Relationship problem that require advice from all the expert here

[carnivore33]

Originally Posted by randyboy73

bro death..

wait till you get a new girl friend and when your ex keeps calling you, then u will be in trouble man!

Better make your status clear rite now... are u split or are u together.

As bro hornivore33 (oops carnivore) said, she may still want you for the emotional thingee.. get it clear once and for all.. I am telling you this from experience...

Best if you spend less time together if you both want to break cleanly, revisit the friendship issue only after u are sure both of u have gotten over the whole thing and are now embarking on your seperate lives.

just my 5c worth of opinion

Brother Randyboy73

I will take up your suggestion and petition to change my nick to hornivore (just kidding).. seems very appropriate isn't it, old boy.

Brother deathsyct, i believe it that you chinese chaps call it "ye chang meng duo". I hope I had the spelling right. The purpose of ending a relationship is to lead seperate lives, with the emphasis on the word seperate.

There is nothing prohibiting ex-lovers from being friends, but it usually involves a cooling off period and a removal of emotional dependency.

As the brothers here have said, do clarify the status. Force the issue out into the open for discussion, at least you know what the perimeters are in this case.

Good luck brother.

[dc_31]

My advise is don't be stupid. Sorry for the mean word. She is simply making use of you. When she finds a new bf, she will ask you to f off. I had been through this before...

[dc_31]

My advise is don't be stupid. Sorry for the mean word. She is simply making use of you. When she finds a new bf, she will ask you to f off. I had been through this before...

[Castrol]

Originally Posted by deathsyct

bros do u really think she juz simple treat me as a norm fren? or am i over-reacting?

bro dont need to think so much, if cannot bonk her then change your handphone number and FO la.

[covenn]

Originally Posted by deathsyct

e prob comes when she keeps sticking very close to me. i dont mind carrying her bag 4 her as it is our task to hlp gals carry em. but seems like she is nt shy abt it & takes it as though as i'm her bf. when out to shop her stuff, she will still try out e clothes and ask me to look whether its nice or nt. even when eating, she insist tat i sit beside her. so its naturally norm for me to start to hold her hands but she will pull her hands away.

simple. juz carry on stickin ur bodies close tgt lor. since she only has issues with holding hands. for me, sticking bodies close is a better option anytime.

[Lsize]

ridiculous gal..just making use of you for companionship..

have a clear cut and think no further

[5stars]

Don't be so mean mah.. But, this is the way - i think. No harm to continue being friend - with FOC bonk...

Originally Posted by Castrol

bro dont need to think so much, if cannot bonk her then change your handphone number and FO la.

[superman]

bro,

my advise to u is to makes things clear with her. Ask her wat is yr current relationship with her now. If friends u have to draw a line, do only things tat friends are doing. If she is unclear, I suggest u better keep a distance from her or else both will get hurt someday.

Juz my 2 cents worth of advise. Good luck

[no_faith]

if got FOC bonks, no doubts u gonna stay as fren
but nothing gain, dun get mislead by her and dun ever tink of patching up coz "hao ma bu chi hui dou cao"
she making use of u as she is boring, lonely at d moment and she need a companion
be cool, reject her sumtimes when she ask u out or call u chat bullshit on the phone, dun spend $ on her even u still love her in ur heart
dun ask her anyting or hope she will be back in ur hug,
u got to let her noe she is juz a passer-by in ur life, u will move on for a better life and get urself 1000000.....times better den her

tis juz my 2 cents (personal view n no offence)

[suteerak1099]

男人不坏，女人不爱。 just do as your heart tells you. if you think it wasnt a clean break.... 2 options:
1. have a good heart to heart talk to clear up the mess, and go seperate ways, so you no need to look back
2. rekindle the flame & start afresh, make sure you don't repeat the same mistakes as before.

maybe she still waiting for a new guy to come sweep her off her feet. so she bobian, still keeping you within reach, incase no new hope comes along.

[Deep Blue]

Answer this question:

Do you still feel for her? If yes then take action, if no then laid back and let nature take its course. In this world, other than "yes" and "ok", there is still "no" and "I can't".

[klbt]

seems like she just wana have the best of both worlds...
you pay she gain, in watever sense

[Red_Baron]

Just friends? Who is she kidding? Anyways if it does not bother you just leave it as it is (unless you want to get together again). If it does time to push her away.

It could be just you feeling werid about it since you 2 were once lovers. I strongly recommend you get a girl to give you feedback on this one for a better view.

[Shuang_Jie_Gun]

she is like just making use.sit down and talk over it.ask what she wants and settle it once and for all.

[onion_rings]

Originally Posted by 5stars

No harm to continue being friend - with FOC bonk...

But threadstarter EX GAL, won't even let him hold her hand leh. How to have the FOC bonk kekek