The Asian Commercial Sex Scene  

Go Back   The Asian Commercial Sex Scene > For stuff you can't discuss with your Facebook Account > Adult Discussions about SEX

Notices

Adult Discussions about SEX Misc chit chat about sex, whores, girls, love and lust. This section is a ZAP FREE zone.

User Tag List

Reply
 
Thread Tools
  #46  
Old 19-10-2007, 05:27 PM
Tomahawk's Avatar
Tomahawk Tomahawk is offline
Samster
 
Join Date: Dec 2001
Posts: 165
Mentioned: 0 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 0 Post(s)
My Reputation: Points: 245 / Power: 24
Tomahawk is a Helpful and Caring SamsterTomahawk is a Helpful and Caring SamsterTomahawk is a Helpful and Caring Samster
I Yearn To Return To Vietnam

Lan and I settled in our seats. I made sure we ordered our drinks before I started our talk. Lan ordered a strawberry milkshake while I had an iced latte. I looked at Lan. While she still looked pretty, her mood wasn't quite the same as that the day before. Gone was the smile, probably because of the unsmiling look on my face. I started my probe.

Me: Did you enjoy yourself last night?

Lan shook her head.

Me: No?

I almost blurted out, "No? I thought you were having a good time with that man!". Good thing I did not.

Me: So what happened last night? I waited so long for you but you did not come back.

Lan looked uneasy. She started fidgeting with her fingers and looked away.

Me: *in a gentle voice* Come, tell me. Tell me what happened.

Lan did not want to look at me. She looked as if she had some unspeakable difficulty.

Me: Lan, I know something must have happened. Tell me... Let me know what happened.

Still no response from her. I pulled my chair closer to her, and draped my arm around her shoulder, pulling her over slightly.

Me: Come, Lan, tell me slowly. What happened?

Lan: ... *trying to look for the correct words* Me English no good...

Me: Never mind... it's okay. Just say slowly. You needed money, so you went off with that guy to do it?

No response.

Our drinks arrived. Lan stirred her drink round and round with the long spoon, still refusing to talk.

Me: Okay, okay. Never mind... Lan, I'm leaving this afternoon.
Lan: I know.
Me: Do you have anything to say to me? *expecting something nice from her, some sort of consolation after all that had happened*
Lan: Take care.

I leaned backwards slightly and looked away.

Me: That's all? Just "take care"? You don't have anything else to tell me?

Lan shook her head.

Emotions were starting to get the better of me. Tears started to well up in my eyes. For the first time since I met Lan on early Friday morning, I was starting to cry. Looking back, it had only been about 37 hours since I got to know her at Apocalypse Now, but so many things had happened since, it felt like I had known her for a long time. She had made me cry.

Me: *in a choking voice* After I go back to Singapore, will you remember me?
Lan: *looking at me* I remember you.
Me: *voice trembling* Will you miss me?
Lan: I miss you.

I knew that Lan didn't mean what she said.

Me: Never mind. Okay, can I make a final request? Later, will you send me to the airport?

Lan shook her head. I was disappointed.

Me: Why? You not free?

Lan shook her head again. This girl seemed like she had a lot of things on her mind, but she couldn't get round to telling me what it was that was bothering her.

By now, my tears had started to flow freely. I must have been an ugly sight. Lan removed a piece of tissue from my pack and handed it to me. I wiped the warm, flowing liquid off my swollen eyes. I felt embarrassed to look at Lan, and turned to my side.

Lan: You okay? Don't cry...
Me: *trying to hold back my tears and calm down* I'm okay...

As if heaven was symphatising with me, it had started to rain. Some rain had found its way onto our table. As Lan and I moved the drinks and serviettes inwards, I noticed that her shades had gotten its share of the splash too. I retrieved a piece of tissue and reached for the shades.

"No, no, no!" Lan snatched the items from my hands. She couldn't bear to see me drying her belonging for her in the state I was in. Soon the rain got so heavy it didn't make sense to stay put at our table anymore. We shifted elsewhere. I was feeling much better now.

Me: Lan, you know I like you. Can you tell me what happened this morning?

By now, I still had not managed to get any answer from her. Lan's phone rang. She tried to talk in a normal voice, peppering her lines with "Yes, Papa." I sort of guessed that the caller was the old, big-bellied Caucasion I had seen in Bar Stop the previous night. He had called for a casual chat. After she was done, I tried to probe for a while more, but Lan had no answer for me.

Lan whipped out her phone again, this time calling a friend. She spoke in Vietnamese, and from her tone I could guess that she was describing the situation to whoever she was talking to. Lan passed her phone to me. I was right. The other person on the line sounded familiar. It was Lien, Lan's colleague at Bar Stop, the one who had blown the whistle on Lan the night before.

Lien: Hi John. This is Lien... You remember me?
Me: Hello Lien. Yes, I remember you.
Lien: John, I'll explain to you what happened. Lan's mum is in hospital. She needs the money, so last night, she followed the man back to the hotel.
Me: Okay...

Before she could continue, I put the phone aside and turned to Lan, who had been intently observing the situation.

Me: Lan, now I understand...
Lan: Yes. Later Lien come, okay? She talking you...

I didn't want Lien to come. I didn't want someone to interrupt my last chance to be alone with Lan. Furthermore, I was running late for my flight. I had yet to return to Mondial to fetch my luggage.

Me: Lan, I will go back to Singapore later. Now is the last time I'm with you. Can we be alone?

Lan protested, insisting that she needed Lien to help explain the situation to me. In the interest of clarity, I relented. Lien arrived in a cab in five minutes. I saw the girl who had tried to get close to me the night before.

Lien: Hi John.
Me: Hello Lien.

She plonked herself into a seat to my right. I offered the drinks menu to her. After she submitted her order, serious business began.

Lien: John, you know, Lan did not want to do it. But her mother is in hospital and she needs the money. She won't do it again.

After a pause, she continued.

Lien: It was her first time and she didn't like it. But she had no choice. She likes you a lot, and wants to say sorry. She wants both of you to forget about it.
Me: I see...
Lien: Yes... It was the first time she met that young man.
Me: Huh? I thought she already knew both the young and old men?
Lien: No, the old man is a regular. The young one only came last night. He talked to the old man and he recommended Lan to her. She feels very bad. She's a good girl, and did it because she needed the money. Actually, she was working in a restaurant when she came to Saigon. She just started work at Bar Stop one week ago...

With that, she turned to look at Lan with a quizzing look and uttered something in Vietnamese. Lan responded.

Lien: Yes, only one week. She wants to say sorry to you. No more, okay?
Me: But if she needed the money, she could have asked me.
Lien: She's shy! She just knew you two days ago. She could not ask you for money.

I turned to look at Lan and gave her a slight smile. I put my hand on her lap, giving it a light pat. She held my hand in hers. Lan and Lien engaged in a conversation.

Lien: John, you know, this morning she went to your hotel, but she could not go in.
John: Huh? You mean, Lan went to my hotel? And the Front Desk did not let her in?
Lien: Yes.
John: What time was that?
Lien: 8:00am.

I did a quick mental recall. 8:00am was about the time I got up. Gosh, I didn't know that Lien had been downstairs looking for me! Back in my mind, I could picture her having just escaped from the clutches of the angmoh and hurrying to the hotel to seek solace in her boyfriend. My god, I had misunderstood her all these while. But something came up in my mind.

Me: But if she couldn't enter, how come she didn't call me? I could have gone downstairs to meet her.
Lien: Her phone...

She reached for Lan's phone and held it close to me. "You know her phone is no good! She could not call you because there was no power!" I had a look at the power icon. Indeed, it showed only one bar of power left. Her phone battery must have almost reached its useful life and the memory effect must have limited even a long charge to just a fraction of the original capacity. No wonder she had insisted on going back home the night before to get her charger.

Me: I'm sorry, Lan. *holding her hand tightly*

Lan gave me a smile.

Turning to Lien, I got her to ask Lan if she would send me to the airport. The answer was positive. I was baffled. Why did Lan reject my request earlier? Lien responded that Lan did not understand what I was saying, and conveniently said No. I wasn't convinced, and protested. "But the past few days, we had no problems communicating. She could understand what I said!" Lien would have none of that, insisting on her point that Lan had said No simply because she couldn't understand what I was saying.

In any case, all was well and I had to go. Lien called for a cab and told Lan and me the plan ahead. The cab would bring the three of us to Mondial Hotel and Lan and I would alight. Lien would continue on to Bar Stop, where she would be starting work, and Lan and I would go fetch my luggage and grab a second cab to the airport. Our cab came and amidst pouring rain, I sheltered the three of us carefully so that we got on board the cab dry. Lien thoughtfully sat in the front passenger seat, leaving the lovebirds alone behind.

Outside the Mondial, I shook Lien's hand, thanking her from the bottom of my heart for clearing the confusion, before saying goodbye to her. I left Lan outside the lobby as I didn't want her to get into any awkward situation anymore with the Front Desk staff. I lugged my heavy luggage out. As a cab driver thoughtfully reversed his vehicle into the porch so that we wouldn't get wet, Lan offered to carry my laptop, like how docile Japanese women help their working husbands with their briefcases. I gave a smile when I saw that. Soon we were on our way.
__________________
Tomahawk
  #47  
Old 19-10-2007, 05:28 PM
Tomahawk's Avatar
Tomahawk Tomahawk is offline
Samster
 
Join Date: Dec 2001
Posts: 165
Mentioned: 0 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 0 Post(s)
My Reputation: Points: 245 / Power: 24
Tomahawk is a Helpful and Caring SamsterTomahawk is a Helpful and Caring SamsterTomahawk is a Helpful and Caring Samster
I Yearn To Return To Vietnam

Once again I relished the company of my girl. With her head on my shoulder and her hand in mine, I experienced nothing but sweetness in my heart. This was made all the better with the superb view I had. Lan was dressed in this low-cut dress that showed her cleavage and part of her bra. I stole many a glance at her chest. Of course, we exchanged sweet nothings with each other, as both of us were locked in a mini embrace, in the comfort of the taxi amid the heavy rain outside. I suddenly remembered something.

Me: Lan, I'm going to the new International Terminal. You know? Terminal, you understand?
Lan: Yes, I know. No worry. Driver know.

The new International Terminal at Tan Soh Nhat Airport had opened just a few days before. For a girl her age and for someone who had not travelled out of the country, her knowledge of things around her was remarkable. She was streetwise. Halfway to the airport, we came to a slight jam at a traffic junction. A taxi and a motorbike had collided. Lan and I both shared our concerns for the safety of the men involved, but as soon as we left the accident scene, we were back in our little world. In a matter of minutes, we arrived at the airport.

With the trolley laden with my bags, I motioned to her to follow me through the door. She did not move. What was happening?

Lan: John, you go. I cannot go.
Me: You cannot go in??? Only I can go in?

Apparently security considerations dictated that only passengers could enter the airport terminals. Everybody else who had no business to be inside had to stay away. And I actually thought I could do a bit of shopping after checking in my luggage. I needed to get a gift for Lan! What should I do, I thought. I fished out my mobile phone, and displayed a message that I had composed in the early morning, just before I had fallen asleep. I had been seething with anger then and had intended to send that out but did not. I let Lan have a look at it. This is what she saw:

"I was so nice to you. I waited for you the whole night but you just disappeared. I wanted to buy a teddy bear for you. But now, you will celebrate your birthday alone."

I cried for the second time as I passed my phone to her.

Me: Lan, you know, I did not buy anything for your birthday. Now I want to buy something from the shops inside but you cannot go in!
Lan: It's okay. No problem, okay?

Just then, I had an idea. I opened up my briefcase. I found the bag where which had housed the stuff I had purchased from the 24-hour store on our first night. I kept the still-unused Durex in my pocket and gave the canned drinks to her. I knew it was silly to give canned drinks to Lan as a birthday and parting gift, but that was the best I could manage then.

Me: Lan, I bought these drinks that night. You remember? We went to the hotel...
Lan: I know, I know...
Me: Now, I have nothing to give you...
Lan: It's okay, no problem.
Me: ... So I can only give you these.

All through the conversation, I was fighting back my tears. I offered to pay for Lan's cab ride back to town but she did not want to accept my money. I reached out to her and hugged her tight. I really liked her a lot, and I wanted to be with her. But I had to leave her there and then. Boy, this was another tearful farewell, just like what I had experienced with Tingting outside People's Park Complex back in July 2004. Why did I always get into situations like this???

Me: I will miss you, Lan. I like you so much! I will miss you.
Lan: I will miss you too.

I gave Lan a smooch. I tried to probe with my tongue. I wanted us to play that tongue-biting game we had played at Lush. Then, while she was seated on my lap, she had reached for my tongue and given little bites with her teeth repeatedly and I had returned the favour. I liked that sensation. Now, during our last few minutes together, I wanted to relive that experience.

Me: Lan, you remember that night? We were at Lush... You bit my tongue. Bite me again okay?
Lan: *whispering* No... Many people looking.

She was right. There were scored of people around us, people who had come to send their friends and relatives off. I didn't care. I pulled her close to me again and gave a deep French kiss. I sought out her tongue and gave her little bites.

It was time to go. I let go of Lan and wiped the tears off my face as I tried to regain my composure. I turned around and headed for the X-ray machine, fighting an intense battle in my mind. I was trying hard to come to terms with having to part with my loved one and leave her behind. As I was done with the scan and started to enter the building, I turned to look at Lan. She had already started to board her cab. I noticed that she did not even wave a final goodbye like what my parents and I do at Changi Airport. She had left as soon as I had entered the terminal. Shouldn't she have given me a last wave? Oh well... Perhaps it was just me. All afternoon, she had been so calm and collected. I had been the emotional one.

I made it a point to dispose of the pack of Durex. As I waited for my flight I recounted the series of events that had happened during this short trip of mine. On Wednesday night I had gotten to know Yen, the Atlas Computers Vietnam account manager at the cocktail reception. She had introduced me to Apocalypse Now. The following night, she couldn't meet, so I had scooted off to that nightspot alone. It was there where I had gotten to know Lan. Following our quick shot to intimacy, we had made ourselves comfortable at Bar Stop, then the unnamed hotel. Unfortunately, I hadn't quite made it as far as I had wanted to. That same night, we had met, amidst rain and flood, outside Bar Stop. We had then adjourned to Mondial Hotel, where Lan had been barred entry. We had then proceeded to have supper at Highlands Coffee and then dance at Lush. Subsequently, we had returned to Bar Stop, where she had disappeared with that Caucasian, much to my anger. And just that afternoon, we had sorted things out, amidst heavy rain again, at Highlands Coffee. Then we had just had a tearful farewell here at the airport. We had certainly come a long way... Even though things had gone a big round and at the end of it all, I still had not had a chance to bed this girl, my trip had at least come to a good ending.

I sent a quick message to Lan. "Lan, thanks for accompanying me to the airport. I love you and miss you. I will call you when I reach Singapore, okay?" Lan's reply came almost instantaneously. "I miss you too, John. I wait for your call. I love you."

Things did not seem as bad as I had thought earlier that day. The mood was certainly better now. I boarded my flight with a smile.
__________________
Tomahawk

Last edited by Tomahawk; 19-10-2007 at 05:47 PM.
  #48  
Old 20-10-2007, 09:50 AM
Bry_n Bry_n is offline
Samster
 
Join Date: Oct 2007
Posts: 150
Mentioned: 0 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 9 Post(s)
My Reputation: Points: 26 / Power: 0
Bry_n deserves a Tiger! - He's a Good Guy
Re: I Yearn To Return To Vietnam

a nice real life story indeed..hope everything goes well for u all rite
  #49  
Old 20-10-2007, 06:24 PM
japboy's Avatar
japboy japboy is offline
Samster
 
Join Date: Aug 2003
Location: somewhere~ under d rainbow, blue bird flies~!
Posts: 470
Mentioned: 0 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 0 Post(s)
My Reputation: Points: 987 / Power: 22
japboy is a splendid one to beholdjapboy is a splendid one to beholdjapboy is a splendid one to beholdjapboy is a splendid one to beholdjapboy is a splendid one to beholdjapboy is a splendid one to beholdjapboy is a splendid one to beholdjapboy is a splendid one to behold
Talking Re: I Yearn To Return To Vietnam

bro.. u disappeared so long and now came up w dis thread? tmd.... no wonder u have been hidding in HCM..

dey r brothers in HCM.. go visit d viet thread and get 2 meet dem.. dey r super friendly man~~

well, ur story reminds me of d time i'm in HCM n hanoi man.. and YES, HCM hotels r ALL NOT GAL FRIENDLY de... geez.. i guess communist country does has its drawback as well... but in hanoi at least i get 2 bring gals back to my rm for free .. i'm sort of a regular to that hotel.. muz gibe face rite..

but bro.. jz wanna warn u.. be wary of viet gals.. dey r pro when coming to games... jz b careful n dun sink too deep ok?

i been to apocalyto now b4.. .cramped place n packed.. esp weekends... i did had fun dere as well.. but knowing dat hotels r super unfriendly, i dun bother.. as i oso dun trust local hotels recommended by d gal as well... hmm...

mayb time to go a bit of catching up w our viet brothers...

anyway, go drop by our TP thread once a while n come out for a drink o two man..

welcome back
__________________
Blatancy with subtlety - a sublime phase... easy to say but hard to master~!
  #50  
Old 20-10-2007, 06:55 PM
MiniHawk's Avatar
MiniHawk MiniHawk is offline
Samster
 
Join Date: Oct 2007
Location: Anfield
Posts: 223
Mentioned: 0 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 0 Post(s)
My Reputation: Points: 811 / Power: 18
MiniHawk is a splendid one to beholdMiniHawk is a splendid one to beholdMiniHawk is a splendid one to beholdMiniHawk is a splendid one to beholdMiniHawk is a splendid one to beholdMiniHawk is a splendid one to beholdMiniHawk is a splendid one to behold
Re: I Yearn To Return To Vietnam

bro Tomahawk, very touching story, waiting for more
  #51  
Old 20-10-2007, 07:35 PM
faszcom faszcom is offline
Samster
 
Join Date: Mar 2003
Posts: 454
Mentioned: 0 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 0 Post(s)
My Reputation: Points: 410 / Power: 22
faszcom is a living Saint! - you won't find betterfaszcom is a living Saint! - you won't find betterfaszcom is a living Saint! - you won't find betterfaszcom is a living Saint! - you won't find betterfaszcom is a living Saint! - you won't find better
Re: I Yearn To Return To Vietnam

Not really all HCM hotel is like that, usually it non gal-friendly for those 3 stars hotel onward.
The small hotel which i stay in district 3 which own by a Taiwanese do not have such problem, the gal just have to provide her ic to the reception if she want stay overnight. Somemore the hotel staff can call "massage" gal for u
__________________
Just Fall From Heaven.......
问世间情为何物!!!
  #52  
Old 20-10-2007, 07:42 PM
Reaper's Avatar
Reaper Reaper is offline
Samster
 
Join Date: Jan 2002
Location: Vietnam Fruit Orchard
Posts: 3,708
Mentioned: 0 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 0 Post(s)
My Reputation: Points: 1523 / Power: 24
Reaper has a brilliant futureReaper has a brilliant futureReaper has a brilliant futureReaper has a brilliant futureReaper has a brilliant futureReaper has a brilliant futureReaper has a brilliant futureReaper has a brilliant futureReaper has a brilliant futureReaper has a brilliant futureReaper has a brilliant future
Re: I Yearn To Return To Vietnam

Quote:
Originally Posted by faszcom View Post
Not really all HCM hotel is like that, usually it non gal-friendly for those 3 stars hotel onward.
The small hotel which i stay in district 3 which own by a Taiwanese do not have such problem, the gal just have to provide her ic to the reception if she want stay overnight. Somemore the hotel staff can call "massage" gal for u
I diasgree on this point...all hotels are not ger-friendly. Just that some either have connections or bride their way so that they either get advance warning or dont get disturb by the authorities.
  #53  
Old 20-10-2007, 08:10 PM
Reaper's Avatar
Reaper Reaper is offline
Samster
 
Join Date: Jan 2002
Location: Vietnam Fruit Orchard
Posts: 3,708
Mentioned: 0 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 0 Post(s)
My Reputation: Points: 1523 / Power: 24
Reaper has a brilliant futureReaper has a brilliant futureReaper has a brilliant futureReaper has a brilliant futureReaper has a brilliant futureReaper has a brilliant futureReaper has a brilliant futureReaper has a brilliant futureReaper has a brilliant futureReaper has a brilliant futureReaper has a brilliant future
Re: I Yearn To Return To Vietnam

Quote:
Originally Posted by faszcom View Post
Not really all HCM hotel is like that, usually it non gal-friendly for those 3 stars hotel onward.
The small hotel which i stay in district 3 which own by a Taiwanese do not have such problem, the gal just have to provide her ic to the reception if she want stay overnight. Somemore the hotel staff can call "massage" gal for u
I diasgree on this point...all hotels are not ger-friendly. Just that some either have connections or bride their way so that they either get advance warning or dont get disturb by the authorities.
  #54  
Old 21-10-2007, 01:37 AM
Odysseus's Avatar
Odysseus Odysseus is offline
Samster
 
Join Date: Oct 2007
Posts: 24
Mentioned: 0 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 0 Post(s)
My Reputation: Points: 26 / Power: 0
Odysseus deserves a Tiger! - He's a Good Guy
Re: I Yearn To Return To Vietnam

My impression has always been the same as that of faszcom. You mean i have been wrong as well and taking all the risk ???

How often are raids on these lesser hotels ? I am curious on the enforcement of the law. Thanks for any info.
  #55  
Old 21-10-2007, 06:01 AM
Reaper's Avatar
Reaper Reaper is offline
Samster
 
Join Date: Jan 2002
Location: Vietnam Fruit Orchard
Posts: 3,708
Mentioned: 0 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 0 Post(s)
My Reputation: Points: 1523 / Power: 24
Reaper has a brilliant futureReaper has a brilliant futureReaper has a brilliant futureReaper has a brilliant futureReaper has a brilliant futureReaper has a brilliant futureReaper has a brilliant futureReaper has a brilliant futureReaper has a brilliant futureReaper has a brilliant futureReaper has a brilliant future
Re: I Yearn To Return To Vietnam

Quote:
Originally Posted by Odysseus View Post
My impression has always been the same as that of faszcom. You mean i have been wrong as well and taking all the risk ???

How often are raids on these lesser hotels ? I am curious on the enforcement of the law. Thanks for any info.
even For locals, it is illegal for a guy and girl to be in the same room alone after 9pm/11pm. not sure which time. that is why you see so many of the couples parking theirs bikes at parks or desserted roads coupling together.

As for how often the raids are, I have no idea, my guess is usually just before holiday season. but if your regular hotel tells you one day that you cant bring the ger up, then you know something is wrong.

btw this disscusion whould be at the HCMC thread in the International forum, not here....
  #56  
Old 22-10-2007, 01:27 AM
haha_123 haha_123 is offline
Samster
 
Join Date: Oct 2007
Posts: 335
Mentioned: 0 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 6 Post(s)
My Reputation: Points: 273 / Power: 18
haha_123 is one of the Best!haha_123 is one of the Best!haha_123 is one of the Best!
Re: I Yearn To Return To Vietnam

Bro Tomahawk, your story is very touching indeed. I thought that I'm very "chi qing", but you are much, much more "chi qing" than me!!!
Please be aware that Vietnamese girls are very street-smart, and you have no idea what they are doing behind your back in Vietnam. Please spend more time observing your gal before plunging deeper into this relationship. Although I don't know you personally, I don't wish to see you getting hurt. Please be careful, take care, and all the best to you.
  #57  
Old 22-10-2007, 09:50 AM
Tomahawk's Avatar
Tomahawk Tomahawk is offline
Samster
 
Join Date: Dec 2001
Posts: 165
Mentioned: 0 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 0 Post(s)
My Reputation: Points: 245 / Power: 24
Tomahawk is a Helpful and Caring SamsterTomahawk is a Helpful and Caring SamsterTomahawk is a Helpful and Caring Samster
I Yearn To Return To Vietnam

---
Thanks Bry_n, japboy, Minihawk, faszcom, Reaper, Odysseus and haha_123 for your comments. Thanks for enduring with me through this very long story... It's so ironical isn't it? I was in Saigon for only 4D/3N yet I could write a story that spanned four pages. That's not "chi qing" but "cheong hei".

japboy, sorry, I disappeared for so long. I did come in to this forum once in a few months just to "see-see-look-look" but this time round, my encounter in Saigon proved too much for me to bear. I wanted to share my experience with brothers here, like how I posted my story about Tingting back in 2004 -- I'm still in contact with her.

Part of my reason for starting this thread is that I needed some advice from the brothers here on the status of my relationship with Lan. I sort of have the answer now, due to further developments in the past month. As I said in the story, I had a good farewell with Lan, after I learnt that she had gone off with that angmoh due to family reasons/financial difficulties. However, over the next few days, I began to have some doubts. I got conflicting signals... You know, when I arrived home, I called up this girl, and between talking to her, I could hear her talking excitedly to her housemates, ".... Singapore!" She sounded really happy that I called her and I had no doubt then that she liked me.

However, thinking back, I also recalled seeing a few tell-tale signs during our last moments together. Remember my final time at Bar Stop? Lan's friend Lien had told me that Lan had been sleeping with men all the while, but the following day, at Highlands Coffee, the story changed. They claimed that Lan had arrived in Saigon only the week before. Also, if Lan's mum had been hospitalised, would she still have been in the mood to do dancing at Lush? There are a couple other things that I could recall back then that make me doubt Lan, but I can't recall every detail now.

However, through all the things that we have been through, I now know for sure that she likes me. Remember that she keeps telling me about her mum (sharing her family matters with me) and she wants me to visit Saigon so that her mum and I can meet; Her mum has been very curious about me too. There was also once that she let me talk to her housemate and the latter actually said that Lan liked me a lot and that if I really cared for her, I should send US$100 to her so that she could buy stuff. I was taken aback and did not promise anything. I thought that came from Lan, and I felt funny that she would ask me for money. The next thing I knew, Lan sent me an SMS with just one word, "Sorry". I didn't know what she meant, and when I called her up to test her, Lan said that the US$100 thing was from her housemate, and she didn't know beforehand that that this would happen. "I don't like!" she proclaimed loudly in her usual Vietnamese-laced tone then (OK, I'm getting dramatic here again!)

Having said all that, I'm not saying that she's not doing anything behind my back. Indeed, while I believe Lan when she told me that she's now working in a restaurant (She said she doesn't like working in Bar Stop), I'm not so sure that she goes straight home at 10pm. She doesn't respond to my SMS after that time and she always wakes up late every morning, sometimes even at lunchtime. I'm not discounting the possibility that she's moonlighting in Bar Stop or somewhere else. After all, she does need money and has not been asking me for any. For one thing, she used to earn so much more in Bar Stop. Kym, her boss was paying her 1,000,000 Dong (S$100) a day when I knew them, much more than than what she got in the previous workplace... so going back to a restaurant is a downgrade. For all I know, she may still be following men back home every night. For all I know, she may have other boyfriends too.

However, do you believe it, I can close one eye to this. The reason is that I myself am not entirely faithful to her. Besides Lan, I keep in touch with Tingting in Shenzhen and another girl (I got to know her in Embassy Lounge at Pretchaburi) in Bangkok. The difference between this relationship and others is that I'm more committed to Lan than the other two girls. This is the first time I've ever picked up somebody in a nightspot, and she's the first one who's so young and pretty. And I've chased her hard and long enough that she now treats me as her bf, and I don't want to lose her. I want to bed her eventually. She can be my part-time gf in Saigon, just like I know I have someone to meet when I visit Shenzhen and Bangkok in future.

By the way, all these is happening when I have a Queen at home. So brothers blue_swatch and haha_123 shouldn't have worries about me over-committing into this relationship. It's just me... I have a loving wife at home, but I still have the lusty side in me. Sigh... In fact, when signs began to emerge that Lan really likes me and is prepared to show me to her mum, etc, I began to feel guilty. Though she had played me out in Saigon, now I feel that I am the bad guy. Till today, she believes that this good man in Singapore would eventually marry her and bring her back to Singapore, when the furthest I'm willing to go is a LDR and good bonks when I visit Saigon.
---
__________________
Tomahawk
  #58  
Old 22-10-2007, 10:12 AM
Tomahawk's Avatar
Tomahawk Tomahawk is offline
Samster
 
Join Date: Dec 2001
Posts: 165
Mentioned: 0 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 0 Post(s)
My Reputation: Points: 245 / Power: 24
Tomahawk is a Helpful and Caring SamsterTomahawk is a Helpful and Caring SamsterTomahawk is a Helpful and Caring Samster
I Yearn To Return To Vietnam

Brothers, I want to ask something about the hotels. You all have obviously been around so you'll have a better idea than me.

OK, so all hotels in Vietnam are not girl-friendly, right? The rules don't allow non-married locals to be in the same room after 9pm. I did read about this in some Caucasian's blog as well.. He was recounting his encounters in Saigon and Nha Trang.

However, this rule isn't strictly enforced, yah? The bigger hotels like Mondial and Caravelle take the rule seriously, however, the budget ones like those in the Phan Ngu Lao area find their ways around the law. No wonder Lan and I were able to sneak into the hotel on our first night. But I'm curious about something... if the law prohibits unmarried couples to be together, how come girls are allowed to go in just by showing their ICs? Is this IC thing the law or just the hotels' own requirements?
__________________
Tomahawk
  #59  
Old 22-10-2007, 08:23 PM
blue_swatch blue_swatch is offline
Guest
 
Join Date: Feb 2004
Posts: 1,288
Mentioned: 0 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 1 Post(s)
My Reputation: Points: 390 / Power: 0
blue_swatch is a living Saint! - you won't find betterblue_swatch is a living Saint! - you won't find betterblue_swatch is a living Saint! - you won't find betterblue_swatch is a living Saint! - you won't find better
Re: I Yearn To Return To Vietnam

Ok at least now we know wat's happening and u already have an OC at home.

But whatever cock and bull story they cook up, take it with a pinch of salt. Not that I know Vietnamese very well but probably a bit more than u do. Well im sure u r old enough to make your own decisions but I guess ur confused and tempted now as a STY just tried to hook u up. Believe me, if it is not Lan, it will probably be some other girls in saigon that u will be writing about now. Like i said, i strongly believe we are just a passport for them out of poverty. Words are cheap, especially from someone whom u met at such a place, worse still from a 18 years old (if i remember correctly). Wat is she doing there in the 1st place at her age.

Just bonk and move on at best my friend. Seperately, its supposed to be enforced strictly, especially at large hotels. But at lower end hotels, owners there probably want to make more money and hence it is loosely enforced.
  #60  
Old 22-10-2007, 09:58 PM
haha_123 haha_123 is offline
Samster
 
Join Date: Oct 2007
Posts: 335
Mentioned: 0 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 6 Post(s)
My Reputation: Points: 273 / Power: 18
haha_123 is one of the Best!haha_123 is one of the Best!haha_123 is one of the Best!
Re: I Yearn To Return To Vietnam

Quote:
Originally Posted by blue_swatch View Post

But whatever cock and bull story they cook up, take it with a pinch of salt. Not that I know Vietnamese very well but probably a bit more than u do. Well im sure u r old enough to make your own decisions but I guess ur confused and tempted now as a STY just tried to hook u up. Believe me, if it is not Lan, it will probably be some other girls in saigon that u will be writing about now. Like i said, i strongly believe we are just a passport for them out of poverty. Words are cheap, especially from someone whom u met at such a place, worse still from a 18 years old (if i remember correctly). Wat is she doing there in the 1st place at her age.

Very well said, bro blue_swatch. No matter what we do, or how much fun we had outside, we always return to our wife and kids at the end of the day.

As for gal-friendly hotels, there are nice 3-star hotels along Le Thanh Ton St and Thu Khoa Huan St. These hotels are located next to Ben Thanh Market and cost about 40 USD per night. Just register the gal with her ID at the Front Desk, and nobody will disturb you throughout the night.
Advert Space Available
Bypass censorship with https://1.1.1.1

Cloudflare 1.1.1.1
Reply



Bookmarks

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off



All times are GMT +8. The time now is 12:20 AM.


Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.8.10
Copyright ©2000 - 2025, vBulletin Solutions, Inc.
User Alert System provided by Advanced User Tagging (Pro) - vBulletin Mods & Addons Copyright © 2025 DragonByte Technologies Ltd.
Copywrong © Samuel Leong 2006 ~ 2025 ph