personal advise based on true story

[simple2kee]

Originally Posted by Elwina

TS.. just remember you live your life for yourself and no one else and you DO NOT have to care about what others say and ONLY be responsible for your own actions !

i agreed with u. we are responsible for our own action, no 1 else.

[Oink Oink]

Originally Posted by Elwina

Yes totally agree.. the rich can be quite rich over in china.. totally impressed!!

The rich people there are filthy rich!! 20 or 30 years down the road, the PRCs may be looking down on us for our kiasu, kiasi.... si mi boon kia...lah!!

[spready]

Originally Posted by sun814

Originally Posted by sun814
If TS thinks your experience is sensational. What about mine? My wife is from prc and she is a former FL and has a daughter from her previous marriage, of course, my parents objected vigoriously as i am also from a quite a well-to-do family. my mum chased me out. they didn't attend my marriage, the wedding was only witnessed by 2 close friends and had a simple dinner with 5-6 other friends. We have been living happily together, i treat the daughter as my very own, so does she.

My point is that even though we should be filial to our parents who bore and raise us, but i believe happiness should be determined by our very own. If u think she is the very one that can bring happiness to u n her, just go for it. I believe our parents will bless us eventually when they see that their son is living happily .



My case is even made worse because my wife is older than me by 3 years (she is 42 already), haha, so not old cow eating young grass. Maybe my parents are afraid that she cannot bore them a grand-child (i m the only son in the family and first time marriage). To me true love is hard to come by, so must treasure them.

bro... thanks for sharing...
salute u for ur strength & courage..
hope u all the best in ur marriage...
cheers..

[rav_taz]

TS, if u really love her I wont mind whether who she is or where she is from.
Now its the 21st century, already everyone is equal nothing race, nationality.
If you really love her you shld cherish her, she's oso frm a well to do family and is not all out to cheat ur money oso.

I understand that your parents object but our life are short, we shld cherish our own happiness. Things might be difficult with your family objecting but eventually when they knw that you r happy, slowly they will accept you and your gf. I feel that you shld be more decisive and take control of your own life and happiness like wat bro sun814 did.

[ginogrego]

Don't put all your egg in one prata bro.

[IdontKnow]

Originally Posted by sun814

haha, quite true, my wife has quite a collection of gold, jewelleries, branded watches and handbags when we got married.

All earnings from her FL? LOLOL