Opinions please?

[xxFTOxx]

Originally Posted by happycarrot

Hello. My bf has always been interested in trying a 3some/trying someone new as it will be much more fun and exciting. But i dnt really like the idea of him fucking someone he knows as things can get quite problematic in the future. Im thinking of engaging a FL for him as his birthday is coming.

But im worried that he will continually want to experience new girl after this even thou he say he just want to try once. Cos i just want this to be a surprise birthday present one time event and not become a continuing affair.

Should i engage or not? Will he keep asking for more and be less interested in me alr? And how will his impression of me change?

Fellow bros please advice, i dnt want to regret.

Thanks and huggies!!!

Well the most important question is how will both of u feel when the deed is done. its quite easy to say 'yeah lets do it. Its just once and for my bf cuz I love him alot yaddah yaddah'. Opinions will change and once he's tried the forbidden fruit will he want more?? My ex wanted the exact same thing for me for my 21st. And she got the idea from Cleo mag last time...we thought abt it, discussed it and stuff but in the end I decided against it (much to my regret ). Yeah but at the end of the day will u be comfortable with it? Or will u feel neglected if he decides to show more attention to the FL than u during the session? Remember once its done and your bf has that sexperience there will be friction in the relationship and arguements will always lead back to wat happened 'that nite'.

I've already had a threesome with my FB and her fren and even as much as I love my current bf and telling myself always try something wild at least once in my life, my thoughts freq go back to wat happened tat nite...how satisfying it was and if there was a remote chance I might wanna try it again. Think thru it properly taking into account both u and ur bf's character cuz once its done there is no turning back. Or maybe after marriage then u might wanna consider it once both of u have a more matured relationship and openess abt sex.

[outside]

May be he is "fooling" around already, and if he kena caught, he will put the "blame" on you for allowing him to do that.

Maybe you should "dump" him and get to know us..

[xxFTOxx]

Originally Posted by sexcalculator99

It's like a taboo thing, it's there. Every male species wants it. Some does it in the end, some just remain fantasy.

Giving a yes to go ahead invites future request. If you say no that time, it could be a problem. ( you get what I mean)

If you enjoy and also fantasize about it, go ahead. Otherwise think of how to say no in future.

On a side note, if you don't enjoy it, no actions from your end while he's fuckjng another gal, then you take over the second round after he's done with the fl. It's no different from a normal sex, just 2 different person after another.

2 cents.

Lol got differencce...one is love and one is lust mah. Hahah...tats how I argue with my conscience most of the time. Which I think this statement would ganer much displeasure from some of the samsters and sisters here

[Big Sexy]

you need to be told..
you are not making sacrifices..
you are just being naive and plain stupid if you allow that to happen.

Originally Posted by happycarrot

Fellow bros please advice, i dnt want to regret.

Thanks and huggies!!!

[royalblood]

if you allow it to happen once, it'll happen again and again.
so unless you're okay with that, don't do it.

[sgjoey]

Most people are giving you the wrong advice -- because they are most likely unaware of the latest science research which tells us we are not a monogamous species. It's not just your boyfriend that craves to have sex with others beside you. If you are totally honest with yourself, and if you cast all your inhibitions aside, you will find yourself also wanting to have sex with other men besides your boyfriend.

If you are both thoroughly honest with each other right from the start about the non-exclusivity of your sexual relationship, this can only be a good thing. Unfortunately, most couples are not ready for this kind of honesty and the result is a whole lot of deception and hypocrisy going on. We are a sexually neurotic community and there are very few enlightened individuals who are exceptions where this is concerned.

[maxman]

Originally Posted by happycarrot

Hello. My bf has always been interested in trying a 3some/trying someone new as it will be much more fun and exciting. But i dnt really like the idea of him fucking someone he knows as things can get quite problematic in the future. Im thinking of engaging a FL for him as his birthday is coming.

But im worried that he will continually want to experience new girl after this even thou he say he just want to try once. Cos i just want this to be a surprise birthday present one time event and not become a continuing affair.

Should i engage or not? Will he keep asking for more and be less interested in me alr? And how will his impression of me change?

Fellow bros please advice, i dnt want to regret.

Thanks and huggies!!!

I will agree with some of the nice respectful male members here to say that he should be considerate to your feelings about not liking a 3some. If the reverse was put upon him, that is, you wanting a 3some with another man, would he be permitting and be secure that you are enjoying another man? I also agree that once it happens, it could happen again, and it could eat into you.

There is also the danger of STDs when you engage a FL. If you are involved in that 3some, you could also be infected.

I suggest that you consider another gift for his birthday. It could be a sexual act. Do something wilder with/on him that wasn't done before. Take his hand, and lead him to the place. Make it happen.

Like a male member here said, I don't want to paint our kind black.

[greatdrakgd]

Originally Posted by maxman

There is also the danger of STDs when you engage a FL. If you are involved in that 3some, you could also be infected.

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yea this risk alone may be too much to take..

[JoeDoe]

TS, how about you telling him that you want to explore into threesome and stuff? Things like 2male 1 female. Maybe he will figure out how you feel.

[wally888]

If your bf respect u, he shdn't b making this kinda suggestions. If u started once there's no turning back, is it worth it in the first place?

[MyFantasy]

If u dont want to do it, then just dont do it la. Aiyo. Ask u jump down from 30th floor n u jump like superman? Pls la TS...

[HJL0ver]

Don't do it, it's a bad idea. Would you even be comfortable being naked with another person you don't know? Maybe learning how to striptease would be a better option?

[hellohongzz]

I agree with most bros here, if he is serious with you, I doubt he will wanna do this to you. Therefore, think twice before acting.

You know what is best for him and for you two together. My advice is don't spoil him in the wrong way. All the best!