than local women.

In fact more brainy and street-smart as well.