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Old 27-12-2004, 01:06 PM
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Re: Pubs along Joo Chiat

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40 mins for $10? or $20? Thanx bro!
$10... but go those shops sell a lot of these cards one i think can buy at $8.50
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Why can't we all leave in peace....

Cos they shit thru brain n think using ass......
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Re: Pubs along Joo Chiat

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heheh... so far the cheapest i know is still chatchat card

but personally i just call direct, just moderate the use...
after so long she oso know its expensive la...
after all, we cant really communicate much...

Chat Chat is not the cheapest....I think it is $10 for 15 mins furthermore...there is times that the reception not clear....althought seldom...

Real Card is the cheapest so far that I can find with the clear reception...$10 for 18 mins....some place sell that card for $8++
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40mins if i never remember wrongly

eh....I think it is not for 40mins....it is only 15 mins.....if really 40 mins then really have a bad reception liao....becos last time there is a calling card called Top Card with 28 mins receptions really like shit liao...
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Re: Pubs along Joo Chiat

dude, the reason is simple, all this really cheap cards route the calls through internet, so the quality is naturally bad especially since they are all 2nd tier providers

CHATCHAT card

btw, for the absolute cheapest rate for all these cards (whichever one you want)...

BUY IT ONLINE HERE

gee, all the secret is out heheh
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dude, the reason is simple, all this really cheap cards route the calls through internet, so the quality is naturally bad especially since they are all 2nd tier providers
gee, all the secret is out heheh
Gees....... Seems like we got a new advisor here. wahahahahaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa.
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you feeling bored right
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Re: Pubs along Joo Chiat

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you feeling bored right
Not bored....... Forgot where I came back from.. keke

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She was doing tis when sitting on my face. hehe
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Not bored....... Forgot where I came back from.. keke

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She was doing tis when sitting on my face. hehe
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Re: Pubs along Joo Chiat

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kan bo liaos, stupid place dun even have enough staff to handle the situation
they did handle it well ..... the kj came in and join in the wacking of the fella ....
ha ha ha

the lady boss was screaming dun mess up my joint ..... while the boss shouting brother brother dun mess up leh ....settle settle .......

btw, i was drinking with those at the next table he trying to mess up.... abunch of friends but then was in the toilet when the thing started .....
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Re: Pubs along Joo Chiat

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Chat Chat is not the cheapest....I think it is $10 for 15 mins furthermore...there is times that the reception not clear....althought seldom...

Real Card is the cheapest so far that I can find with the clear reception...$10 for 18 mins....some place sell that card for $8++
i think safest is ask your gal to call from vietnam .....

the best reception is mobi which cost VND5,000 (@S$0.50) to the cheapest which is e-voiz VND600 (@S$0.06) per minute ...
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Re: Pubs along Joo Chiat

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btw, i was drinking with those at the next table he trying to mess up.... abunch of friends but then was in the toilet when the thing started .....
if i you, come out shake head and leave straight away...
cant be bothered man
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Re: Pubs along Joo Chiat

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hullo, look who is talking sia ..... what u know also what i have lectured ..... unless i kenna "#### tao" maybe i crazy. we sort of spoke about it when in danang to take about 2 to 3 years mah and she technically agree .... last night she callled me and sobbing mah ....saying she really wanna start a family with me soon ........
Dun really understand her rationale behind this whole thing. Just exercise caution.

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hello! its lament you talking about. he definitely knows what to do...... i hope.
Me just giving him a little nudge in case he kana Gong Tao.
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Re: Pubs along Joo Chiat

Thanks to Shagua, I think I will improvise and improve on his basic Vietnamese Dictionary . One word of caution, as Vietnamese in its original form has intonations and thus many times interpreting of a word depends on the context of the entire message and because we receive them in sms, the tones is not there and thus interpretations may be warped.

As for pronounciation, I try my best to give English version but sometimes try it with a little of Cantonese accent to get the right pronounciation.
Please note that this meant for you to learnt how to interpret basic daily sms and this will take time. Vietnamese grammar is close to malay grammar. There are numerous website offering free lesson on line. Spoken and written Vietnamese differs due to habits.

I myself learn to read and write after going for basic Viet lessons, however as for spoken Vietnamese, I never really learnt until I started going to Vietnam and in many sense I know many spoken rather than written words.
So be careful when you write sms to your gals, Viet words have double meaning when use wrongly.

People terms
Anh (pronounced as “ang”)= I/You (Male)
Em (pronounced as “M”)= I/You (Female)
Bo Me (pronounced as “boh meh”)/ Cha Me (pronounced as “char meh”)= Parents
Bo = Father Me = Mother Ban (pronounced as “bun”) = Friend
Ban Tot (pronounced as “bun tok”) = Good Friend
Ban Than (pronounced as “bun teng”) = Very Close Friend (almost like lovers but not yet)
Con Gai (pronounced as “cong guy”) = Girl
Con Trai (pronounced as “cong try”) = Boy
Ban Trai / Gai (pronounced as “bun tok”) = Boy/Girl Friend
Nguoi Yeu (pronounced as “Ngui U”) = Lover
Ong Xa (pronounced as “Ong sa”) / Chong (pronounced as “Chong”) = Hubby
Ba Xa (pronounced as “Bar sa”) / Vo (pronounced as “Ver”)= Wife
Gia Dinh (pronounced as “Kia Deng”) = Family
Ai (pronounced as “I”) = Who / Somebody

Common Connectors
Khong (pronounced as “cong”)= No/ Negative Expression (Any words following this becomes negative), Short form is “KO” or “KG”
Vang (pronounced as “vung”) / Da (pronounced as “ya” in the South and “za” in the North) = Yes
Nhung (pronounced as “nung”) / Ma (pronounced as “mar”) = But
Nua (pronounced as “nuar”) = Again Neu (pronounced as “new”) = If
Dung (pronounced as “don’t”) = Correct / Right
Roi (pronounced as “roy”) = Already
Co (pronounced as “kor ”)= Have (sometimes can be used as “Yes)
Duoc (pronounced as “duc”) = literally “Can get” / “Achievable” (in the sense of asking for permission for something) Example “Duoc Bao Lau” = “Got how long”
Khong Duoc = Cannot be done/achieve Duoc Khong = Can be done/achieve or not
Chua (pronounced as “cher”) = Yet to Voi (pronounced as “vuy”) = With
Qua (pronounced as “kwa”) / Rat (pronounced as “rak” but Vietnamese usually pronounced it as “zak”) = Very
Co The (pronounced as “kor ter”)= Can Khong The (pronounced as “cong ter”)= Cannot

Expression of Feelings
Yeu (pronounced as “U”)= Love
Thich (pronounced as “thick” or “turk”)= Like
Nho (pronounced as “U”)= Remember / Miss [someone]
Gian (pronounced as “yang”) = Angry
Ghen (pronounced as “gang”) = Jealous
Buon (pronounced as “bonng”) = Sad / Boring
Vui (pronounced as “vuy”) = Happy
Vui lam(pronounced as “vuy lam”) = Very happy
Hanh Phuc (pronounced as “hang phuc”) = Very Blessed (like “xin fu” in Chinese)
Dau (pronounced as “dow”) = Pain Hien (pronounced as “hint”) = Virtuos
Dau Tim (pronounced as “dow tim”) = Heart-Pain / Broken Heart
[basic expressinon] Qua/Lam = Very ….
Rat [basic expressinon] = Very ….

Some Vocab
Di (pronounced as “D”) = Go
Den (pronounced as “Den”) = Come
Lam (pronounced as “Lam”) = Make / Work ….etc depending on context
Nhieu (pronounced as “new”)= Many / A lot
It (pronounced as “it”) / Chuc Chuc (pronounced “chook chook”) = A little
Het (pronounced as “hack”) = Run out / Over already
Dep (pronounced as “depth”) = Pretty
Eg: Dep lam = Beautiful (for Gals), Dep Trai = Handsome
Ngu (pronounced as “ngo”) = Sleep Nghi (pronounced as “ngee”) = Rest
Nghi (pronounced as “nghee”) = Think Met (pronounced as “met”) = Tired
Benh (pronounced as “burn”) = Sick
Dien Thoai (pronounced as “dian toy”) = Telephone (short form is “dt”)
Xin Loi (pronounced as “sing loy”) = Sorry
Xin tha loi cho (pronounced as “sing ta loy cher”) = Please forgive me
Ngoi (pronounced as “ngoy”) = Sit Xao (pronounced as “sow”) = Lie (Lying)
That (pronounced as “thick”) = Truth (in the case such as “Rat that” = really true/truly”)
Song (pronounced as “song”) = Stay (where one stay)
Hat (pronounced as “hark”) = Sing Doi (pronounced as “doy”) = Wait
Doi (pronounced as “doy”) = Hungry
Doi Buon(pronounced as “doy bom”) = Very Hungry
Hieu (pronounced as “hew”) = Understand
Biet (pronounced as “beet”) = Know
Viet (pronounced as “veet”) = Write Doc (pronounced as “tok”) = Read
Noi (pronounced as “noy”) = Speak Hoi (pronounced as “hoy”) = Tell
Cho (pronounced as “Cho”) = Give
Mong (pronounced as “monk”) / Hy Vong (pronounced as “hee vong”)= Hope/Wish for oneself
Chuc (pronounced as “chook”)= Hope/Wish for someone
Mua (pronounced as “mu”) = Buy Eg “Mua Do (pronounced as “doe” = Shopping
An (pronounced as “ang”) = Eat Ve (pronounced as “vay”) = Return
Choi (pronounced as “chui”) = Play Uong (pronounced as “uong”) = Drink
Gap (pronounced as “kap”) / Thay (pronounced as “thigh”)= See / Meet
Xem (pronounced as “sim”) = Watch (usually for watching tv or movie)
Cam on(pronounced as “kam en”) = Thank You
Lam Tinh (pronounced as “Lam teng”) = Make Love
Kiem Tien (pronounced as “Kim Tin”) = Earn Money
Can Tien (pronounced as “chan tin”) = Need Money
Khong co Tien (pronounced as “cong kaur tin”) = No Have Money
Het Tien (pronounced as “het tin”) = Run out of money eg. handphone

Food terms
Com (pronounced as “kum”)= Rice Com (pronounced as “kum”)= Rice
Pho (pronounced as “fur”)= Kway-teow like noodles
Mien (pronounced as “mean”)= Noodles Bo (pronounced as “bore”)= Beef
Ca (pronounced as “ka”)= Fish Ga (pronounced as “gar”)= Chicken
De (pronounced as “yeah”)= Mutton Ech (pronounced as “er”)= Frog
Chao Ech/ Chao Er= Frog-leg porridge
Rau (pronounced as “row” as in rowdy)= Vegetable
Nuoc (pronounced as “nerd”)= Liquid
Nuoc Suoi (pronounced as “nerd soy”)= Water
Nuoc Yen (pronounced as “nerd yeng”)= Bird Nest Drink
Cam (pronounced as “kam”)= Orange (Nuoc Cam = orange juice)
Da (pronounced as “da”)= Ice Duong (pronounced as “don’t”)= Sugar
Sua (pronounced as “sir”)= Milk
Sua Dua Nhan (pronounced as “sir dow nan”)= Soya Bean Milk
Sua Chua (pronounced as “sir cho”)= Yoghurt
Ca phe (pronounced as “car fair”)= Coffee Tra (pronounced as “cha”)= Tea
Nuoc Mieng (pronounced as “nerd ming”)= Saliva
Ngon (pronounced as “ngong”)= Delicions
Cay (pronounced as “kai”)= Hot (as in too much chilli)
Ngot (pronounced as “ngot”)= Sweet
Nong (pronounced as “nhong”)= Warm / Hot (applicable to weather as well)

Positional terms
Ngoai (pronounced as “ngoay”) = Outside Dau (pronounced as “dow”) = Where
O (pronounced as “er”) = At / In Ngoai (pronounced as “ngoay”) = Outside
Thang (pronounced as “tang”) = Straight Ahead
Xuong (pronounced as “soon”) = Down (as in downstairs)
Tren Duong (pronounced as “trend jung”) = On my way to ……
Day (pronounced as “die”) = Here / This
Kia (pronounced as “kia”) = There / That

Past/Future/Present Tense
Dang (pronounced as “dung”) = Event that is in the process of happening
Da (pronounced as “dung”) = Event that has happen
Se (pronounced as “say”) = Event that will happen

Numbers
Mot (pronounced as “mock”) = 1 Hai (pronounced as “hai”) = 2
Ba (pronounced as “bar”) = 3 Thu (pronounced as “ter”) = 4
Nam (pronounced as “nam”) = 5 Sau (pronounced as “sau”) = 6
Bay (pronounced as “bye”) = 7 Tam (pronounced as “thumb”) = 8
Chin (pronounced as “chin”) = 9 Muoi (pronounced as “mui”) = 10
Tram (pronounced as “charm”) = hundreds
Nghin (pronounced as “ngan” or “nghin”) = thousands
Trieu (pronounced as “chieu”) = millions
Number system is like Chinese so for Eleven (Muoi Mot) and for twenty (Hai Muoi) and so on.

Time Terms
May (pronounced as “may “)= What (used for asking about numbers, date date and time)
Gio (pronounced as “yer” for south or “zer” for the north) = Time / Hour
Eg: What Time = May Gio , 5 Gio (usually written as “5g” = 5 o’clock
Ruoi (pronounced as “re”) = half
Eg: When they say “1 Tram Ruoi” = 150, “5g Ruoi” = 5.30
Bay (pronounced as “bay “) Gio= Now
Mot lat (pronounced as “mock lark “) / Mot chuc (pronounced as “mock chook “)= In a while (usually the latter is of shorter time frame)
Eg “doi mot chuc” or “doi 1 chuc” = wait a while, “1 chuc nua” = in a little while
Truoc (pronounced as “trock “) = Before
Sau (pronounced as “sow “) = After
Thoi Gian (pronounced as “toy zan “) = Period of time
Ranh (pronounced as “rung”) = Free time
Lau (pronounced as “lau”) = Long time
Khi Nao (pronounced as “key now”)= When

Other Expressions
Gi (pronounced as “yi” [south] or “z” [north]) = What
Cai (pronounced as “ker”) Gi = What do you want? / What is it
Khong Co gi = You are welcome / small matter
Khong Sao (pronounced as “sow” = Doesn’t Matter / Never Mind
O Dau (pronounced as “er dow”) = At where (literally = where are u)
Nha (pronounced as “nia”) = Home Cho (pronounced as “cho”) =Workplace / Market
Khach San (pronounced as “cut sun”) = Hotel
Tai Sao (pronounced as “thigh sow”) / Sao = Why
Bao Nhieu (pronounced as “bow new”) = How much …..
Bao Lau (pronounced as “bow new”) = How Long …..
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Warning to those about to be involved with Vietnamese Woman

Warning to those about to be involved with Vietnamese Woman

I understand that I have always advocated the greatness of a relationship with a Viet woman, but in recent days, I have seen many suffered the effects of a failed Vietnamisation program. What I have advocated in my numerous postings are the essences of my own experiences and those who failed and the wise words from their own kind both in Singapore and Vietnam.

They are after all, A woman
I am not saying that I yield great power or influence but I have bought numerous people into this little world. The key to my little success among them in the fact that I have learn many of their ways and I understand them rather well. Maybe because I have many close sisters in my initial cheonging days, I respected them and they taught me much about the world they live in.

This understanding of their culture allows me to know what they seek for in a relationship, how they think and their opinions towards relationships. Remember many are here to seek to seek their fortune and not a lover as in the words of one of my ex-Ba Xa when she first knew me.

In the end of the day, they are no different from any other woman. They still yearn for emotional comfort and solace. Just think of yourself when you are trapped in a loveless relationship with another woman. This is the world they live and breathe in every single day.

Like any woman whom selfishly protects their heart from being hurt by a man, its no different from this woman. The winner is whoever has the ability to stir up the true emotions. Mind games are fun but dangerous if you are the loser. Time and patience is the key to winning the battle and nothing else.

Some say because I know their language and that gave me an advantage. But then I have played the same game before their language. The only edge I have is when the gal is new, I gain friendship faster and also assess to gals whom have limited language ability. Knowing their language does not make me any better too.

Keeping my Sanity
Many undergo a failed Vietnamisation program because they concentrated their effort on a single gal only to realize the pain and agony that comes later as ignoring a better one. Many of us clamour for that solid gal but then ignore the fact that we should seek for one whom like us and not the other way round. Of course, sometimes its not really whom we want. In that case, just don’t pay too much attention and just move on to the next.

I kept myself sane by having many pots at the same time. But then I never lie to them, if I have more than gals, I do inform them of the other’s existence. This is for me to filter out those they do like me and those who don’t. By doing so, they have to fight to win our hearts and not us. Those who survive the time trial will make it to the final cut and most often or not, many failed.

My main excuse is that being a non-Vietnamese, I am truly flattered by their love but then I need to be sure their feelings for me are real and not laid with many ill intentions. Hence I need to know many to find a good one. Besides, do you think that you are really the only man in their life ?????

I remember a cousin of my friend being involved with a regular’s proclaimed official gal. I warned him not to be involved cause I know the boyfriend. He told me that his gal doesn’t love this man anymore and is finding a way to break up with him. On the other hand, the boyfriend claims that his gal told him that my friend’s cousin is making all the advances on her and she is just playing along. I remember attending the birthday of a viet gal in a chalet. My friend’s cousin went with and not the official boyfriend.

Who’s the Boss
Another key is be in control and not be controlled, we Singapore man often let the woman rule our roost. Stamp your authority when you think you are right and make sure that they know that you are unhappy. Respect is a two-way street.

Take one of my recent gal. Due to the recent events, on one of those nights, I called her and asked where she was. She said that she is not working and out somewhere nearby having kopi with her friends. I told her that I would drop by shortly and meet up with her. She then told me that she was out with a male customer at Sentosa. Well she said that she only went out for sight-seeing and not to bed and she lied cause she do not want me to be hurt. I told her off that all I want is the truth even if she were to sleep with the customer, I don’t bother. The fact is that a lie is told and I dislike that more. Well, just a few nights ago, she told me she had to go elsewhere to work, some bro spotted her and told me about it. This place is where sleeping is a must. When asked of her whereabouts, the truth was told and that’s ok.

In the name of Love
Love….. but at what price in this area ….. what is really love…. many bros I know of whether married or single still gets trapped in this illusion of love sometimes. With their submissiveness and attention to detail as well as their sweet words, many hearts have melted believing that romance is in the air.
Remember this if I am a Vietnamese, I will be flatter by this love but then again are we Vietnamese. Love does not happen overnight or in days. Love with a viet takes time to build through respect and understanding.

For those whom known my royal highness, I knew her for 8 months before we really took off for the next 1 and a half years. She never asked of anything from me except that I can only see her after she finish her rounds. No gals can get 30 seconds of my time in 51 without incurring her wrath. Well, even its over between us, we are still good friends and can still joke about both our new-found relationship.

Because of love, one feels hurt to see their loved ones working or in the company of others, many sort to change their lives. This change means that one have to provide the source of livelihood for them. But then do you know what they do, who they are with whenever you are not around them. They live in a world where lies are truth and the truth are lies.

For the lucky ones, you get a devoted gal and the others a broken heart. The decision to change their lives comes from them and not ours. Let them make a decision out of love respect for you but not ours to make.

Peer Influence
Viet gals are by nature very traditional but circumstances have changed their ways plus “trainings” and advice from good friends whom are working here. The first thing that they have always learnt is that “All Singapore are liars” but then again who is the liar sometimes.

Some sisters create this web of lies and half-truths as they do not wish to lose a prize asset that can generate income for them. Besides, there are so much in-fighting between them that since they can’t get any happiness, they destroy seek to destroy the happiness of others.

When I came back, one of my gals told me that many gals told her that I am a free-loader and do not give any money to any gals that are involved with me. She told me that she was bombarded by them constantly that she is sick and tired of hearing all this. She claims that she told them that this is her problem and decision and has nothing to do with them. She loves me just the way it is as she can still earn her own living and she knows of my difficulty.

Were you really cheated?
For many, when things go wrong in a relationship. We often feel negative and blame the other party. The blame often lies with the gals. They are not such horrible monsters as many make them out to be.

For those who say they were cheated. Well, think again, were you really cheated? It takes 2 hands to clap and you are just but a willing partner in the name of love and its just that the results is not what you intend it to be.
So, quit bitching when in reality, you were a willing partner in this game and its just that they outsmarted you sometimes.

Advice from a Vietnamese
In my recent trips to Vietnam, i got to know a Vietnamese cafe owner who mhave a cafe where she has several gals working for her.

When I ask her jokingly to introduce a wife to me. She said, “In Vietnam, there are many gals and whether they work or not, it doesn’t matter. All this depends on 1’s good fortune to find a good gal. They are many gals looking out for someone to get them out of their current situation, love is not a key issue. My gals all sleep with man for money but then if she really loves you and make her decision to give up all this for you out of love and nothing else, you are one lucky man. So take your time and find one whether they are from good background or not. They are still Vietnamese woman in heart.”

Afterword
I am not writing this to poke jest at anyone misery but I wish to encourage those whom have lost heart and for those that want to join this fraternity of the pitfalls. Vietnamese people are still fascinating to me, I profess to be a “Viet fanatic”. I have chosen to be among their midst and I feel like a part of them too.

Just remember to read between the lines of most of my postings, I believe I have dispensed enough means to enjoy Vietnamisation. It’s only the actual execution that makes the difference. Being the guru, I have to keep some tricks up my sleeve else everybody is happily Vietnamised and I have no fun left.

I do hope to see Singapore being Vietnamised one day….and as for now I will still continue my search for my real and last official BA XA. ………
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