Happily Married with an ex WL(VN) - Page 29

SING_IN_HCMC · #**421** 16-09-2009, 08:39 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by lihaojunn

I also have a viet baxa who is now 4 months pregnant with my child.. Like bro Cas, my ba xa was also once a WL. But we are happily married now and she makes a good housewife and housemaker now! BTW I am only in my mid 20s... I knew her 3 yrs ago in a pub in geylang. She quit the scene after being with me for 6 months as she is actually here in Singapore to work in pub to kill time. She did told me she did not go upstair with customers, all she did was sit with customers only. And like all typical men, At the start, I did not trust her words totally, but at times go by, I was touched by everything she did for me, she even stop working after knowing me for a short period of time. I went to her hometown with her after knowing her for a year, only then to believe that whatever she told me was true... She is from a well to do family in Vietnam, her dad has a business, she is just too rebellious, her dad wanted her to continue her studies, but she is not interested in studying, thats why packed her bag and came to Singapore with a few of her Sisters.
Well, its a blessing that both our family did not object to the marriage, she knew that i was not so rich, so everything was kept simple.

I am now waiting eagerly for our new life to come to this world.

Good for you. Wish you all the best.....

casannova03 · #**422** 25-09-2009, 05:12 PM

Vietnamese Working Ladies

I have been talking regularly to these ladies and have told them about the general consensus of men towards them.

I.E

The treatment that they dished out on men and the many men are left heart-broken and many others have turned heartbreak into hate.

Never knew that this will turn out to be a topic to write on! Anyway, I will now start a series of posts from the WLs' perspective.

It will be interesting!!!!

vagrant · #**423** 28-09-2009, 05:55 PM

Bro Cassa, support you. Camping here with my bia for your interesting posts

AD3000 · #**424** 05-10-2009, 04:13 PM

Interstings Bros... Camping for more posts.

jackbl · #**425** 06-10-2009, 01:41 AM

Why are we waiting ???

Quote:

Originally Posted by casannova03

Vietnamese Working Ladies

Anyway, I will now start a series of posts from the WLs' perspective.

Rejuvenation · #**426** 12-10-2009, 05:48 PM

bros...i heard from my fren who just married a viet gal say that after u book a date to ROM, they will ask u to come for interview b4 u ROM... is that true?? wat is the interview really abt?

zichuan · #**427** 13-10-2009, 09:41 PM

the interview nothing much. just ask how you both know each other, at where, etc.. blah blah.. rom will not be taking what u say into considerations. no worries. you can lie to them also can.

laychongvn · #**428** 14-10-2009, 01:06 AM

A year back I helped a 26yr old viet lady find a guy here to marry... and I was a witness at their wedding. Not so much different when 2 S'poreans marry, except that when S'porean marry a foreigner (thai, viet, australian, american,etc) have to go for some Aptitude Interview to see if you two really want this and neither party is being forced, coerced or tricked into marriage.

hotshot185 · #**429** 15-10-2009, 03:41 AM

Hi TS, this is definitely one of the better threads that I came across, forget about those negative comments as I believe that you truly want to share your wonderful life. Very heart warming indeed. Congrats !

Read through your threads, since you mentioned that she dont have much education, perhaps maybe u can share more details like financially supporting your family and whether isit financially taking a toll on u ? Just out of curiousity hope its not too intruding.

strauss88 · #**430** 05-11-2009, 02:21 AM

really interesting read....learned alot here...

thanks for sharing casanova and the rest of the bros...

zichuan · #**431** 03-01-2010, 03:41 PM

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Originally Posted by casannova03

No problem. There are actually many more people that i know that went thru the same things. Its just that they do not want to share or they are afraidof the repercussions.

I am just one of those that shared! No big deal really.

yea, there is always this stigma or taboo about marrying a foriegner.

like you, i also have to tell the truth but not the whole truth

haha.

elbrochador · #**432** 04-01-2010, 03:14 AM

hey cassanova, i'm still at page 16 on this thread... man!!! i am deeply touched by your challenges.

i'll continue reading on tml... eyes got tired.

casannova03 · #**433** 04-01-2010, 02:54 PM

Paiseh bros!! I realised i have totally neglected this thread of mine.....

Have been really busy and when i have time, its out and about drinking...

will gather my thoughts and dig the memories to remember what i wanted to say....

Xavie · #**434** 04-01-2010, 05:39 PM

Dear Cassannova bro

Personally I'm going thru wat u went thru at the beginning of your relationship. The future looks bleak and many times i feel like walking away from the relationship as many friends told me I'm digging my own grave by getting involved with an WL.

However your words of wisdom has given me strong encouragement and belief to forge ahead for our future.

Wish you and your wife have a blissful and everlasting marriage.

PS : I just made this account today so I can reply this thread, cos i'm terribly touched by wat Cassanova bro encountered.

Glock · #**435** 04-01-2010, 08:47 PM

congratulations !!

you have made the right choice not to marry a fucking singapore golden pussy bitch

Quote:

Originally Posted by lihaojunn

I also have a viet baxa who is now 4 months pregnant with my child.. Like bro Cas, my ba xa was also once a WL. But we are happily married now and she makes a good housewife and housemaker now! BTW I am only in my mid 20s... I knew her 3 yrs ago in a pub in geylang. She quit the scene after being with me for 6 months as she is actually here in Singapore to work in pub to kill time. She did told me she did not go upstair with customers, all she did was sit with customers only. And like all typical men, At the start, I did not trust her words totally, but at times go by, I was touched by everything she did for me, she even stop working after knowing me for a short period of time. I went to her hometown with her after knowing her for a year, only then to believe that whatever she told me was true... She is from a well to do family in Vietnam, her dad has a business, she is just too rebellious, her dad wanted her to continue her studies, but she is not interested in studying, thats why packed her bag and came to Singapore with a few of her Sisters.
Well, its a blessing that both our family did not object to the marriage, she knew that i was not so rich, so everything was kept simple.

I am now waiting eagerly for our new life to come to this world.