How To Get And Keep Attractive Gals Of Your Type

[IwasApo]

Originally Posted by warbird

Hi Bro IwasApo,
Thank u so much for ur detailed n insightful analysis on the insecurity of men (and women).
IMHO, all humans r insecure. Some r much less insecure n some r very, very insecure. Only ancient sages n very rare modern humans r truly n completely secure.
If a human is ever angry, anxious, frustrated, fearful, shy or jealous, he or she is NOT truly secure.
Cheers!

Thanks warbird senior for your kind words. Yes, all man will be insecure from time to time. So part of being human, is about overcoming our insecurities. I like what you are doing with this thread, and do let me know if I stray from the discussions since I am also a student of how to make the prettiest ladies addicted to you, but they may not neccessary be ktv girls.

Whenever we approach the subject of secure vs insecure, we are bound to hit this topic of arrogance vs confidence. Confidence is attractive, and it put the hunter, into a position of power and the lady into a position of a follower. Yet alot of the problems we face is when ladies fail to recognize the difference between arrogance and quiet confidence.

A hunter is always calm and calculated in his approach. He does not seeks attention to himself. We see the great ancient sages share this common trait. When Mohamad, Buddha, Confucious and Jesus Christ saves someone, offer food and water to some, imparts a teaching to someone, they do it quietly. Its personal and its discreet. They do not aspire to be great, famous and well liked. They just go on and do what is right. They always tell the people they encounter, do not tell anyone what they have done for them, because there is no merit in the glory. This applied correctly is sexy and attractive to the lady. And because this is sexy and attractive, there are many empty shells who also recognize this fact, and copy it unsuccessfully.
When the music stops, he is happy even if he is alone. He is thankful for the companion he has by his side, and he is at peace even if he has no companion. The elements of the universe is one with him.

Then there are the arrogant empty shells, not realizing that they are continuing their insecure traits. These insecure shells take every opportunity to tell people who they help, and who they are going to help. A false benevolence without authority because they also fail to realize that there is power over life and death in the words of the confident man. Just as the Qin emperor was insecure, the arrogant empty shells need to do more and more things to try to feel that he has achieved something. But they forgot one important thing.

All of the ancient sages' power, come from their abilities to wage war, destroy their enemies completely, quickly and swiftly. With this in mind, they are able to forge lasting and permanent friendship and followers. Confucious was first a man of war, before he was a man of peace. The Qin Emperor adopted the system of meritocracy and the kingdom of Qin was transformed into a war machine. All the ancient prophets in middle east, were all man of war, strategist telling their kings how and what to do.

Over time, people forget why we respect Confucious, and why we follow his teachings. We are, afterall a meritocrite society. Now that we are ready for war, ready for the worst possible case scenario you can meet, we can be confident. You then inherit the power to forgive your enemies and make them your followers.

When we hunt for the prettiest girls around, we must be clear that we are truly confident, quietly confident. Quiet confidence is also known as quiet aggression. There is something magnetic and uniquely attractive about quiet aggression.

Ultimately the Alpha is comfortable within his own skin, this is one of the main alpha male characteristics, and if you can be comfortable in your own skin then everything else will follow. He doesn't care what people think, he is assertive enough to give his own opinion, and he is happy and confident in any situation.

The alpha male makes no apologies, he doesn't explain his behaviour. he is completely comfortable in his own skin so he doesn't need to. he don't boast about their success or try and prove anything again he don't need to; he assume you will like them simply because other people do, but he don't care if you don't, he won't chase after you for your validation, he don't care.

He acts in a rational and logical manner. Alpha males are typically rational and logical guys, who don't let their emotions get the better of them. He is always in control and do things with confidence, as if everything calculated and is going according to plan.

He talks slow, notice when you talk to someone you look up to you will talk faster. Talking fast is a way to qualify yourself to someone, essentially you are scared they will stop listening or find some more interesting stimulus, so you get your point out quick so they will listen, it actually has the opposite effect, and it shows your lower status.

He is in control of his ego. This is one of the most important factors in an alpha males characteristics. A true alpha male must make sure he doesn't develop over inflated ideas of one's own worth and even less project these on others. Instead, he should be cool, calm and collected and quietly confident.

He doesn't look around, he is the party and the focus of attention, he is unconcerned with what other people are doing.

He is centrally positioned in the group, everyone's body language faces him and is positive towards him, you can tell the alpha male of the group just by looking at them. Expect to be the focus and position yourself to be so, step up within your group and you will start to take on this dominant role.

He is able to see the bigger picture. This means that the alpha males aren't worried when things go wrong, as he is sure that it was meant to happen and will all work out. He isn't concerned with short term gains, but looks to succeed in the long term. This means that he will also be able to weigh up whether it's worth dealing with a negative in the short term for longer term success in the future.

He is a calculated risk taker. He doesn't have anything to prove, so will weigh up if he stands to gain from a situation. He doesn't fear losing face, as he is confident within himself, so will not take a risk where he knows he may lose, just to prove a point. This shows strength of character.

He is never impressed. He can be self centered and unimpressed with the achievements of others. He is an high achievers and strive for success so he have seen it all before it takes a lot, or a really high value to impress him he have high standards on every level.

He always aims high. The final and most important point I want to mention with relation to alpha males characteristics is that he always wants to achieve the best and strives to achieve success as much as he possibly can. He is never satisfied with second best and will always work that little bit harder to make sure he comes out on top.

He doesn't take himself to seriously. Also, he won't take jokes made against him as personal attacks, as he is confident and won't rise to others attempts to make a dig at him.

Sometimes he doesn't answer questions, he often give a non-sensical or a basic response to questions you ask them where you are trying for conversation, trying to find common ground, or trying for report by asking you to guess they are controlling the frame and leading the interaction and keeping their alpha male status.

Learns from his failures. An alpha male is not afraid of failing, as he learns from each experience and makes sure never to make the same mistake twice. He chalks this up as life experience that will only add to help him achieve greater success as a result.

He doesn't care about you, he is self focused, you are there to entertain them, but he is above you.

He can show a nicer side and get away with it. This goes back to not caring what people think. he can be nice, genuine, down to earth if he wants to and on the occasions that he is he gets even more credit for it, he isn't a geek trying to be nice for validation, he is a cool guy who has a down to earth side sometimes.

He is aware of his strengths and weaknesses. This isn't to say that he is afraid of his weaknesses though. Instead, he has developed means and strategies to use his weaknesses to his own advantage and not be phased by them. He knows the things that make him feel vulnerable and develops strategies to avoid them, or deal with them in the best possible way, so as to appear on top of things at all times.

He learns from his failures. An alpha male is not afraid of failing, as he learns from each experience and makes sure never to make the same mistake twice. He chalks this up as life experience that will only add to help him achieve greater success as a result

[Loving_Dickhead]

Originally Posted by DYBJ

Our bro LDH is Mr GangNam Style lolzzzz

Holy Shitz bro. Wahahaha how you know I was at Seoul? Based on flight timing? Nabeiz.

[Loving_Dickhead]

Originally Posted by warbird

Hi Esteemed Bro LDH,

Yes, I would love to meet up w/ u m ur gang.

Cheers!
Bro WB

Yo bro WB, those are adhoc gatherings. I am retired from the scene already. Only back in there when necessary, i.e. gatherings or company entertainment.

Let me know when you are avail, we can do a quick catch up.

[nine6nine6]

Originally Posted by DYBJ

Our bro LDH is Mr GangNam Style lolzzzz

Dage, wrong la.. maybe this one...

[Loving_Dickhead]

Why suddenly all so quiet?

[warbird]

Originally Posted by hunkyhum

alright I hope I am writing this at the right place.

I always wondered how does the KTV arena works. I haven't been to one but would like to give it a go....................

Bruddar hunkyhum,

Get a few kakis n go to China Doll, 7th FL at Peace Centre. It's a cheap joint. Buy a jug of beer n wait for the gals to come to ur rm. Dun tip more than $30. If u like to spend more money, go to 2nd FL Dynasty Classic. To go upscale, visit Las Vegas or Lido Palace, Havelock Road.

Cheers!

Originally Posted by IwasApo

Thanks warbird senior for your kind words. Yes, all man will be insecure from time to time. So part of being human, is about overcoming our insecurities. I like what you are doing with this thread, and do let me know if I stray from the discussions since I am also a student of how to make the prettiest ladies addicted to you, but they may not neccessary be ktv girls.

Whenever we approach the subject of secure vs insecure, we are bound to hit this topic of arrogance vs confidence. Confidence is attractive, and it put the hunter, into a position of power and the lady into a position of a follower. Yet alot of the problems we face is when ladies fail to recognize the difference between arrogance and quiet confidence.

A hunter is always calm and calculated in his approach. He does not seeks attention to himself.......................
When the music stops, he is happy even if he is alone. He is thankful for the companion he has by his side, and he is at peace even if he has no companion. The elements of the universe is one with him.

Then there are the arrogant empty shells, not realizing that they are continuing their insecure traits............................................ ...


When we hunt for the prettiest girls around, we must be clear that we are truly confident, quietly confident. Quiet confidence is also known as quiet aggression. There is something magnetic and uniquely attractive about quiet aggression.

Ultimately the Alpha is comfortable within his own skin...........................

The alpha male makes no apologies, he doesn't explain his behaviour.....................

He talks slow, notice when you talk to someone you look up to you will talk faster..................................

He is in control of his ego. This is one of the most important factors in an alpha males characteristics. A true alpha male must make sure he doesn't develop over inflated ideas of one's own worth and even less project these on others. Instead, he should be cool, calm and collected and quietly confident...................................

He is able to see the bigger picture. This means that the alpha males aren't worried when things go wrong, as he is sure that it was meant to happen and will all work out. He isn't concerned with short term gains, but looks to succeed in the long term................

He is a calculated risk taker.........................

He is never impressed.....................

He always aims high.....................

Learns from his failures. An alpha male is not afraid of failing..............

He is aware of his strengths and weaknesses.......................

Hi Bro IwasApo,

Kudos to ur treatise on Alpha male.

Originally Posted by Loving_Dickhead

Yo bro WB, those are adhoc gatherings. I am retired from the scene already. Only back in there when necessary, i.e. gatherings or company entertainment.

Let me know when you are avail, we can do a quick catch up.

Hi Bro LDH,

Sure, I should be able to go twice a wk.

Cheers!


.................................................. ..

Good morning!

I believe any man can get chio gals of his type n making them addicted to him. It's part art n part science, just like the study of medicine. No matter how good a man is, he can still improve greatly...especially at his subconscious level, until he is completely secure, joyous n fearless, even in life or death situations.

Have a great day!!

Bro WB

[MindOverHeart]

Originally Posted by warbird

I believe any man can get chio gals of his type n making them addicted to him.

I am sure this statement will bring hope to many brothers. I hope you can explain further. Addiction, as you mentioned in earlier postings involved three aspects: sexual, emotional and financial, so can a man with limited financial resources actually make a gal addicted to him? Thanks.

[SammyNewbie]

Finally, something worth replying to rather than most fake spam threads that I can only reply to with either some funny or semi serious comments.

I've read many seduction books before, and I know the theory of the Alpha very well. The truth about the alpha is, 'There can only be One'. Complex problems begin arising as people try to fight for this Alpha male position. Mainly souring the relations with your friends to the point of no return. "Bros before hoes" was stated for a reason.

The second point I wish to make, is that is subtly discredits insecure people and angry people. Some of these people are genuine people, that have had things happen to them in the past to cause them to become deeply hurt or to develop these traits. The author simply uses them to glorify himself and his social status and get himself the gals instead and teaches us also, to look down on these people and glorify ourselves. The same way, some of us would without hesitation, use these people to make ourselves look good.

Part of the reason why the Alpha complex actually works, is because of how the media actually chooses to package and sell these concepts in the form of Korean Dramas for example, with concepts that pack all the best attributes a girl likes in a man and put them on a guy, and after all, since it's just a drama, you can write what you like.

As a result, many guys adopt 'Alpha tricks'. Tricks to look like an alpha male, tricks to put down your peers so you look good, tricks to prod a woman's self esteem so she'll be with you.

I want to say at this point, that if a gal treats you bad because she's pretty and has many suitors, it's not necessarily because you don't have respect for yourself and because you are in the insecure batch. It's because she has bad character. Such a woman in frank, is not worth dating or pursuing in a relationship. So be a man and walk away. Also stay away from self-righteous bitches, unless you are a self-righteous prick .

It really depends on what you want. If you just want to bang attractive women for one night stands and not really be serious, go with what the bros say and just pick up the Alpha tricks. Think about whether a woman that you get from using these Alpha tricks is worth settling down with. You'd have these fights for control everyday, you'd have to put up that front day and night, how long can you keep up the alpha facade?

To really have balls to date a woman, you got to date her as yourself, without the alpha facade. So what if you're nervous when you're asking and you tell her? So what if you may not be able to make her laugh all the time? So what if you're not perfect and smooth?

This is the part of that's important. You must be able to accept yourself as you are. With your strengths and imperfections. There isn't an easy answer on this road. There are complex past issues that that will surface and you'll have to deal with. There are things that you might need to change that are bad habits, and those things won't disappear overnight.

You'll find that with this approach, you might not always attract KTV gals, but you will attract the right ones you can settle down with.

I've digressed a little bit from the whole topic of KTV pick-up, but at this point, I think some of the bros reading this need to know. I also thought all I wanted in these cases was merely something to feed my sex drive, but I was wrong. I think most of the bros like me, are confused about what they want.

[DYBJ]

Originally Posted by SammyNewbie

I think most of the bros like me, are confused about what they want.

An alpha is someone who has
1) Superb SA( Situational Awareness)
2) Superb SI (Survival Instinct)
3) A good Mind reader (Whereby he can read his/her mind of the other party)
4) A good strategist
5) Very composed, not ruled by emo but brain

For ur statement, because u dunno wat u wan n u r confused, u already dun belong to the alpha world.
So, reading more about it will not help ur understanding in wat makes an alpha tick.
I will leave the alpha of this thread, Guru Warbird to lead u to the path of enlightenment

[Reoxy]

Originally Posted by DYBJ

An alpha is someone who has
1) Superb SA( Situational Awareness)
2) Superb SI (Survival Instinct)
3) A good Mind reader (Whereby he can read his/her mind of the other party)
4) A good strategist
5) Very composed, not ruled by emo but brain

I possess all the above points. Do I qualify as an Alpha club member?

When will my membership card be ready?

[DYBJ]

Originally Posted by Reoxy

I possess all the above points. Do I qualify as an Alpha club member?

When will my membership card be ready?

U asked the wrong guy
I am just a bankrupt n a half loser.
U shud direct the question to Guru Warbird

[aczeta76]

Originally Posted by DYBJ

U asked the wrong guy
I am just a bankrupt n a half loser.
U shud direct the question to Guru Warbird

Looks like thread is still going strong...

HFJ looks quite packed despite 7th mth whoa

[Loving_Dickhead]

Originally Posted by aczeta76

Looks like thread is still going strong...

HFJ looks quite packed despite 7th mth whoa

Not all HFJ good biz, Dynasty flowers are dropping.
Customers prefer KTV gals now.

[partynostop]

Originally Posted by SammyNewbie

Finally, something worth replying to rather than most fake spam threads that I can only reply to with either some funny or semi serious comments
I've digressed a little bit from the whole topic of KTV pick-up, but at this point, I think some of the bros reading this need to know. I also thought all I wanted in these cases was merely something to feed my sex drive, but I was wrong. I think most of the bros like me, are confused about what they want.

Watch the bourne series. That is a perfect example of an Alpha.
This is your legacy. There is never just one jason bourne.

Now think again, what do you do when you walk in a pub. And ask, what would jason do. See the difference?

[warbird]

Originally Posted by MindOverHeart

I am sure this statement will bring hope to many brothers. I hope you can explain further. Addiction, as you mentioned in earlier postings involved three aspects: sexual, emotional and financial, so can a man with limited financial resources actually make a gal addicted to him? Thanks.

Hi Bro MOH,

A 'poor' man (one who is poor outside but not inside) can still make any gal addicted to him sexually n emotionally, but not financially. The union will not last unless the gal is rich or is not materialistic...

Of course this 'poor' man has awesome self mastery n strong masculine traits haha.

Originally Posted by SammyNewbie

Finally, something worth replying to rather than most fake spam threads that I can only reply to with either some funny or semi serious comments.

I've read many seduction books before, and I know the theory of the Alpha very well............................

The second point I wish to make, is that is subtly discredits insecure people and angry people.................................

I've digressed a little bit from the whole topic of KTV pick-up, but at this point, I think some of the bros reading this need to know. I also thought all I wanted in these cases was merely something to feed my sex drive, but I was wrong. I think most of the bros like me, are confused about what they want.

Hi Bro SammyNewbie,

Ths for ur excellent post.

There is a big difference between a dominant male n a bully (who is actually a coward, an insecure little boy inside).

Originally Posted by DYBJ

An alpha is someone who has
1) Superb SA( Situational Awareness)
2) Superb SI (Survival Instinct)
3) A good Mind reader (Whereby he can read his/her mind of the other party)
4) A good strategist
5) Very composed, not ruled by emo but brain

For ur statement, because u dunno wat u wan n u r confused, u already dun belong to the alpha world.
So, reading more about it will not help ur understanding in wat makes an alpha tick.
I will leave the alpha of this thread, Guru Warbird to lead u to the path of enlightenment

Hi Bro BYBJ,

Ths for ur post.

It's very, very difficult to be truly enlightened...

Originally Posted by Reoxy

I possess all the above points. Do I qualify as an Alpha club member?

When will my membership card be ready?

Congrats to u!

Originally Posted by DYBJ

U asked the wrong guy...........
I am just a bankrupt n a half loser.....
U shud direct the question to Guru Warbird

I'm no guru bro. You're always humble n polite...

Originally Posted by aczeta76

Looks like thread is still going strong...

HFJ looks quite packed despite 7th mth whoa

There must be many people w/ money to burn...

Originally Posted by Loving_Dickhead

Not all HFJ good biz, Dynasty flowers are dropping.
Customers prefer KTV gals now.

Bro LDH, you must hv spies everywhere haha...

Originally Posted by partynostop

Watch the bourne series. That is a perfect example of an Alpha.
This is your legacy. There is never just one jason bourne.

Now think again, what do you do when you walk in a pub. And ask, what would jason do. See the difference?

Ths for ur pointer. James Bond is more dominant...

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Good afternoon!

I'm thrilled to see so many esteemed bros contributing to this thread. Thanks again!

Every virile n ambitious man aspires to be an Alpha male. But trying too hard to be one could actually be very Beta haha.

IMHO, it's far better to be an Enlightened man. It's a man w/ absolute self mastery, who lives in the eternal present moment n who is always relaxed, humble, joyous, n fearless, every minute n everyday, no matter what happens n even in life or death situations...of course it's easier said than done.

Let me digress.

I know I'm NOT enlightened yet as I still hv some attachment to my 1st BAO-ee XW n 18 yo EN.

EN is now back in Hubei n will return on student visa. She is attached to me, but not addicted. XW is still w/ me n she will turn 25 soon.

Cheers n hv a great day!

Bro WB