I don't think you understand her point of view. She started off by saying she admires this couple. Wife is pretty with good career. Husband is a loving father with an alright career. Subconsciously, she knows the wife may be better than her in terms of looks and career. If the wife is ugly and is a housewife, then winning the husband over is much lesser of a 'victory'. It is like 'What's up bitch? Perfect family to others so what? Pretty and successful so what? Your man still end up choosing me over you. It is an emotional victory. Top of the world feeling.
Whether he subsequently lied, act pitiful is not as important as the points listed in the above paragraph. That he is a good guy/father just makes the affair easier to accept for Sister Blackenrose. I think she understands the risk of having the affair exposed or having the possibility of him dumping her after a while. But right now, he chose her and that is all that matters for now. As long as he continues to choose her, she is still DESIRED and WANTED. The emotional victory over the pretty, successful wife continues.
You are using logical thinking to assess an emotional decision. It doesn't work that way. Even if there is no happily ever after ending, the memory is still one of emotional victory. I wonder if Sister Blackenrose will agree with my analysis.
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Totally agree! You read my mind
In order to read your mind, I have to analyse your avatar very closely for a few days you know? Just kidding.
Did you set a limit of what you dare to do or will you just let Fate decide? Some ladies may want the wife to know so that there is greater emotional victory. But if you have common friends or colleagues, there will be a backlash against you as the 3rd party. The backlash may be greater if the couple is seen as a model couple in your social circle. At the end of the day, only you can protect yourself best.
Many China/Taiwanese ladies will want the wife to know if she is a Singaporean. Because the Singaporean woman mentality is to feel victimised, stupidly give up and ask for divorce. Then the China/Taiwanese lady will come in to fill the gap. If the wife is a fellow China/Taiwanese lady, she may fight back and drive the other party away. I think many Singaporean guys may be surprised to read what I typed. Typically, our guys think when they have an affair, they can prevent others from knowing. But what they did not expect is that the 3rd party woman is the person who wants to expose the affair and let the wife know.
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Originally Posted by Xgenre
I don't think you understand her point of view. She started off by saying she admires this couple. Wife is pretty with good career. Husband is a loving father with an alright career. Subconsciously, she knows the wife may be better than her in terms of looks and career. If the wife is ugly and is a housewife, then winning the husband over is much lesser of a 'victory'. It is like 'What's up bitch? Perfect family to others so what? Pretty and successful so what? Your man still end up choosing me over you. It is an emotional victory. Top of the world feeling.
Whether he subsequently lied, act pitiful is not as important as the points listed in the above paragraph. That he is a good guy/father just makes the affair easier to accept for Sister Blackenrose. I think she understands the risk of having the affair exposed or having the possibility of him dumping her after a while. But right now, he chose her and that is all that matters for now. As long as he continues to choose her, she is still DESIRED and WANTED. The emotional victory over the pretty, successful wife continues.
You are using logical thinking to assess an emotional decision. It doesn't work that way. Even if there is no happily ever after ending, the memory is still one of emotional victory. I wonder if Sister Blackenrose will agree with my analysis.
Can be a script for next Mediacock drama.
Better than Kin or Faculty.
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Originally Posted by Xgenre
I don't think you understand her point of view. She started off by saying she admires this couple. Wife is pretty with good career. Husband is a loving father with an alright career. Subconsciously, she knows the wife may be better than her in terms of looks and career. If the wife is ugly and is a housewife, then winning the husband over is much lesser of a 'victory'. It is like 'What's up bitch? Perfect family to others so what? Pretty and successful so what? Your man still end up choosing me over you. It is an emotional victory. Top of the world feeling.
Whether he subsequently lied, act pitiful is not as important as the points listed in the above paragraph. That he is a good guy/father just makes the affair easier to accept for Sister Blackenrose. I think she understands the risk of having the affair exposed or having the possibility of him dumping her after a while. But right now, he chose her and that is all that matters for now. As long as he continues to choose her, she is still DESIRED and WANTED. The emotional victory over the pretty, successful wife continues.
You are using logical thinking to assess an emotional decision. It doesn't work that way. Even if there is no happily ever after ending, the memory is still one of emotional victory. I wonder if Sister Blackenrose will agree with my analysis.
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Originally Posted by rey69
Can be a script for next Mediacock drama.
Better than Kin or Faculty.
Yes, agree...Extremely well written by bro Xgenre to sis Blackenrose..kudos to him ...esp like those 2 words he put in CAPITAL letters
In order to read your mind, I have to analyse your avatar very closely for a few days you know? Just kidding.
Did you set a limit of what you dare to do or will you just let Fate decide? Some ladies may want the wife to know so that there is greater emotional victory. But if you have common friends or colleagues, there will be a backlash against you as the 3rd party. The backlash may be greater if the couple is seen as a model couple in your social circle. At the end of the day, only you can protect yourself best.
Many China/Taiwanese ladies will want the wife to know if she is a Singaporean. Because the Singaporean woman mentality is to feel victimised, stupidly give up and ask for divorce. Then the China/Taiwanese lady will come in to fill the gap. If the wife is a fellow China/Taiwanese lady, she may fight back and drive the other party away. I think many Singaporean guys may be surprised to read what I typed. Typically, our guys think when they have an affair, they can prevent others from knowing. But what they did not expect is that the 3rd party woman is the person who wants to expose the affair and let the wife know.
Not really let fate be, like what you’d mentioned, it’s just an emotional victory, and is good enough for me ya. I don’t have any expectation from this ‘relationship’ with him, proly just that few times for the moments of lust & the fun of teasing him a bit, lol, he is not really my type. A nice guy, still in constant denial that he lusts for me in our daily whatsapp msgs, but while making out, will always ask him ‘比xxx爽吗？你要我吗？‘ well… the replies..
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Sis,
At least you know we men are horny bastard.
Good for you to know the limits.
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Not really let fate be, like what you’d mentioned, it’s just an emotional victory, and is good enough for me ya. I don’t have any expectation from this ‘relationship’ with him, proly just that few times for the moments of lust & the fun of teasing him a bit, lol, he is not really my type. A nice guy, still in constant denial that he lusts for me in our daily whatsapp msgs, but while making out, will always ask him ‘比xxx爽吗？你要我吗？‘ well… the replies..
Re: Anyone u sex with before that u never thought of....
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Originally Posted by Xgenre
I don't think you understand her point of view. She started off by saying she admires this couple. Wife is pretty with good career. Husband is a loving father with an alright career. Subconsciously, she knows the wife may be better than her in terms of looks and career. If the wife is ugly and is a housewife, then winning the husband over is much lesser of a 'victory'. It is like 'What's up bitch? Perfect family to others so what? Pretty and successful so what? Your man still end up choosing me over you. It is an emotional victory. Top of the world feeling.
Whether he subsequently lied, act pitiful is not as important as the points listed in the above paragraph. That he is a good guy/father just makes the affair easier to accept for Sister Blackenrose. I think she understands the risk of having the affair exposed or having the possibility of him dumping her after a while. But right now, he chose her and that is all that matters for now. As long as he continues to choose her, she is still DESIRED and WANTED. The emotional victory over the pretty, successful wife continues.
You are using logical thinking to assess an emotional decision. It doesn't work that way. Even if there is no happily ever after ending, the memory is still one of emotional victory. I wonder if Sister Blackenrose will agree with my analysis.
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Originally Posted by Xgenre
In order to read your mind, I have to analyse your avatar very closely for a few days you know? Just kidding.
Did you set a limit of what you dare to do or will you just let Fate decide? Some ladies may want the wife to know so that there is greater emotional victory. But if you have common friends or colleagues, there will be a backlash against you as the 3rd party. The backlash may be greater if the couple is seen as a model couple in your social circle. At the end of the day, only you can protect yourself best.
Many China/Taiwanese ladies will want the wife to know if she is a Singaporean. Because the Singaporean woman mentality is to feel victimised, stupidly give up and ask for divorce. Then the China/Taiwanese lady will come in to fill the gap. If the wife is a fellow China/Taiwanese lady, she may fight back and drive the other party away. I think many Singaporean guys may be surprised to read what I typed. Typically, our guys think when they have an affair, they can prevent others from knowing. But what they did not expect is that the 3rd party woman is the person who wants to expose the affair and let the wife know.
Very well-thought analysis and nicely written... especially when you wrote about using logical thinking to assess emotional decision.
My sincere 16 green apples to you, bro Xgenre
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Originally Posted by Blackenrose
Not really let fate be, like what you’d mentioned, it’s just an emotional victory, and is good enough for me ya. I don’t have any expectation from this ‘relationship’ with him, proly just that few times for the moments of lust & the fun of teasing him a bit, lol, he is not really my type. A nice guy, still in constant denial that he lusts for me in our daily whatsapp msgs, but while making out, will always ask him ‘比xxx爽吗？你要我吗？‘ well… the replies..
Like wat u said here babe ...thank u for giving us your honest opinion n feelings of yr r/s with him...that it is just lust not love when u r having sex with him...but still wonder can there be a desire for sex (lust) with someone if there is no love for the guy at all, if it is not just an ONS ??? ...there certainly must be some kinda love feelings for him imho if i m not wrong
25-10-2020, 09:53 PM
Just kidding.
...there certainly must be some kinda love feelings for him imho if i m not wrong 
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