My friend sibei CHUM

[macrotouch]

Originally Posted by ekemono

Your friend must learn to love and respect himself more, otherwise one of these days when he hit the last straw, all hell break loose.

Anyway, was it some incident of betrayal that causes the gal to be so paranoid?

I really dun know if the gal truely likes him or wanted to gain something out of him, but regardless when we are an item with someone, we must feel complete, instead of being torn into pieces even more.

Get you friend to delay the ROM and tell her marriage is a life time matter and better for both to take time to understand each other, and regain the trust with each other. This will help the relationship and/or reveal any hidden agenda

My freiend is a cheongster. But no more. The thai ger knew that long ago. It's like absolutely no trust in him. I start think, if no trust why she still stick with him? I have heard of abusive husband and less of abusive wives. I think if get married, my friend may get abused just by looking at things now. For his character is those type quiet quiet lan lan kenna abused type.

I think he loves her. But to what extent, I don't know. However I think no matter how much you love her, there is only so much one should take. Today she can close up his friendship circle, one day she can close up his family circle making his whole world revolve only her and her alone

[mike1304k]

I canot comment whether S's fren s chum or not because it is up to him mah. Let me just say that it is not because the Thai ger is different or wat. My ex was alo the same man. No calls to or from other char bor, no sms, have to pick her up in morning to send her to work and den pick her up to bring her to dinner after work. No porn... kenna caught... oso kenna scolded... And she as a normal local girl.

My experience wif Thai, very protective, but also considerate. They know we cheong, but lan lan... before we eat, they clean our plates and forks and spoons. This was so for both normal and some WL. So I guess that you cannot say which is wat lah... Just that he was unlucky to find someone who is a bit more controlling.

The next question is whether he can accept that or not. Doesn't matter if she is WL or normal. Whether he wants to be controlled or not. Further to this, as you mentioned, she is insecure, so it is up to your fren to make her believe him. You are also worried and perhaps sore because you may have "lost" fren. But for me, if I were in the same situation, I'd accept the lady, help your fren to make her feel secure. Once she trusts you and him, the world is your oyster. It was the same with my fren too. His wife was scared that he was not serious with her in the beginning and he was also insecure. But in the end, both worked things out well.

[pussyman72]

what so chum about ur friend if he choose to be like that... so long he song song what u said doesnt mean anything to him then what his ger said to him

he kanna tom yum koon liao lar poison too much till he cannot even remember his surname.....

as i always said To each his own..... it takes 2 hands to clap just dont come running back n cry can liao

[norigo77]

Originally Posted by mike1304k

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The next question is whether he can accept that or not. Doesn't matter if she is WL or normal. Whether he wants to be controlled or not. Further to this, as you mentioned, she is insecure, so it is up to your fren to make her believe him. You are also worried and perhaps sore because you may have "lost" fren. But for me, if I were in the same situation, I'd accept the lady, help your fren to make her feel secure. Once she trusts you and him, the world is your oyster. It was the same with my fren too. His wife was scared that he was not serious with her in the beginning and he was also insecure. But in the end, both worked things out well.

That's a good advice. The best way to handle a control freak or emotionally insecure woman is to gain trust asap. If not life will be hell. Either accept it and work on trust building, or move on.

[yongzhen]

Originally Posted by lcbguy

After he is married he'll be more "chum".No offence but the way I see it,divorce will set in and his fortune has to be split up with the gal.Such type of so-called relationship will not last,trust me.

100% true!
Mayb soon, mayb later.
Since u r on the way of losing a friend.
Y not just b a real true friend and tell him how u feel?
But in a nice way.

[Jarko]

heng ar.. i been with my thai gf for 7 years liao. but so far she onli nag if i go chiong. thats y she hand me credit card when i go out so she can noe my locations. but i more clever den her la.spare cash always around.

[Tai_zi21]

Just wondering how long ur friend can tahan?

Till the time he buay tahan,i guess dun say married la... maybe break 1st before getting married liao

[macrotouch]

Originally Posted by Tai_zi21

Just wondering how long ur friend can tahan?

Till the time he buay tahan,i guess dun say married la... maybe break 1st before getting married liao

Oh, she has access to his email account. Handphone numbers, and tell off the ex-gfs not to contact him any longer. Possesiveness is 1 thing, but I wonder can such a relationship stay long. I thought that was it, now she can even use him to tell me off and use his handphone to sms me.

[HornyBonk69]

Originally Posted by macrotouch

The thai ger's good friend ever tell us, this thai ger is very insecure to those she love. In her world she wants her boyfriend only to have her and no one else. Because of this conversation between the thai ger's good friend and me, this thai ger tell my friend to give me a call.

My friend on the phone tell me to not get involved in their relationship. I feel so weird. It was just a normal plain conversation, I also never say anything bad about the thai ger. From the conversation with him, I find it very weird. This friend never talk like this. I suspect his thai gerfren is beside him and want him make that phone call to me. True enough, in 10 minustes, she use his handphone and send me an sms tell me not to kaypo. WTF is this.

I damn hot, send her an sms tell her that her boyfriend may be scared of her, but I am not her boyfriend, neither am I scared of her. I give my friend face, never fuck her vulgar on the sms. This really shows an utter lack of respect for my friend. How many of you will let your wife/gf use your phone and sms his friend and scold him?

For my opinion this kind of bitch sure must give her a gd solid fxxx then she will wake up her fxxking idea!Even if your fr don't understand also 'bo bian' liao..Remember once my fr got this kind of experince too just after 2 months ROM!But lucky he still sober enough to ask her leave.

[sammyboyfor]

Originally Posted by macrotouch

Everytime they quarrel, it is a known secret that 1 week 7 days, 3 days good, 4 days quarrel. They are not yet married but in the process.

Will you guys marry such a ger?

Your friend is a moron.

[AhLunn]

If this is my gf i sure will ask her go away!

[Royster79]

this type of r/s will definately no last... sooner or later, the guy will try to break free from all these nonsense...

[LostALau]

Originally Posted by Jarko

heng ar.. i been with my thai gf for 7 years liao. but so far she onli nag if i go chiong. thats y she hand me credit card when i go out so she can noe my locations. but i more clever den her la.spare cash always around.

Haha, so it is a case of 'you know how to lock me in, I know how to bore a hole.' (to get out)

[meder]

Dun worry, yr friend will break off with him very fast

[HCKing]

Originally Posted by Royster79

this type of r/s will definately no last... sooner or later, the guy will try to break free from all these nonsense...

maybe becos the gf is pretty and sexy, wait till another prettier and hornier babe comes along maybe the guy will start thinking of running off liao.