life could be destroyed

[vaio#]

Originally Posted by littlepok

If not nude photos then what's there to be afraid of? If naked then remind her it's against the law.

If is jut personal pic then quickly upload to Facebook. Anything can claim your photos stolen from Facebook u are a victim, period

true.. but hmm must think of reason why would she steal my photos in the first place. just worried or paranoid she can ask her okt to disturb me.

[asdfghjkl]

you are scare of your own photo?

[Max77]

U shouldn't blame ur friend...

U don't know the game that's why got urself into trouble

[vaio#]

Originally Posted by asdfghjkl

you are scare of your own photo?

Why are some girls so sarcastic? I have met one in primary school, one in secondary school and one at workplace. Haha

[Rasta Marley]

Originally Posted by asdfghjkl

you are scare of your own photo?

Nice one:-)

TS, perhaps just one word of advice for you to counter your paranoia....RELAX. You are probably making a mountain out of a molehill;-)

[MonteCristo]

Hi TS,

It takes two hands to clap. Even if your friend introduced you to fl sites, you would not be in this position had you not:

a. Ventured deeper into commercial sex and,
b. Willingly got kc-ed.

Therefore, if there is anyone that you should direct your anger on, it should be you. You ventured into commercial sex on your own accord and willingly got kc-ed.

There is no better way to improve your situation than to admit your mistakes and accept the situation. The situation can't change itself simply by you getting angry; it will only improve if you take responsibility for your actions and calmly rationalise the situation.

Question for you to ponder:
What would the FL gain from publicizing your photos; if you have accepted the situation and are willing to accept any possible backlash?

Understand that you have only just started commercial sex a month ago; to take things in perspective, you are lucky to learn such lessons in so short a time. Many have fallen way harder than you did. I wish you luck in emerging from the experience a stronger man.

Just to add on, I am neutral towards paid sex as it is a grey region, with as many reasons for or against it. It would suffice to say that I am more an advocate of safe and sensible sex, as with all other things.

[zveron]

Originally Posted by vaio#

I should't have sent the photo in the first place. that puts me in the vulnerable state that I am in now.

Bro,

Vulnerable is relative, and the yard stick is in your mind. It is vulnerable because you believe that it is vulnerable, and therefore people can make use of that vulnerability.

Think of why you believe that this is a vulnerability, then think as a outsider, will they think of it as a vulnerability too (or better still, post it here for discussion). You may find there are many many way to look at the same situation. Do not back yourself into a corner of your own construct.

[freeneasy168]

there's must be more then meet the eyes. Wats the reason u guys is not in good terms? If u never did anything wrong to her u should not worry abt wat she'll do to ur pic as she is here to earn a living.

[mr_missile]

Originally Posted by vaio#

true.. but hmm must think of reason why would she steal my photos in the first place. just worried or paranoid she can ask her okt to disturb me.

they use the photo to disturb u? as in blackmail or threats? go straight to the police.

it is a major offence in sg to blackmail a person. but going to a prostitute is not against the law (unless the girl is underaged).

[UncleKunThai]

TS,good to hear yourself getting out of this KC thingy...

Believed you had been caged too long, that explained why when you had your exposure to other ladies...KC sets in!
Better prepare yourself to be able to answer to your loved/ closed ones if the day arrives!
And lastly, never ever blame others for the deeds...who had the final say,is YOU!

Regards

[OceanEleven]

Originally Posted by vaio#

true.. but hmm must think of reason why would she steal my photos in the first place. just worried or paranoid she can ask her okt to disturb me.

Actually what are you afraid of?
OKT's time better spent getting more biz than disturbing you.

[notti4u]

TS, are you sending the FL your baby photos that you are afraid to let ppl see?

Please...32 years old still scared? come on, be a man and if you are not sending your obscene photos then be it. FL also human, what will she get if she post your photos? Money?

If you want to shong, then shong already started to blame ppl, I think you are still immature.

I might be wrong but if you do not tell what is the photos all about, it will not lead you to anywhere but more "remarks" here and there......

Kana suan will die issit? My workplace, ppl suan me like a hobby... I still survive wor....

[Iemanishere]

Aiyo... u dont tell us what type of photos is that and how are we to share ur problem...

No matter how bad ur problem was ... cant beat my 2 years back.. I was only lucky ....

Anyone want to hear my story... I get 5 yes... I share...

[LovePotion]

go straight to the police since they threaten n blackmail u

[vaio#]

hello everyone...

can't be more thankful for those kind words from y'all people..

I mean, It really helps to alleviate the stress that I'm under, and help me to see things from a wider perspective... that there is more to life than fcuking worry about this shit..

They are just normal photos of me taken at random location. I am clothed by the way.

I really do not wish my family or friends to find out... I am not the open type of person.. especially finding FL is SIBEI embarrasing..


I know my colleague is bloody open type, he can openly talk to my company receptionist that he going China SZ to chiong for 2 weeks.. bloody open guy but i think his life is fcuking screwed..

once bitten, twice shy. never gonna fcuking go back that path.