What I look for in a Fuck buddy

[euks]

I am not married so I am not experience in the field of having a FB after marriage.
I am curious if the players see things differently of having a FB relationship with a married person. Will the girl see themselves as a third party? Do they see it as having an affair?

My FB relationship were never purely sexual to begin with. Emotions are usually involved. Its just that I draw a clear line that this relationship will never develop into something permanent.

hmmmm.....

[Toyota Honda]

I believe the main thing about a succeefful FB is to be understanding and sompromisingf. Just like maintaining a gf/gf relationship oor marriage. Its just like a relationship where both parties are friends but love each other eanough to have sex while maintaining a friendship. So its definitely not easy. And fate does plays a part.

I personally have 1 longstanding one. She has been with me for 5 years even when I was attached. After my gf left me, she still remiained as my FB, not my gf cos there is still something lacking between us thats preventing the stsus upgarde. She is also understanding enoush to know that. Many time, we try to break from each other but end up calling each other in times of horniness...

There's once, I even brought her to the bank where a girl that I am interested in is working. Ask her to comment and apporoval somemore. After that, drive down to hotel to have a great sexxion.

[dna_gene]

Originally Posted by euks

I am curious if the players see things differently of having a FB relationship with a married person. Will the girl see themselves as a third party? Do they see it as having an affair?

My FB relationship were never purely sexual to begin with. Emotions are usually involved. Its just that I draw a clear line that this relationship will never develop into something permanent.

hmmmm.....

I believe it's pretty much the same. it's only when feeling grows too strong, the gal does not have the option to enter into a serious relationship. For my case, my gal wanted to get serious, even marking a date as the start of the serious relationship and became very possessive. I was not allow to date any other gals except my own wife. Though she always threatened me with my wife, she never look for my wife to find trouble.

If it's clearly FB relationship, I don't think they would see it as an affair but of cos we know that it's already an affair as long it's sex outside marriage. ^_^

My FB relationship were not purely sexual too, just that it's mainly lust and companionship. I did brought them for dinner etc, even without sex but feeling should not be out of control. That's a dangerous area to meddle with!

[dna_gene]

Originally Posted by Toyota Honda

I personally have 1 longstanding one. She has been with me for 5 years even when I was attached.

What can I say? You are one lucky bastard! ^_^

[yankim3]

do u all try to look for a FB that is attached or married. is it less trouble that way?

[dna_gene]

Originally Posted by yankim3

do u all try to look for a FB that is attached or married. is it less trouble that way?

Finding FB that's either attached or married has its pros and cons. The good side is that it's almost for sure they will not fall in love with you, just enjoy the sex and companionship, just like good friends who have sex. The downside is that once they break off or divorce with their other half, they will be very reliant on you and in no time at all, fall in love with you. Also if the other half ever found out, you are in for a scary rollercoast ride~!

So if you really want to go for attached or married gals, make sure they are in a very stable relationship and not having quarrels every time. Also make sure the work nature of the guy is not flexible enough for him to find out anything or if the gal's work nature requires lots of entertainment and overtime. ^_^

Nevertheless, the most important thing is to let nature takes its course, don't purposely go looking for them.

[Toyota Honda]

Originally Posted by dna_gene

What can I say? You are one lucky bastard! ^_^

Ya, Best thing is, when I started business and needed money, she just pass it to me and said no need to return. Just take it for all the meals I have been paying for her for the past 5 years.

[tomleo]

Originally Posted by Toyota Honda

There's once, I even brought her to the bank where a girl that I am interested in is working. Ask her to comment and apporoval somemore. After that, drive down to hotel to have a great sexxion.

Wah Brother..U win already..bring yr FB to ask for approval for a girl u r interested in.....

[humpcheepang]

Originally Posted by dna_gene

Finding FB that's either attached or married has its pros and cons....

You bet, I mean why does a attached/married lady wants to have a FB, is it becos that she is having problem with her hubby that she inclines to look for a companion? She maybe lonely and horny as hubby may have FBs too.....Just a sudden thot, don't be offended bros, what if 1 day after a sex session with FB, both of you walk out of the hotel room, and found that your wife with your FB's hubby coming out from another room next door!!! Seow....just like TV drama....

Hmmmmm.....a saying goes, YOU FxxK SOMEONE'S WIFE, SOMEONE FxxKS YOUR WIFE.......can you take it???

[ToxicQueen]

wat i look 4 in a fuck buddy ..... hmmmm, of course one who can sexify me lah.
few years ago, got 2 FBs. one i dump him after 3-4 weeks as i find tat he
cannot sexify me lor. then next one is good n we carry on until i found a bf.
so after tat, only stick 2 my bf lor.. but now break off already.. sad..
wanted 2 contact back tat FB, but his contact no. changed already so no contact liao. no choice lor.

[d@redevil]

Originally Posted by ToxicQueen

wat i look 4 in a fuck buddy ..... hmmmm, of course one who can sexify me lah.
few years ago, got 2 FBs. one i dump him after 3-4 weeks as i find tat he
cannot sexify me lor. then next one is good n we carry on until i found a bf.
so after tat, only stick 2 my bf lor.. but now break off already.. sad..
wanted 2 contact back tat FB, but his contact no. changed already so no contact liao. no choice lor.

wan to b my FB den...hee...

[JIKED D]

Originally Posted by ToxicQueen

.. but now break off already.. sad..
wanted 2 contact back tat FB, but his contact no. changed already so no contact liao. no choice lor.

I wonder how many will pm you to ask you to try them out

[yankim3]

Originally Posted by dna_gene

Nevertheless, the most important thing is to let nature takes its course, don't purposely go looking for them.

yeah u made some very important points

[DTCEPL]

Originally Posted by tissue

So guys, not only the girls get sticky, the guys get sticky too! In fact, I estimated that he is likely to get stickier the 3rd time round..

A women's point of view..

Cheers / Tissue

Yeah, i fully agreed. I myself got sticky with my gal when we get closer each day. Really difficult to keep my cool and not to lose temper when she is with another man. Just cant helped getting angry and frustrated.

Cheers

[tissue]

Originally Posted by DTCEPL

Yeah, i fully agreed. I myself got sticky with my gal when we get closer each day. Really difficult to keep my cool and not to lose temper when she is with another man. Just cant helped getting angry and frustrated.

Cheers

Hi,

We are all human beings and it's hard to control our emotions..I mean, the reason we are different from animals is because we can control our actions..

I believe that sometimes guys tend to use the little head to think and when we are all having a good time, the little thinks that it's not too bad to be like this and would like to keep on playing in this manner...That's lust talking, not real affection..

It's hard if there is no proper communication between FB..Certain rules have to be set out..I used to forbid all FB's to hug or hold me at a particular disco that I used to patronised..I mean everybody knows who I am and I cannot have one FB talk to another right? Kinkier ones would start whispering into my ear (at a disco, remember?) what he is going to do to me later that night and I would be eagerly anticipating his next actions..It's fun when they do that..Now all my memories comes flooding back man..

One possessive FB started stalking me there and watching every guy that I was talking with and would start to question why was I so touchy with another guy, how come the other guy can hold the small of my back when he cannot do this..blah blah blah..

A FB must understand that this is not a boy & Gal relationship. This is merely a sexual game played by 2 consenting adults, with achieving orgasms frequently as the final goal..

Lastly, I firmly believe that no lies or false promises should be given to either party just to get the person into bed..

Cheers / Tissue