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I know that my wife lost her sex drive due to her nursing. Also, she might have encountered some trauma during child birth. She was in labour for over 16h and in the end, she still had to undergo emergency C section due to her cervix not dilating sufficiently. Maybe all these might have fucked up her body. |
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Yes. She has returned to work.
So our routine now is to wake up to feed and change our baby, send him to infant care while we work. When we bring him home, my wife will clean him up while I make dinner and do some other housework like to wash the dishes and the clothes while my wife rest/ pump milk. I can tell that she is usually tired, especially after pumping her milk. |
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Anyway, she only offers to jerk me off these days. Nothing more. Over these 6 (going to 7) months, we only tried doing it twice and I can tell that it hurts big time for her. From the second time onwards, she is totally disinterested in any form of intimacy anymore. She is always dry below and nothing seems to stimulate her anymore. |
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Hence, No sex after the birth of first kid. HAHAHA. |
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Did the wife go through a confinement period after birth ?
The confinement period is a time for the wife to recover and recuperate from the whole ordeal, carrying a child within her for nine months to giving birth. It can also help to rejuvenate the body. I suppose even after 6 months somethings can still be done. Maybe take a week or 2 off, R&R, some massage. Just a suggestion. |
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help out with chores, spend more time with your kid and offload it from her.
if her supply is low, just go ahead with formula. basically reduce her stress. when the kids are still young, their maternal instincts are just too high. for most, the sex drive will drop. once the kids are older, more independent, shower your wife with attention, and she will start to be more horny again. also, i realize the less you want to have sex with them, the more auto they are with coming to you for sex. |
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I became the primary guy in doing housework, to cook and I also help to look after the baby whenever I can. But my wife is perpetually du lan whenever my kid cries (not that I'm not fed up either. Just that I tolerate with it). So everything looks wrong to my wife and emotions take over whenever my kid is unhappy. |
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Can just be at home. But you will need someone else to take care of the baby, while the mother rest, maybe have confinement nanny, in-laws to take care of the mother. Key is to provide stress free environment for the wife to rest a bit. Best is the wife do not work during that time. I suggest you search online for more tips on post natal care. |
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