Why do men stray

[TUAEYE]

Guys and girls will never be contented , that why must have a change of pussy and dick

[grant]

I will like share my view on why people stray.

When a guy is married, he is the happiest guy on earth marrying the girl of his dream. Let say the guy has 10 criterias which the wife fulfills 7 of them.
Due to greed by human nature, the guy wants all 10 criterias. But as human is not perfect, the guy goes in search for the remaining 3 to make up the perfect 10. Thats where straying started.

However if the guy think wisely, he should be thinking that the girl at home has the 7 out of the 10 criterias instead of the girl outside 3 out of 10.

The above do applies to female too. Think twice before straying.

[rob_onny]

Well, i guess the reason(s) may b 1 or more of the following...
Gangs prefer married bu(s), b'cos:

1. Mostly these Abalones r well marinaded & experienced...
2. Eat these Abalones secretly in hide-outs...
3. Mostly these Abalones come w/no string attached...
4. Most of these Abalones r not sticky...
5. & etc...

Gangs prefer single bu(s), b'cos:

1. Mostly these Abalones r fresh & un-cook...
2. Eating these Abalones w/o fear of having troubles w/Abalone's spouse...
3. Mostly these Abalones come w/innocent love...
4. Mostly these Abalones need cares & attentions...
5. & etc...

Sorry 2 bros & siss if i'm wrong...

Originally Posted by FrOsTy-CoLd

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Why some man prefer to have affairs with only married women? While others, any women also can?
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[KeanuReeves]

Bro rob_onny.. you'd made me felt like eating Abalones outside now..
Personally, i think humans (both males & females) may stray because of all sorts of reasons..

[rokhard]

Originally Posted by grant

I will like share my view on why people stray.

When a guy is married, he is the happiest guy on earth marrying the girl of his dream. Let say the guy has 10 criterias which the wife fulfills 7 of them.
Due to greed by human nature, the guy wants all 10 criterias. But as human is not perfect, the guy goes in search for the remaining 3 to make up the perfect 10. Thats where straying started.

However if the guy think wisely, he should be thinking that the girl at home has the 7 out of the 10 criterias instead of the girl outside 3 out of 10.

The above do applies to female too. Think twice before straying.

You forgot something: Oxytocin: http://www.reuniting.info/science/ox...health_bonding. This is a chemical that makes us so happy, so crazy about our loved ones: http://www.oxytocin.org/oxytoc/love-science.html. The problem is that it lasts only for a short time, at most 2 years: http://www.articlealley.com/article_34235_35.html.

The reason why sexual chemistry lasts only for a short time is because couples need to work on their bonding, beyond the sexual chemistry, rose-tinted feelings and attraction.

Failure to move the relationship beyond the lust or sexual chemistry is the real reason why men/women stray. Needless to say, any strong negative events (lies, breach of trust, unfaithful acts etc) also have the effect of not only affecting the oxytocin levels but also damaging the bonds.

[cockenadan]

Originally Posted by FrOsTy-CoLd

hi bro, are you bored with "home cooked'?

Why? you trying to become tabao as well?

[koolAid]

Hmnn, for what my 5 cents is worth, I believe the beauty of a woman is what arouses a man and his strength. And the femininity is what he seeks.

Another thing is validation, in short, wife's been giving him an "F" and then another woman comes along and says "You're an "A" to me."

When I was still with my ex-gf, I couldn't help but look at other woman and sometimes even fantasizing. If there was any chance, I might have cheated on her, because she didn't make me feel like a man. She didn't attempt to arouse or seduce me and I was frustrated. For me, that might be a beginning of a straying, a seed is planted and frustrations water it.

So why do men stray? Validation.. because he is seeking for validation in other places regardless of what reasons.

Later on, I realized that she did not and was not obliged to make me feel like a man. I simply needed to work harder and improve myself, my masculinity would allure her. Masculinity to me is not just about ur bods, it comprises of a lot, especially stability in all aspects. You can be all, but she has to feel safe to accept your all and for her to reveal her intimate feminine side to you.

[Chanelfingers]

Originally Posted by koolAid

Later on, I realized that she did not and was not obliged to make me feel like a man. I simply needed to work harder and improve myself, my masculinity would allure her. Masculinity to me is not just about ur bods, it comprises of a lot, especially stability in all aspects. You can be all, but she has to feel safe to accept your all and for her to reveal her intimate feminine side to you.

That is so true...
I'd increase ur points soon.

[freezetheDB]

like what bro koolAid said, many men actually seek validation.

People, like you and me, sometimes forgot why we fall in love with the person in the first place. Plus all the work/stress, at times make a r/s a downer.

[ah rat]

Bro rob_onny,I am stray by those words

[FrOsTy-CoLd]

Originally Posted by cockenadan

Why? you trying to become tabao as well?

Bro cockenadan, I am, for him only,

[rob_onny]

Bro Ah Rat, what words make u stray huh?? ...

Originally Posted by ah rat

Bro rob_onny,I am stray by those words

[ah rat]

Originally Posted by rob_onny

Bro Ah Rat, what words make u stray huh?? ...

Abalones

[starystarynite]

Temptation, boring sexual lifestyle with wifey, change of taste, too stress up n looking for thrill

[starystarynite]

Men can seperate love n sex. Why women cannot? Majori ty of them....not referring to sme sis here though..

We can fuck n forget. Remain fren.

Women cannot. Must love then fuck? I stray does nt mean men dont love wifey n family right...hai....