who try choke the girl neck when fucking her in missionary ?

[Pohchuan]

Originally Posted by hugs

PohChuan,
the way u tell it, i know u know what i felt. tell me how is it fatal? u mean dying? besides that is there anything else?

Sorry Sis for the late reply, I know you are waiting for answer.

The act is usually not fatal when it was done by a couple who just get into the choking act. But it can be fatal for a couple who already have mutual trust and want to go nearer and nearer to the threshold line. The reason can only be understood by those who have experience indulging in these acts. And I believe you should understand it.

When she starts to trust the guy, she is in control and not him. She will allow him to choke harder to experience the new emotional low so that when he let go of the choke and goes into reassuring mode, she will get that emotional upburst from the low down to up high. Mix with his thrusting motion, she might even cliimax. Now the problem is that, she wants to go lower down the emotional scale to get that higher acceleration upwards in her feeling and emotion. She will allow him to choke harder very near to the point of no return. For him, he can not feel the choking but can only second guest through her display of emotion and gasp. It is just too easy to cross into that no return point.

Sis, instead of going into hard choke and escalating it higher each time you have sex; I would suggest that you get him to engage you using various acts of controlled choking, face slapping, pinning, arse slap, G spot stimulation, oral clitoris etc. A good partner can rotate his acts and drive you up and down the emotional roller coaster using a combination of these acts. For example: One of my favourite is to use the tip the tongue to write English alphabets on a lady clitoris (some guys only move their tongue monotonously, so boring right?). and then quickly slap her arse hard when she accidentally pulled the guy hair, immediately he would reassure her by asking her if she is ok and then search for her G spot for the next act.

Buy me a drink and I can talk whole day, it is too tiring to type.

[FrOsTy-CoLd]

I like to choke my lover while riding him during cowgirl and will lick his face and bite his ears as well. Hubby do not allow me to do that to him.

Some men like it while some don't. Same as us women. I like to be chock while lover is working on any position.

[OriginalSHAVE]

Think one have to be extra cautious when doing this. If in the heat of the moment, one get too overly excited and keep on choking when the chick is already struggling for air, it might end in tragedy.

[acidicavex]

Originally Posted by OriginalSHAVE

Think one have to be extra cautious when doing this. If in the heat of the moment, one get too overly excited and keep on choking when the chick is already struggling for air, it might end in tragedy.

Have to agree regardless is trusted or not sometimes is the excitement or it...... I recall someone that use to enjoy rough n force on play...... things got Er..... a little rough lucky that time I have a spare t-shirts haha......... as for the panties n bra they were throw into the bin.....

Also some.bruise was impact on her fine smooth skin.......

[hugs]

haha a drink? u know i will not let u just drink with me if i meet u. ur an answer to a thrill i am currently having. for all the other suggestions, the physical climax is no longer interesting, compare to the mental n emotional thrills derive from choking & seeing his facial expression during missionary. im addicted to watching his expression now. btw what is gapping? and to tell u the truth, i actually felt guilty nowadays, when i have sex with another guy. is weird. he is not my bf, but his face will come to mind when im having sex with any other guy, n immediately my emotion had this guilt feeling rising up. im not used to this negative feeling & it is affecting my enjoyment of having sex with other guys, an enjoyment that now only he can give. only when im having sex with him, i dont feel guilt. why is that? im not trying to stay faithful to him, but why is there a guilt feeling de? btw, i dont do face slapping, gangbang etc. i wont let anyone do that to me.

Originally Posted by Pohchuan

Sorry Sis for the late reply, I know you are waiting for answer.

The act is usually not fatal when it was done by a couple who just get into the choking act. But it can be fatal for a couple who already have mutual trust and want to go nearer and nearer to the threshold line. The reason can only be understood by those who have experience indulging in these acts. And I believe you should understand it.

When she starts to trust the guy, she is in control and not him. She will allow him to choke harder to experience the new emotional low so that when he let go of the choke and goes into reassuring mode, she will get that emotional upburst from the low down to up high. Mix with his thrusting motion, she might even cliimax. Now the problem is that, she wants to go lower down the emotional scale to get that higher acceleration upwards in her feeling and emotion. She will allow him to choke harder very near to the point of no return. For him, he can not feel the choking but can only second guest through her display of emotion and gasp. It is just too easy to cross into that no return point.

Sis, instead of going into hard choke and escalating it higher each time you have sex; I would suggest that you get him to engage you using various acts of controlled choking, face slapping, pinning, arse slap, G spot stimulation, oral clitoris etc. A good partner can rotate his acts and drive you up and down the emotional roller coaster using a combination of these acts. For example: One of my favourite is to use the tip the tongue to write English alphabets on a lady clitoris (some guys only move their tongue monotonously, so boring right?). and then quickly slap her arse hard when she accidentally pulled the guy hair, immediately he would reassure her by asking her if she is ok and then search for her G spot for the next act.

Buy me a drink and I can talk whole day, it is too tiring to type.

[owenfang]

Originally Posted by HCKing

yup dangerous. if the chick not happy with u can poh mata and charge u for sexual abuse.

poh mata? omg. i dun dare to try

[Pohchuan]

Originally Posted by hugs

haha a drink? u know i will not let u just drink with me if i meet u. ur an answer to a thrill i am currently having. for all the other suggestions, the physical climax is no longer interesting, compare to the mental n emotional thrills derive from choking & seeing his facial expression during missionary. im addicted to watching his expression now. btw what is gapping? and to tell u the truth, i actually felt guilty nowadays, when i have sex with another guy. is weird. he is not my bf, but his face will come to mind when im having sex with any other guy, n immediately my emotion had this guilt feeling rising up. im not used to this negative feeling & it is affecting my enjoyment of having sex with other guys, an enjoyment that now only he can give. only when im having sex with him, i dont feel guilt. why is that? im not trying to stay faithful to him, but why is there a guilt feeling de? btw, i dont do face slapping, gangbang etc. i wont let anyone do that to me.

Relationship for both man and woman occur in 2 dimensions, the physical dimensions and the emotional dimensions. However, during sex, men dwell only in physical dimension, while women have sex in both physical and emotional dimension. This is the reason why it is very difficult for men to understand why women like being choked. Also the reason why men can fuck prostitutes and do not feel guilty. Also the reason why women can be satisfied in bed without reaching her orgasm.

To answer your question. You feel that only that person can give you enjoyment of sex is due to the fact that you are somehow emotionally attached to him. In other words you LOVE him deeply for all the physical & emotional signals and connectivity he showered you with. You are sexually satisfied by him in both the physical dimension and emotional dimension. Perhaps, for the time being, only he knows how to engage you emotionally, but possibly there are others coming along your path, there are always other men that know how to engage a woman emotionally during sex, albeit small numbers. To lessen this person influence on you, try to love him less, but then easier said than done.

Your feel of guilt is an ancient genetic printing found in women gene. All women feel guilty when having sex outside the boundary of acceptable norm. However, at the same time, women feel the exhilaration of sex outside these boundaries because the thrill is also an up-burst of emotion craved by women. In recent times, boundaries are no longer that obvious. However the imprint of guilt is still there. I give you an example: During wartime, when the enemy conquer the villages, the army will kill the entire menfolks and take concubine of the womenfolks. These womenfolk initially will fear for their lives, but will give in to sex nonetheless. Initially they feel guilty but at the same time sexually satisfied and there is a mix feeling of sexy and yet dirty. Subsequently they will join the conqueror army and lived with their new master.

I would suggest you simply ignore the feeling of guilt, it is just an ancient genetic print in you.

[hugs]

Problem now is I like the boundary that this feeling of guilt puts me in. I enjoy being a one-man's woman at the moment. There were some other guys before him who tried to put me in emotional dimension. But they din know they were obvious to me, the tales that they plotted. I was sickened by it from the start. In other word, they done it with bad taste and lacking in effort and planning. I don't see a alpha male. I see a pathetic wannabe, that wasted my time. I felt like a mother trying to show kindness to babies, who later went into denial and insisted their ego be pampered. As for this man, i wasn't playing along. I was actually in it. I felt he is worthy. Love is a strong word n i don't think i am quite there. Yet now I have to allow a fb situation to happen between us, for my own sake. Not becos I want a fb, but becos I have to. I don't intrude into his life, I am protective about my personal life. there is no crossing over each others' boundaries. Time only stop when we were together. Not sure will I want to push it further in the choking situation but I don't think I need it. Do I? I just know right now, sex with him feels so right. I cant figure out how he engaged me. And thanks for taking the time to reply me. I'm more relax now.

P.S. Btw I had never felt guilt before. It cld be becos whenever I was in a relationship, I never had sex outside the relationship. I don't find other man attractive when I was in a relationship. I usually end one before I start another. But if i wasn't in a relationship, I do not feel guilt for having multiple partners.

Originally Posted by Pohchuan

Relationship for both man and woman occur in 2 dimensions, the physical dimensions and the emotional dimensions. However, during sex, men dwell only in physical dimension, while women have sex in both physical and emotional dimension. This is the reason why it is very difficult for men to understand why women like being choked. Also the reason why men can fuck prostitutes and do not feel guilty. Also the reason why women can be satisfied in bed without reaching her orgasm.

To answer your question. You feel that only that person can give you enjoyment of sex is due to the fact that you are somehow emotionally attached to him. In other words you LOVE him deeply for all the physical & emotional signals and connectivity he showered you with. You are sexually satisfied by him in both the physical dimension and emotional dimension. Perhaps, for the time being, only he knows how to engage you emotionally, but possibly there are others coming along your path, there are always other men that know how to engage a woman emotionally during sex, albeit small numbers. To lessen this person influence on you, try to love him less, but then easier said than done.

Your feel of guilt is an ancient genetic printing found in women gene. All women feel guilty when having sex outside the boundary of acceptable norm. However, at the same time, women feel the exhilaration of sex outside these boundaries because the thrill is also an up-burst of emotion craved by women. In recent times, boundaries are no longer that obvious. However the imprint of guilt is still there. I give you an example: During wartime, when the enemy conquer the villages, the army will kill the entire menfolks and take concubine of the womenfolks. These womenfolk initially will fear for their lives, but will give in to sex nonetheless. Initially they feel guilty but at the same time sexually satisfied and there is a mix feeling of sexy and yet dirty. Subsequently they will join the conqueror army and lived with their new master.

I would suggest you simply ignore the feeling of guilt, it is just an ancient genetic print in you.

[Pohchuan]

Originally Posted by hugs

And thanks for taking the time to reply me. I'm more relax now.

P.S. Btw I had never felt guilt before. It cld be becos whenever I was in a relationship, I never had sex outside the relationship. I don't find other man attractive when I was in a relationship. I usually end one before I start another. But if i wasn't in a relationship, I do not feel guilt for having multiple partners.

Since you are more relax now. I guess I will leave the conversation too.

My final words are these : You are in a comfortable fb situation with a man who give you great physical sex and satisfy your inner emotion at the same time. Enjoy the moment and stay at current sweet spot for as long as possible (well until the relationship end its course and you can look forward to a new one). Try not to think why and how he engages you, it might just take the fun away. A man who know how to engage a woman emotionally during sex will vary his approach and moves in and out of the her comfort zone to entice, seduce, satisfy, bully, upset, mistreat and climax her all within the sexual encounter short time frame. So don't ask, just savor the moment and wish it will not end (and unfortunately for the ladies, HE will end it).

You are now somewhat more knowledgeable about your own situation, so good luck. (and come to think of it, I am just a simple man and is in no position to advise a woman on emotional matter, so I will take my leave then).

[Johnbass]

Interesting read here.
Mai stop leh... I just started. Lol
Choke 1 time... Choke 2 times... By the 10th time, both also sian liao bah.
Same with everything in life?
Men will always want their ego (small head) to be pampered...
Women will always want to be one-man's woman...
Enjoy it while it last.

Paiseh... Dunno how to add the sex appeal into my texting here.

[hugs]

Don't go. Not from me. Can i pm u? Will u respond to my pm?

Originally Posted by Pohchuan

Since you are more relax now. I guess I will leave the conversation too.

My final words are these : You are in a comfortable fb situation with a man who give you great physical sex and satisfy your inner emotion at the same time. Enjoy the moment and stay at current sweet spot for as long as possible (well until the relationship end its course and you can look forward to a new one). Try not to think why and how he engages you, it might just take the fun away. A man who know how to engage a woman emotionally during sex will vary his approach and moves in and out of the her comfort zone to entice, seduce, satisfy, bully, upset, mistreat and climax her all within the sexual encounter short time frame. So don't ask, just savor the moment and wish it will not end (and unfortunately for the ladies, HE will end it).

You are now somewhat more knowledgeable about your own situation, so good luck. (and come to think of it, I am just a simple man and is in no position to advise a woman on emotional matter, so I will take my leave then).

[hugs]

...
can u zip it?

Originally Posted by Johnbass

Interesting read here.
Mai stop leh... I just started. Lol
Choke 1 time... Choke 2 times... By the 10th time, both also sian liao bah.
Same with everything in life?
Men will always want their ego (small head) to be pampered...
Women will always want to be one-man's woman...
Enjoy it while it last.

Paiseh... Dunno how to add the sex appeal into my texting here.

[Johnbass]

Originally Posted by hugs

...
can u zip it?

You are welcome.
Have a good day yourself.
Spread your LOVE.

[hugs]

spread my love..lol. this is exactly what i mean by ego needs pampering. urgh. who r u to tell me that? oh my g.

Originally Posted by Johnbass

You are welcome.
Have a good day yourself.
Spread your LOVE.

[Johnbass]

Originally Posted by hugs

spread my love..lol. this is exactly what i mean by ego needs pampering. urgh. who r u to tell me that? oh my g.

Were there some other texts in between my lines?
I didn't notice.
Have a nice day.