Count Down 2025 with My Ex GF lol

[Xgenre]

Originally Posted by Xgenre

She sounds like a really nice girl who trusts you and loves you. What's so fantastic about pumping and dumping a girl like that?

Morning no time to explain myself clearly. Guys use love to get sex. Girls use sex to get love. That's been happening for a long time. Exactly what is happening now. She asked why you are doing this and you lied she's the best woman ever for you and then sex happens.

There's this question of who loves who more in a relationship. When you are older, you may realise it's a better idea to have a woman love you more than you love her. The marriage may be more bearable in such a combination. She sounds like a nice girl. Boring maybe but good mum material to your kids potentially. Some of these nerdy ladies age really well.

As for pump and dump, many guys I know do it as an ego booster where they feel so powerful and attractive at that very moment. Then what? They go back to visiting FL or masterbating at home to downloaded porn. Pump and dump isn't better than being with this introverted lady. At least you aren't paying for sex and at least you are not shaking yourself to orgasm.

[sbwow]

Originally Posted by Xgenre

Morning no time to explain myself clearly. Guys use love to get sex. Girls use sex to get love. That's been happening for a long time. Exactly what is happening now. She asked why you are doing this and you lied she's the best woman ever for you and then sex happens.

There's this question of who loves who more in a relationship. When you are older, you may realise it's a better idea to have a woman love you more than you love her. The marriage may be more bearable in such a combination. She sounds like a nice girl. Boring maybe but good mum material to your kids potentially. Some of these nerdy ladies age really well.

As for pump and dump, many guys I know do it as an ego booster where they feel so powerful and attractive at that very moment. Then what? They go back to visiting FL or masterbating at home to downloaded porn. Pump and dump isn't better than being with this introverted lady. At least you aren't paying for sex and at least you are not shaking yourself to orgasm.

For all you know, that future Father-in-law might be giving him a hard time.
Hence, he did a revenge by pump and dump. HAHAHA.
Let the Father-in-law take up the responsibility of rearing his kid. HAHAHA.

[Rancidran]

Wah bro she sounds like a decent girl, I would feel bad in your shoes too. Best to clear the air and manage expectations on both sides

[Piledriver]

Originally Posted by lync9627

She didn’t reply after that. Lol, I feel so bad now!!

Why do you need to feel bad about this whole episode? Its just 2 consenting adults having some good sex. There's nothing bad about it.

In fact, your ex gf should thank you for giving her some love when she needed it.

[itguy2008]

Originally Posted by lync9627

Yesterday, I did something really really bad. I had broken up with my ex girlfriend for almost 3 months now, but we still kept in touch.

I was horny and I didn’t want to spend the night alone. I decided to try my luck and invited her to join me for New Year's Eve since I knew she probably wouldn't have any plans. Yes, she is an introvert.

And since we share a lot of the same friends, so I made her think it was just a group thing. She agreed! We met at a restaurant, and halfway through our meal, I think she realised it was just the two of us. She seemed a bit uncomfortable but we finished dinner.

She mentioned her initial plan was just to watch "Squid Game 2”, so I suggested we go back to my place to watch it on my new TV. She didn’t say no, so we went. I tried to pay for dinner, but she insisted on splitting the bill.

Back at my place, we watched the show. I made some cocktails, and as we got a bit tipsy, I started getting closer, putting my arm around her waist. I even tried touching and grabbing her breasts.

She asked why I was doing this when I was the one who ended our relationship. I freaking lied and I told her I regretted my decision, that she was the best woman I've met, and I wanted to try again.

She actually started crying. I felt so bad, but I still carried on undressing her…and funny thing was she was already wet when I starter fingering her.

I was so focused on initiating the sex that she had to get a tissue by herself to wipe off the tears. I just spread her legs and put it in.

She didn’t even protest when I just fucked her without any condom on. She hugged me, her legs wrapped around my waist, and she uttered things like she actually misses me or something. I couldn’t remember exactly what she said because I was actually doing multiplication in my head to delay my ejaculation.

When I almost ejaculated, she still knew what to do! She just prepared herself, closed her eyes, tidied up her bangs and hair, and let me cum on her face as I usually did in the past.

I somehow got the feeling she thought we were back together, because of the way she talked to me later on that night.

She gave me handjob and blowjob that night.

She only left in the morning today. Then just now, she texted me asking if we could have lunch or dinner.

I told her we still have to work tomorrow, so maybe not.

She didn’t reply after that. Lol, I feel so bad now!!

Don't write her off yet. You may need her again during Chinese New Year. hahaha.

[fwchong]

at least this bro got a conscious. Up 21pts for his honesty.

[AppleInt]

Hoping for more encounters

[rbang]

Originally Posted by omg888

You are gonna become a cockroach in your next life.

Agree too! Quite a dick move by OP

[84gunner]

Originally Posted by Xgenre

There's this question of who loves who more in a relationship. When you are older, you may realise it's a better idea to have a woman love you more than you love her. The marriage may be more bearable in such a combination. She sounds like a nice girl. Boring maybe but good mum material to your kids potentially. Some of these nerdy ladies age really well.

As for pump and dump, many guys I know do it as an ego booster where they feel so powerful and attractive at that very moment. Then what? They go back to visiting FL or masterbating at home to downloaded porn.

Agree. 被爱比爱人幸福.

During younger days, many guys, me included, when like or chasing a gal, willing to do many things for her, just to attract her, hope she likes u too.

But if she doesn't like u, most of yr efforts will go down the drain. Worse, she take u for granted, take u for a fool, even cheat u. All the time, efforts, money u put in, go down the drain. Not to mention feeling down / negative.

But life experience has taught me that the other way around, I feel more happiness. Having someone who truly loves me, she is willing to do almost anything so that I am happy. When she see that I am happy, she's also happy. When I'm down, she consoles me, encourages me to move on.

[sbwow]

Originally Posted by 84gunner

Agree. 被爱比爱人幸福.

During younger days, many guys, me included, when like or chasing a gal, willing to do many things for her, just to attract her, hope she likes u too.

But if she doesn't like u, most of yr efforts will go down the drain. Worse, she take u for granted, take u for a fool, even cheat u. All the time, efforts, money u put in, go down the drain. Not to mention feeling down / negative.

But life experience has taught me that the other way around, I feel more happiness. Having someone who truly loves me, she is willing to do almost anything so that I am happy. When she see that I am happy, she's also happy. When I'm down, she consoles me, encourages me to move on.

I spotted a lot of fools last time, girl treats him like a piece of trash and he still puts in the effort to do more and more. HAHAHA.
The more he does, the trashier he looks. HAHAHA.
Thankless job without any profit-making, much fitted for a loser. HAHAHA.

[84gunner]

Originally Posted by sbwow

I spotted a lot of fools last time, girl treats him like a piece of trash and he still puts in the effort to do more and more. HAHAHA.
The more he does, the trashier he looks. HAHAHA.
Thankless job without any profit-making, much fitted for a loser. HAHAHA.

I have moved beyond the phase of how I look, face or no face.

I don't care how others look at me. More important is I know what I'm doing, what I want, and my spouse supporting me in whatever I do.

One can't satisfy everyone in the whole world. Whatever u say or do, there'll always be someone who disagree. So why bother about what others say?

I live a life of my own, not living for others' mouths (words).

[sbwow]

Originally Posted by 84gunner

I have moved beyond the phase of how I look, face or no face.

I don't care how others look at me. More important is I know what I'm doing, what I want, and my spouse supporting me in whatever I do.

One can't satisfy everyone in the whole world. Whatever u say or do, there'll always be someone who disagree. So why bother about what others say?

I live a life of my own, not living for others' mouths (words).

Nah, you are still sore about how those SG gals treated you and disrespected you previously. You wanted them to look up to you but couldn't at your prime. HAHAHA.
You can still travel to SG and fuck those SG gals brains out. HAHAHA.