Ever fall in love with a massage girl

[natchang]

I think this is surely an issue that a lot us face...

Physiologically, once we get physical, and the chemicals churn in our system, we have a tendency to have develop a stickiness with the girl

Recently, I also met an ML... but we met at a bar... she's been calling me out for drinks & the nights end well at a nearby place to stayover.

She has not called for me to support her monetarily or even patronised her at her shop... But I certainly feel that I am going down a slippery slope.

I am constantly telling myself to take caution and not to fall too deeply into her. Recently, got out of a long-term relationship with a girl from a ktv...

So perhaps I am also seeking a release with this current ML

[kagan]

Originally Posted by Jubic

No straightforward acceptance nor rejection. I just said I was willing to wait, but the stress is overwhelming, affecting my life.

I can understand how you are feeling. The anxiety of waiting for her response is very stressful.

Do you think there is a possibility that she will accept you? If she does, you still might not be at peace with yourself. She still has customers to meet everyday. The thought of her with her customers might make you more stressful.

If she rejects you, I think it could be a relief for you. It may be painful and hard to accept for the short term, but I believe you will move on soon.

[Jubic]

Originally Posted by kagan

I can understand how you are feeling. The anxiety of waiting for her response is very stressful.

Do you think there is a possibility that she will accept you? If she does, you still might not be at peace with yourself. She still has customers to meet everyday. The thought of her with her customers might make you more stressful.

If she rejects you, I think it could be a relief for you. It may be painful and hard to accept for the short term, but I believe you will move on soon.

She did not deny a possibility, but since she doesn’t give me a straightforward answer, and she still has to serve her customers. So I rather give myself a peace of mind instead of waiting for who knows how long this is gonna last. Every time I read an explicit FR about her, my mind goes crazy. I believe you know who I am talking about.

[Shadow_warrior]

wow there is a band of brothers here who have walked the journey I have walked.

Some day, we must sit down and exchange notes on how we handle this shit. We must.

should we start a drinking or tcss club to do so?

[Newbieshag]

Originally Posted by Shadow_warrior

wow there is a band of brothers here who have walked the journey I have walked.

Some day, we must sit down and exchange notes on how we handle this shit. We must.

should we start a drinking or tcss club to do so?

Lol good idea bro count me in. Who knows our exclusive ML is also others exclusive 🤣

[Jubic]

Originally Posted by Shadow_warrior

wow there is a band of brothers here who have walked the journey I have walked.

Some day, we must sit down and exchange notes on how we handle this shit. We must.

should we start a drinking or tcss club to do so?

TCSS online I’m ok. Don’t really like to mingle haha.

[stud79]

Originally Posted by Newbieshag

Bro you also kana “KC-ed” ?

What's KC-ed? So many lingos in here.

[Newbieshag]

Originally Posted by stud79

What's KC-ed? So many lingos in here.

KC -kam cheng , once Jana poison deep deep ☹️

[Shadow_warrior]

Originally Posted by Jubic

TCSS online I’m ok. Don’t really like to mingle haha.

sure. reaching out to the other bros who have been PMing me.

[Newsasap]

Most of the massage ladies lies to their regulars, today they with you and tomorrow they will meet another guy, this things goes round and round and becomes their routine, here are some tactics they used to cheat you.
Very common moves...
1) ask you to pay clocking fee saying she doesn't feel well, she also tell her regulars the same thing so she collected the money from few of the closest one.
2) buying bra and lingeries, she put on and show it to you, behind she also show her other regulars, but they always forgotten chiongster had chat group and share with other brothers and expose their doings.
3) buying ring and necklace, handbags, cosmetics, handphones they claim from you saying she is your darling, she said that to every closest regulars, if you ask her how much then most likely you are hooked.
4) medical checkup or medical consultation, she will pick the guy who care her the most, her best man to accompany her to the doctor.
Specialist consultant few hundred dollars per visit.
5) go for meal, she will date every one of them to build KC, fear the men will visit other ladies.

One common words they will tell you, your gifts will makes them looks gorgeous and you will feel proud walking together with her.

I share with you guys 1 experience back many years ago when I fell in love with a niteclub lady. I supported her for a few months drinking and paying liquors after 1 day I decided to test whether she is sincere to me. That is very near Chinese new year and I offered her to bring her out buying clothings, she goes round the shops grabbing the dress and ask me to pay at counter, I knew something not right and I ask her why she didn't try them out at fitting room. Her answered to me in Mandarin "我不能穿我姐妹也可以穿” she is a fucking bitch that I had to dump her the next moment. Long term it actually saves money knowing the relationship had to stop!

Note: if you go to boutique with her and it's quite ok if you like or love her, but if the lady takes money from you and she goes to the boutique herself then it's very high chances she also collect money from other regulars. This type of lady you had be be very careful.

[SEX11]

There is a ML a real boat hoping slut.
Telling me another guy that support her flyover
to stay with her for a week and asking me to
flyover to F her after her Carrot fly back.
Though she honest to me but with her character like tis simply
not trustworthy.

[tanman]

Dont worry, she will just shrug you off and say ok whos next. ? You are just another in the midst of a jungle.

Originally Posted by Jubic

No straightforward acceptance nor rejection. I just said I was willing to wait, but the stress is overwhelming, affecting my life.

[tanman]

Lucky me, i avoided all these except i buy two victoria secrets thats all. Be level headed, think think think before one dive in. 🤣

Originally Posted by Newsasap

Most of the massage ladies lies to their regulars, today they with you and tomorrow they will meet another guy, this things goes round and round and becomes their routine, here are some tactics they used to cheat you.
Very common moves...
1) ask you to pay clocking fee saying she doesn't feel well, she also tell her regulars the same thing so she collected the money from few of the closest one.
2) buying bra and lingeries, she put on and show it to you, behind she also show her other regulars, but they always forgotten chiongster had chat group and share with other brothers and expose their doings.
3) buying ring and necklace, handbags, cosmetics, handphones they claim from you saying she is your darling, she said that to every closest regulars, if you ask her how much then most likely you are hooked.
4) medical checkup or medical consultation, she will pick the guy who care her the most, her best man to accompany her to the doctor.
Specialist consultant few hundred dollars per visit.
5) go for meal, she will date every one of them to build KC, fear the men will visit other ladies.

One common words they will tell you, your gifts will makes them looks gorgeous and you will feel proud walking together with her.

I share with you guys 1 experience back many years ago when I fell in love with a niteclub lady. I supported her for a few months drinking and paying liquors after 1 day I decided to test whether she is sincere to me. That is very near Chinese new year and I offered her to bring her out buying clothings, she goes round the shops grabbing the dress and ask me to pay at counter, I knew something not right and I ask her why she didn't try them out at fitting room. Her answered to me in Mandarin "我不能穿我姐妹也可以穿” she is a fucking bitch that I had to dump her the next moment. Long term it actually saves money knowing the relationship had to stop!

Note: if you go to boutique with her and it's quite ok if you like or love her, but if the lady takes money from you and she goes to the boutique herself then it's very high chances she also collect money from other regulars. This type of lady you had be be very careful.

[Jubic]

Originally Posted by tanman

Dont worry, she will just shrug you off and say ok whos next. ? You are just another in the midst of a jungle.

Yup she’s already doing that.

[mrfool]

Originally Posted by Shadow_warrior

wow there is a band of brothers here who have walked the journey I have walked.

Some day, we must sit down and exchange notes on how we handle this shit. We must.

should we start a drinking or tcss club to do so?

Would like to. But I'm on probation now, can't come up with a good excuse and need to report in from time to time. 😂