Life emotional setbacks. What would u do?

[see see only]

Originally Posted by JacqueMerlin

Talking about suckers? He is the biggest sucker I have ever seen.

Some ppl needed to be slap real hard to learn.

Once he got sucked ... until he is no longer suckable ... he will learn

[Fuckster]

Originally Posted by frivolous_ami

May be the problem lied in me having that easy to "con" face. I don't seek sympathy here, but keen to know how other guys have dealt with similar problems.
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Hi TS, I think the problem doesn't lies on whether you have a "conable" face or not. I think you are too kind and too eager to please all your ex gf. People tends to ask for more when being treated well by another person and somehow their expectation seems to grow more and more day by day, until a day when she finds you no longer able to meet her expectation, she dumps you in the dustbin. Try not to be too obedient next time when you found your next gf, instead of you paying for all the "ho liao" every time, let her contribute to the bill once in a while.

"You can be her perfect bf but never never be her obedient pet"

Well, actually I am not in the position to give you opinion lah, because I am only 2 years away to be eligible to join the "40 years old TIKO club" and somemore no gf at all

[ConsenualLust]

Originally Posted by frivolous_ami

what if you ve been the sucker everytime? Taken for a ride somemore everytime, to the point your buddies look at you as a pathetic loser. What would you do to improve the situation? Give up and take a foreign wife?

Well , learn from mistakes and never repeat them in relationships . What mistakes you commit now will be a reminder of what you should not do in the next one . Never give up !

[jameschong1]

[QUOTE=frivolous_ami;6106521]May be the problem lied in me having that easy to "con" face.

me think u have a kam lung face!

[euritage]

3 and ure moaning?

come on man... life's not baseball... there's no "STRIKE 3 AND URE OUT!"

It took me 7 different GF over 2 different continents to find the "perfect" girl...
Even then... She's not perfect... and neither am I... No one is, so dont bemoan the fact that you arent perfect.

I honestly believe that there's someone for everyone... It just takes time...
Don't worry...

Life's about experiences.... Live and let live...

[w00ters]

common dear TS who here in SBF live in a life bed full of roses??? there are always ups and downs in life...what u are encountering now is just the latter and soon your former will emerge in no time...always have the perseverance to keep going ahead and dun "LOOK BACK" what u encounter with and compare with the new found gal if u have any as all ppl are different...

end of day just 1 word...move on and continue

[boreland]

Originally Posted by Ichigo_Kurosaki

Try not to be hyper-affectionate & EMO (重感情) when you're in a relationship or meet someone you fancy, the lesser you be hurt. When you fall out of love, do not ask "Why? and How Come?" cos there is only 1 answer: "She Don't Love You Anymore". It's as simply straight forward as that..No need to probe further whether she has someone new or who did what wrong?. Turn around walk away with your self esteem intact. This is the most solemn burial ceremony of a lost love.

Learn to love yourself more. You be fine!

Much truth in these words. I guess it comes through personal experience and you are now a hardened soldier.

[mascato]

T.S , self relfection of what went wrong is in order if it happens more than twice . There is a problem somewhere .

[mustachio]

Originally Posted by Fuckster

Hi TS, I think the problem doesn't lies on whether you have a "conable" face or not. I think you are too kind and too eager to please all your ex gf. People tends to ask for more when being treated well by another person and somehow their expectation seems to grow more and more day by day, until a day when she finds you no longer able to meet her expectation, she dumps you in the dustbin. Try not to be too obedient next time when you found your next gf, instead of you paying for all the "ho liao" every time, let her contribute to the bill once in a while.

"You can be her perfect bf but never never be her obedient pet"

Well, actually I am not in the position to give you opinion lah, because I am only 2 years away to be eligible to join the "40 years old TIKO club" and somemore no gf at all

You are very wise!
I got my myself into this same shitty position where i spoilt my ex-wife and my present wife. Really pampered them like queens and then they took me for granted. Many of the bros here face the same situations maybe 7 out of 10 of us. The same story of happy courting, sex was great, everything also can, and then got married. Then lesser and lesser sex until almost zero after the kids came, more and more tempers and higher and higher expectations. They take so much but give so little or nothing. Then they blame us for not being romantic and it becomes a viscious cycle.

[JacqueMerlin]

Originally Posted by see see only

Some ppl needed to be slap real hard to learn.

Once he got sucked ... until he is no longer suckable ... he will learn

I agree.

This idiot just got involved with his neighbour's daughter. And now she is threatening him with rape cries. So he's been buying a lot of LV bags lately.