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its most time when something happen to you and your hubby. u met a guy and feels hes so much better then your hubby. but think of this. how much do we know and see the person we see on the road? you know he snored? u know he like to dig his nose? u know he like to fart loudly? for many guys including me, in order to get into the pants of the gal, we will do most things, shown the best side of ourself. u mentioned that you are attracted to him. i can tell you i am attracted to most pretty ladies i met so far. but so what? I had FB before, i had a clean cut ones, once i feel that they got too attached, i end the thing. cos i know deep in myself, i will nev give my wife up. and the more u mentioned that you are attracted to him. what if after a few fuck and he leaves u? would crying helps? if your hubby finds out, what will he do? what will u do? if hes good and accept u back, are u able to live with your guilt? i sensed that u would get yourself deeply attached to him till u cant let go. think of your son and hubby. think of the wonderful time u spend together. its never easy to stay together for 20 over years. you had too much to lose by becoming his FB. His approach is lame........... |
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That is if you choose to be some stranger's sex slave over being a decent woman. |
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Hi there, when i saw your threat i told myself maybe i just got to say something. i m a guy who is married, but i m in SB and i had been naughty, so you get my drift? my wife would probably be having the same feeling as you. But don't get me wrong, i still love her and i always do. I know you have needs, just like my wife, seriously if she had a FB now, i would forgive her if i found out, but i can't say the same for your hubby, so whatever you do, just remember there are certain degree of risk and you got to bear the consequences if you are caught. Personally i think if you have found a "responsible" FB who is clean n safe n of cos satisfied u, it is better than ONS cos the risk is lower becos i am sure you still love your hubby n your kids. You got to think this through yourself carefully. but a word of advice, don't put feeling into your relationship with your FB, cos probably he doesn't. And feeling fo set clear guideline with her. Like he can't develop for you, call you at wee hour, expect you to meet him anytime, expect you to call/msg him anytime, anywhere, putting your marriage at risk etc etc. I just hope you find happiness and your marriage remain in contact n your "secrets" folllows you into your grave in the future.
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Sister TS,
I think you have no idea what an FB is when you can mention you have feelings for him. Don't think too much, go pick up that wok and ladle and start cooking up a good meal for your husband who will be coming home in awhile. When he is lying in bed later, give him a good blow and behave like the dirtiest slut he has ever seen in his entire damn life. Wear something sexy and tell him to fxxk you bad cos you've been craving for something really naughty and you have not had it yet. It's easy to stay happy.
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Hi Sis
After reading yr posting I just smile w yr ignorance n try to give it a passed. But w a lot of ???? in mind i decided to reply u w questions for yr self reflects n hope it do help u to ans to yr own question ![]() 1. You r a working OC for 20+ years with a teenage child. R u a real sis as mention in yr post in yr 40+ ? If so u should not hv asked whether u r playing w fire.. u should be mature enough to hv brain to know t ans. OR r u just a naughty boy who just end sch holiday feel bore n try to b funny? 2. Facing the same common problems in marriage as most of you here, sex with hubby is no longer exciting and satisfying. In fact, he is more like a stranger than a hubby to me now. What did yr husband do to u ? Is he a responsible husband ? Did u try to make a 1st step to talk n share..go for vacation or something ? Did u try something sexy to enhance both sex relationship ? Beside SEX there still something call SELF RESPECT and RESPONSIBILITY If u dont what diff u make then an animals 3. Although I have many opportunities to get out of my marriage with ppl met thru my career, If this cross yr mind , r u a flirt n only think for yr selfishness ? 4. I'm not ready to give up my marriage as it will mean hurting both of our extended families whom I have great relationship. U talk more like a mature n responsible lady ,keep it up. 5. Many months ago , I met a guy (B) whom I'm quite attracted to. We started chit-chatting causally & out of the blue 1 day, he asked me to be his FB! Only many mths...chit chat CAUSALLY...then asked to b FB ??? Hi sis i think u got more thing to hide dum u ?? How old is he >40+ married w family ? ( If not something wrong w him ) U want to blew up 2 family just to fullfill yr sex desire as a fatal attraction if someone found out ? Or is he much younger then u , u want to be a OLD COW LIKE TO EAT GREEN YOUNG GRASS ? ...HaHa R u a Chiobu or a MILF in yr 40s as t guy asked u to b FB ? Or r u a rich MLND n he just going for yr $$$ ? 6. FB Both party meet just purely for sex desire n lusts , no emotion feeling . If one party start to become sticky n show high emotional feeling...GAME OVER. If never play by t rule it can be turn to b a FATAL ATTRACTION ! So beware. THERE ARE DIFF CONSEQUANCES TO FACE AMONG MARRIED MAN OR WOMAN WHO CAUGHT FLIRTING AROUND Man will leble as " Fong Liu" or " Lau Tio Kio " Most of guys let small bro take control of big bro... after t sex desire n release most bros will return home ,,,n try to b a husband. Tats why we guys like to just pay for sex n Fuck n Forget wo any string attached. Moreover after all we still need to go back home to become a GOOD HUSBAND n a GOOD FATHER Woman will be leble as " Cheap " or " slut " Woman think w only one head .... to hv SEX she must has emotional feeling !st... unless she work hard for $$$ ( FL or Whore ) If a wife found out husband is cheating on her. Most wife but not all will forgive ( but not forget ) husband if he amid t wrong doing n end t relationship w t other woman. Tats is for t sake of their children as a complete family . Friends n relatives will asked wife to forgive husband as he " yi shi fong liu " If a husband found out wife cheating on him. How many man can withstand a wife who gave him a " Green Hat " wo anger wo doing anything ? Not to mention he may bit up her FB / Guyfriend or worst KILL him. THAT A MAN PRIDE DUM TELL ME ITS UNFAIR... CAUSE TATS NO SUCH THING AS FAIR Sorry for being such a long winded n hope no offend to u sis . Hope u found yr ans n WAKE UP be its TOO LATE To all reader if u disagreed pls dum zap me just my small cent of IMHO |
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Hi Sis OC....Dont play with fire...Give it a miss ok...
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Juz accept these principles. cheers ![]() |
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Hi TS,
From your replies, i guess you sex with your husband is like plain water and never have experience highly charge sexual feeling as described by bros here. Trust me, you are not alone, there are many women and guys (i am one of them) out here life you. If that what you want, why not go for go for ons ? You don't need to know what is that guy and there is not continuity with him and not emotion attachment. Like bros here, you have to be very emotionally very strong, the guy who is your FB might have more than one FB and might not be there when you need it. Go be volunteer work. You will be able to appreciate what you have esp when you see how people are struggling to keep their life going. If you email me or any of the bros here if you need someone to listen to your problem. Take care. |
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Hi OC TS, I can see that most are advising you against this FB thingy. I shall not go too deep into what others have advised you. My stand is:
1) If you are tempted to do it. You feel like doing it and it makes you much happier, then by all means go ahead, do it. But do not forget the consequences which other samsters have advised. 2) Always remember it's just a FB-FB relationship. Unless you are ready for this kind of FB relationship and you think you can be in control of you own emotions. 3) Do note that for majority of guys who "tao jia", they are still able to go back to their home, to their wife whom they still love and treasure at the end of the day, it was their 'lit bro in control temporarily at that moment. But for females, majority who "tao jia" are not able to do it and tend to let their heart overtake and control anything else. I have many friends who are living examples, the girls "tao jia", in the end they feel guilty towards their husband or fall in love with their FB and thus resulting in a divorce. 4) How trustworthy is this guy who proposed a FB relationship with you? Does he know your family? 5) If it's too risky, then heed the advice of the majority here. Unless a) your husband fails to provide the sexual needs which you want b) romance to a certain degree that is no longer existing between you and your husband c) excitement which you are seeking for else I think you should not accept his proposal. I have my own encounters with ladies who are married and I bet some samsters here do have as well. But these relationships do not last as at the end of the day, you jolly well know you are bonded by what they call it the legal marriage agreement, a bond. A person whom you have wanted to spend your whole life with in the past. I will not say having a ONS/FB is bad for your relationship with your husband. Sometimes it does opposite and improve your relationship with your partner as you may realize that your husband is the best afterall. Unless your husband is a *@#&*#($@#&(*&$, then what's more is there to consider. However, despite all our advices and you still persist to go ahead, good luck and enjoy bonking. On a side note: Most of us are very careful with our usage of verb for advise/advice arbo tio spot by uncle sammy again.
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I do not want to dwell too much on it anymore as it would look like I'm talking bad about my hubby. Basically, he is a nice man. He is just not suitable for marriage life, a conclusion after 22 yrs of marriage. About spicing up the sex with him, I just want to say that all that can be done was done including sexy lingerie, toys etc. Up to-date, I can proudly say that I have excelled in my various roles as a wife, mother, daughter, daughter-in-law, aunty etc but I failed myself miserably. I do engage in many activities to occupy my free time but at the end of the day, the feeling of emptiness is still there... |
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Dear Loneyheart,
I like to clarify some of the pts mentioned below. Quote:
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Guess you need to unwind. . .
Play with care. Matter of hearts, no one can decide for yourself except yourself. Goodluck! |
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Hi Sis.
Reading through your responses i can sense that you're still a very dedicated and loving wife, mother, daughter-in-law who is just going through a rough patch of self-doubt, and wanting to try our something new... something exciting that you have always read about but have not done so yourself, for whatever reasons. This is quite normal especially now that your son has gone to the army and would start his own life... and you are feeling quite 'empty'. I suppose your husband has found his escape through his activities and hobbies... Perhaps you may wish to take the cue from him and reconsider your thoughts, and redirect it to something else, something decadent and self-indulging... perhaps a good SPA, or a girls-only holiday/cruise with your girl-friends and reenergise. Afterall, when you return, both you and your husband can start planning for your 25th anniversary which i believe would be only a couple of year away? I'm sure your son would be very very proud of the both of you.... and most importantly, you will not have any guilt overlooking your shoulders! So go ahead with the dream SPA or cruise with the girls! All the best! Cheers ![]() Last edited by realfat_joe; 23-09-2009 at 02:06 PM. |
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occupy ur time, pamper urself without having to feel guilty later on.... anyway, as many bro said before, tat guy's approach is lame... can't see him being a serious and responsible FB...
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