How do you guys deal with Perimenopause wives??? big headache, no sex no appreciation

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Originally Posted by Spymaster2

Hi bro,
Read your candid sharing. My wife is currently going through perimenopause and it’s not fun for me and my 2 kids I tell you. But at least my wife knows she is going thru that and not in denial. But even before this, the sex has stopped right after my second kid was born and it has been many many years since the dry spell started. Thank god there are so many MLs around to keep me balanced and sane hahaha.
I can totally relate to your no love/appreciation situation. Had so many major arguments with her and things just cannot be patched up but going downhill. If not for my kids I would have divorced her already so that I can be happier living my own life.

Hi Bro,

Thank you for sharing as well. Appreciate the support

Like you, if not for my kid, would have divorced liao .

but seeing my kids happy is top priority now, at the expense of my own ..