Matters in my heart.... - Page 2

fee3fow · #16 03-02-2009, 03:54 PM

Congratulations TS but as Bro gambit88 point out, dun rush into things and take it one step at a time. Hope things will work out for the both of you

yy0202 · #17 03-02-2009, 07:24 PM

thanks for all suggestion and pointers all bros state out, as bro gambit88 point out, i will treat it like a driving lesson.. 1 step at a time... something that look impossible happen in my life at this time, i will certainly cherish it...

HCKing · #18 03-02-2009, 08:20 PM

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Originally Posted by yy0202

thanks for all suggestion and pointers all bros state out, as bro gambit88 point out, i will treat it like a driving lesson.. 1 step at a time... something that look impossible happen in my life at this time, i will certainly cherish it...

yes bro, one step at a time, dont put too much feelings in the beginning, let nature takes its course, give both of u a probation period to see if both of u r compactible to one another. if she is yours she will be yours.

aakumu · #19 03-02-2009, 08:46 PM

Hi bro,
If you are rusty, you should start slow, and go from there.
Girls have a good sense of where you are coming from, if youa are not sure about how she feels ask her, if you do not know how you feels that another story.
8 years is a long time to be empty, could it be you are in need of a ...............?
Anyway, go with the flow.
Best of luck.

My humble two cents.

yy0202 · #20 10-02-2009, 07:48 PM

hi bros,

its been a while since my last post, had an hectic week, lots of bad things happen, eg.. had a competitor who is close fren of mine, had lots of argument with her and she even do a "test" on me to see if i truthly like her..... so much things happen.... felt veri betrayed but luckily me & her went through the obstacle w/o much problem maybe due to that she like me 1st... realised that real face to face comunication works veri well for me here, its abit difficult due to diff culture background, but we both put in the effort to understand each other to overcome everyhthing

she ask me to go with her on a trip oversea next month... not much prob... just the Val day get me worried, overspending and gambling over cny had make me broke... mayb will jus make a Vday card and flower bah... we both working on that day... no chance to celebrate.... wonder how bros here are like me? prep for Vday with a super tight budget... can share share?

HCKing · #21 10-02-2009, 07:54 PM

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Originally Posted by yy0202

she ask me to go with her on a trip oversea next month... not much prob... just the Val day get me worried, overspending and gambling over cny had make me broke... mayb will jus make a Vday card and flower bah... we both working on that day... no chance to celebrate.... wonder how bros here are like me? prep for Vday with a super tight budget... can share share?

budget celebration? if u knw hw to cook can try cook some dishes 4 the 2 of u, or do some handmade present 4 her, if going overseas can go somewhere with beach and have a simple picnic there, most importantly, do something that is special 4 her, doesnt necessary need to spend alot of $$ to touch yr gf. its the heart that counts.

leecs · #22 10-02-2009, 08:24 PM

Im really happy for you. Do get to know her more before taking the plunge like me. Cheers!!!

colins · #23 12-02-2009, 12:20 AM

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Originally Posted by yy0202

she ask me to go with her on a trip oversea next month... not much prob... just the Val day get me worried, overspending and gambling over cny had make me broke... mayb will jus make a Vday card and flower bah... we both working on that day... no chance to celebrate.... wonder how bros here are like me? prep for Vday with a super tight budget... can share share?

Use a blank piece of paper from the photocopier, write in small letters

"will you be my girlfriend today?
#1 - Yes
#2 - Only if you send me home"

fold it into half and put it on her table. Since you both working, just offer to send her home from work. The rest up to you ah.

yy0202 · #24 17-02-2009, 07:46 PM

got some roses to sent to her workplace at val day, she was happy and our relationship has improved... we do what normal couples do like holding hands, kisses except for sex...

any bros here can help me out, im going bangkok wif her next month, but both of us never being there before, can bros here suggests any nice hotels (budget around 60 SGD per night)... any place can visit? going on a weekend,...

Pikadrian83 · #25 25-03-2015, 01:28 AM

Bro if it's true love, then you must ask her few more times

archer69 · #26 31-03-2015, 10:53 PM

The last post is 2009. TS any updates?