sudden lost.... need advice,.

[goodmassage]

What others think is irrelevant.
If u bother pple's opinion, that means they r impt to u.

Try borrowing some $ from them...wait a while...& borrow again.

U will then see how impt u r to them.

[cookiemonsta]

there isn't anything that shouldn't be said which others have already replied
life is short and your kids will understand
i know, because i'm one of them
rather you live a happy, single life with your kids than stay in an unhappy marriage
kids are not stupid, we can see what's happening
sure, there my be short comings and will face obstacles along the way
but that's life, over come them and become stronger for your kids
they will love you for your strength
i will always love, support and respect my mums decision
at least do it for your happiness and sanity, call it quits, part ways and start fresh

good luck!

[see see only]

Hey sis ....

If you knew how to vent your sorrow here, I strongly believe you knew actually what you’ve intended to do … just that you are hoping for an endorsement on your possible decision.

Others' opinion is not important to you, my sis. It’s your life and is how you’ve intended to move on with it that’s most important. Make the decision and no regret, you will be able and learn to take control of the situation when time comes.

Good luck to you

[earnesty]

Originally Posted by candypuss

Of cse I din believe anymore as he is a horny n perverted bastard.

IMHO I see you cannot forgive nor forget . You are just holding on for one reason and one reason only REVENGE .

[Greendevil]

Sis my advice to you is search yr own happiness. Kid will one day grow up and eventually understand what you are doing thou they may or may not agree to it. But bear in mind they will grown and hv their own family, so who will walk down the last few years of yr life with you then?

[V|ernar]

Let talk about basic stuff , you cheat , he cheat , end .

He cheat on you , he is a bastard .

You cheat on him , you ain't saint too .

It either both of you talk things out or go different way .

[candypuss]

Originally Posted by V|ernar

Let talk about basic stuff , you cheat , he cheat , end .

He cheat on you , he is a bastard .

You cheat on him , you ain't saint too .

It either both of you talk things out or go different way .

well i did cheat during my previous marriage. And now i got cheated by my husband which is the 2nd marriage.

Now i calmed down n see a clearer picture thus i am trying to working things out with the husband so as to settle the flat and kid issues.

[Istrike4D]

Originally Posted by sgjoey

Boss, I am very surprised. Do you only specialise in distinguishing between "advise" and "advice"? What about "save" and "safe"?

Hahahahaha, buahahahaha, this post really funny, made my day!

[RealEstateGuy]

Originally Posted by candypuss

well i did cheat during my previous marriage. And now i got cheated by my husband which is the 2nd marriage.

Now i calmed down n see a clearer picture thus i am trying to working things out with the husband so as to settle the flat and kid issues.

Sistah, oh so now it's revealed you cheated on your first husband. Sistah absolutely terrible. Why offer candy to other man like that sistah? Sistah I know they are mutually exclusive events in your mind but can you share why if you dun mind?

[SaintArc]

Who love e kid more
U or him ?
If he doesnt den dnt waste time
Jz get maintenance fee from him
If u hang on only get to see is facing four walls
N staying at a hm taking care Yr kid no different from div him rite
Staying a home w no love or leave him to open another love outside who reallys cares !
Hv a tot

[Mr_don_juan]

Originally Posted by candypuss

Bros/sisters

First of all, I m married with a kid going in Pri one in three months' time.

Husband affair exposed two months ago n i am still distressed. Hubby did not walk out on me although he did not show any remorses. Quarrelled over the gal many times but it did not stop the on going affair. reason is revenge.

What shall i do now plus feelings for him is flying out of the window at a fast pace n last couple weeks ago, feelings had stopped already but he still carried on as if nothing is wrong plus he n i still on talking terms , more like normal frenz instead of man/wife.

Just divorce lah, in any case if you have evidence of his affair then the Singapore courts will be on your side. NO feelings already, then get a PI to take photos evidence and a lawyer to fight for your cause as you still need to feed your kid.

[drunken]

sis, is your name Candy also?

[arsenal_84]

pity the kid the most
what's done is done.
in fact, most ppl never believe in the circle of karma until it hits them.

[Iemanishere]

Hi all, candy puss, may be in a bit of problem now but I am sure she would know how to hander it as this is the 2nd marriage, pls pls don't let her to look. Up to the woman charter as for what I see it's always take 2 hands to clap thus going to woman charter is just the chicken way of doing things and all well the guy would loss in all case.. The law in Singapore don't protect the guys at any cost... We should hear from the guys point as well..

I am sure there is more to it...

I have deal with many of this type of case before and there is always more to it that both party will not share, thus the court will rule to the woman's side 9 out of 10 times.. Regards what is the diff....

That is why many male lawyers are calling for the law in the charter to be change..


My advice to all bros, make as much money as possible, yes money may not be everything but trust it alway help in many family problem.. It is just how the world is..

Am a catholic but I tell you it no good seeing this happen, all leave it to the man upstairs..

[wally888]

Divorce is one solution, but dunn make it a habit.........