My Current Situation

[hlking88]

Brother RobinGL,

I just started to read your thread from page 1 till 20 today in around 4hours time,the stories are so up and down and I can have your feeling because I have once too but with bad ending. Hereby I wish you and XY all the best..and waiting for your next update !

[HisPrecious]

I read all the stories and stop halfway cus gotten angry then continue after awhile...

Alot of ppl can't help it but give comments and advices

Mmmm probably sometime like that happened to my dad
Thus I was brought up in a broken family

I lost contact with my father and he didn't even got informed for my wedding
Guess if he dies I would only get notified when the cheque from
Cpf gets mailed to my address...
Btw not brainwashed by my mum but I think he could have managed a family and still had his fun
If he didn't have the effort to pretend then he dun get my effort to pretend...
Years of childhood he robbed from me and destroyed happiness of so many woman in his life ( my mum , his mum, me and his gfssssssss)

My advice is...Please Let the lovely children keep their innocence
dun let them see or find out u have other gals and willing to sacrifice the happiness of this family for ktv gal
dun let them be sandwiched between you and wife for quarrels and cold wars
Actually, if your wife doesn't mind you staying out and sends home money and frequent dinners/outings , you can
continue with Xy and wait and see
Cus wat if Xy leaves u when u r old?
Would she remain by your side if you get in a major accident or chronic illnesses?

My taxi driving uncle, retired from his corporate career,had a PRC mistress. He was handsome and eloquent
His wife always said my man have fun outside who doesn't ? But he knows where his heart is, It is home...
Then he had decided to divorce and embarass his wife of 25 yrs
Children was so disappointed in him, and side their housewifey mother.
Then unlucky, when he got stroke suddenly, he wasn't welcomed to stay with his children. The PRC gal who he dated for many years??? Vanished...
Still working yet decided to change numbers and residence...
His EXwife took him in,Many family meetings the children nagged at their mother for being so softhearted ( my uncle could hear the loud criticisms )
Everyday, she would go "ask your china gal clean you and serve you la" remind him of how ungrateful he was...
they argued... Yes the stroke didn't take away his ego.

I think she punished him by not giving him peace and made sure
He was well nagged at... For 2 yrs till he passed on.


His children put least effort

[hilltower]

Your uncle's wife has a heart of gold...

[HisPrecious]

She believed old fashion marry one guy for life
"i know he flirted and had fun but he always knows wat is home"
So they still had loving couple life until he divorce her

[tmr3]

Originally Posted by RobinGL

Continue …………….


Now that her roommate come into the play. That evening when SS picked her to work, her roommate follow, while inside the car XY’s roommate jokingly ask SS where is XY watch making him embarrass. This is to add in pressure for SS to pay up

Hello Bro Robin,

It's been awhile since your last update on 23/8. I'm sure many bro like me have been looking forward in hearing your "latest situation".

Or perpahps if you have no intention of continuing you may want to just let us know.

Whatever it is, I wish you all the best and hope you find peace in your life now.

[kenl8888]

Bro..
Please continue with your story.. I love it and it sounds very true.. Your critics do not understand this irrational feeling call love..
I have learned a lot from you and it is very easy to fall into with a lady be her a masseur/KTV gal as long as you have spend some time with her..
In my case.. I have known my darling for more than a year.. and I really love her madly..
I cannot explain the strong feelings I have for her.. She is not any SYT but she really makes me feel comfortable in her company.. Initially I was worried as I thought myself a bloody fool but after reading your posts.. I realize that there are many many men like me around ..
Thanks for the posting.. and hope that you can update as soon as possibel..
Take care and all the best...

[tmr3]

Hi Bro kenl8888,

Care to share your story?

[<<totally>>]

Originally Posted by RobinGL

Bro,

My wife is strictly no sex before married and after married it not so bad. First once a week for a month and later once a month. Later.....lost count.

We have kids also lucky one. One shot one kill.

=.= Brother, that is why I insisted on test drive the car before biding for the COE. Bring home the car and found out that this part is not fitting, that part is not working and worst of all need to stick with it for the rest of my life.

Torturing for the one driving the car even if you can get all the 'wooh and the ahs' after stepping out of the car. This is liked getting short changed but unable to say anything.

Worst of all is that your car, 1 month can only drive 1 time. No sex before marriage is a premonition for unhealthy sex life after marriage. You are indeed sniper trained, like that also can hit bull eyes. Saluted!

[littlepok]

Thanks bro Robin. just came across this thread like many others and finished 20 pages 1 shot.

sometimes life is a bitch, bring u to highest point and kick u to the lowest, ensuring u stay there long enough to understand and appreciate life at middle.

thanks for the sharing, i feel nobody has the right to criticise for they are not in your shoes and experience everything u went through. it is easy to point a finger at others without realising where the remaining 4 fingers are pointed.

u are in agony because u are torn apart between love and responsibility. my only advice will be the kids. u already made your decision and i believe your so-called righteous friends (non cheonging buddies) and relatives did not go easy on u (贱男人 and so on... ) u live your own life, not for others.

nonetheless, the responsibility towards your kids and ex-wife will not disappear after divorce. no matter what, she committed many yrs of your most precious youth to the marriage and took good care of the kids. i believe u will be giving custody to her and visit them regularly. XY need to understand this type of responsibility that u cannot shirk. in yrs to come, she also must take the effort to let your kids accept who she is, though it will not be easy.

it is hard to find true love and they could be anywhere, prostitute house, KTV or whatever. many are concealed to carrot men but we cannot deny how fate can twist and turn your life. for me, life given me lots of shit and poo along the way, changing my intended path repeatedly and led me to my current gf, whom i knew i will never know, if not for these shit and poo. i am still in midst of cleaning up these shit stains though. if this is your life, embrace it, live it.

my new motto after all the shit and poo: rather be contented at the middle level (at least no money stress) rather than be at top and risk falling to bottom.

content is bliss. good luck to u and any bros in similar position.

PS: it is not an enviable position, not anyone who KC u is true love. those who are not stepping in such shit, at least try not to get on it. TS is a lucky man imo. many others lose $, family and career, laden by debts and nothing else. everything got conned. don't risk it, it's not worth it.

[loster]

Originally Posted by littlepok

PS: it is not an enviable position, not anyone who KC u is true love. those who are not stepping in such shit, at least try not to get on it. TS is a lucky man imo. many others lose $, family and career, laden by debts and nothing else. everything got conned. don't risk it, it's not worth it.

I agreed fully. I am one of those unlucky ones... but i have learnt to move on...

[<<totally>>]

Haiz, to find love is hard and to love someone is even harder. I can only moved on and hope to be that someone important to her. Bro Robin, no matter if you are still reading this thread of yours, I wished you the very best after what you have gone through. You are one of the blessed ones. ：）

[werewolves]

Thanks for sharing..

[sportserj]

TS, I missed my lunch because of this thread.
The part where she wanted to cut herself really touches me. But no human should harm themselves.

[Two2tango]

Bro u sure u were a GM in the previous company? Siunds not convincing cos there are a lot of grammar mistakes in your story.....

[Lawlessness]

Just want to share my encounter also. Very similar to many experienced brudders here who cheong ktv and end up giving up the whole forest for one tree. The incident happened when I was in CP about 3 years ago. My CP "girlfriend" made a comment that woke up my idea. She said "Why all man think the same? We are ktv girls and being taken care of. What else can we do everyday besides eating, drinking and playing mahjong. Don't tell me we must stay at home everyday and can only go library to read books? If we are the type that go library, no need to work like that now." I know I cannot take care of her like that unless I can be with her the whole time and be a "mentor" to her,to help her change her mentality and get her a proper job so that she can live normally.